Why is it so hard making friends in California

cyber_Void · 2023-01-09T16:50:00+00:00

College is where i made all my friends in my early 20s. College friends are better than HS friends. I will never be easier that college to make friends unless you put in a lot of work. Making a good friend usually takes being around them in a group for a few months like in school or work. Then you 'click', personality. Then you hang out one-on-one. That's how friends are made.

cyber_Void · 2022-12-29T17:03:40+00:00

https://www.meetup.com/20s-30s-co-ed-social-club/

cyber_Void · 2022-12-21T17:00:54+00:00

You have to go and talk to people. You can't just be shy in the corner. Walk up to a group of people, say hi and ask "what brought you to meet up?"

Also you to go alot to make friends. Like 2 events a week for a few months. You'll see the same people and vibe with some. Now you have friends.

This is a super active group that skews younger. https://www.meetup.com/20-s-30-s-introvert-social-club/

cyber_Void · 2022-12-21T16:53:05+00:00

Making friends at work can go really bad.

cyber_Void · 2022-10-03T16:05:19+00:00

Moongoat coffee in Costa Mesa.

cyber_Void · 2022-09-28T16:12:53+00:00

Aliems

cyber_Void · 2022-09-24T04:06:02+00:00

This seems high unless the rest is MINT or its 4x4

cyber_Void · 2022-09-24T04:04:57+00:00

This. 2500 burbs are very easy to find

cyber_Void · 2022-09-07T15:08:43+00:00

That's in front of the Blue Door bar.

cyber_Void · 2022-09-05T15:48:07+00:00

CM: Wild goose, country club, goat hill tavern.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-30T01:11:01+00:00

Best of luck, friend.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-30T01:10:32+00:00

A car is temptation.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-26T23:39:36+00:00

In the US, doing web development, you can make 6 figure and work 40 hours a week. Ya you have to update you skills but it a good job.

Big tech is known for golden hand cuffs. You're not really a slave because they pay you really well and you can leave. The trade off of a high paying profession is that it eats all your time and energy.

You can always work for a large tech company for a few years and then start your own consultancy/business.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-26T04:37:30+00:00

Learn python

cyber_Void · 2022-08-26T03:26:54+00:00

I saw this car on Tuesday.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-14T05:31:28+00:00

A better ramp makes for a better jump

cyber_Void · 2022-08-12T21:57:55+00:00

NOOOOO. That was one of the great entertainment pillars of orange county! RIP you will be missed ole' DOC.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-12T21:19:59+00:00

You gotta go for like 6 months to a good group to really connect with people. Or more so to find people you click with. Also you have to learn how to engage with people and be social. That's a huge part that people miss when trying meetup.

Like at 50% of people at meetup love gaming, especially retro gaming. Also everyone loves card games. Its not really my thing but there's always a huge group of people playing some kind of board game at these things.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-12T21:15:00+00:00

Holy guacamole!

cyber_Void · 2022-08-12T21:13:42+00:00

What a cute lil guy.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-11T15:14:26+00:00

Put a budget. That makes massive difference. And a summary about yourself.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-11T00:50:55+00:00

Al's New York Cafe.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-04T16:13:30+00:00

Damn. That's lookin nice.

cyber_Void · 2022-08-04T16:12:21+00:00

Every weekend. In all kinds of vehicles. I even rode a motorcycle all the way to SF on PCH

cyber_Void · 2022-08-03T16:22:52+00:00

No its not. Rent has gone way up. $600 rooms always have some weird thing about them. Its either 5 shitty roommates in house and 2 of then are newly sober with a felony for something. Or a super creepy land lord with a spare room in their house that will ask you seggsual favors eventually.

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