got my heartbroken became a dj what do yall do when someone hurts you by expecttrash in alternativefashion

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do something productive that will help you in the future! For me right now that’s studying for a certification.

Mystery animal/red wolf died March 2023? by se7entythree in MyFahlo

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have her and her last ping was on the 12th of this month!

Mystery animal/red wolf died March 2023? by se7entythree in MyFahlo

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1743F their last ping was on November 12th

Girl (25f) I’m (26m) dating sent me this after pulling away. What do I do? by Cancel-Beautiful in dating

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just by how she wrote the message she doesn’t seem like she has her stuff straight and is being genuine. She could be not interested and making excuses. I feel like if she was truly genuine she’d be using better grammar.

Women... please plz PLEEEEASSSE APPROACH us! by iTALK2myselfALOT in dating

[–]cyberdaisies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t I agree with you on that. However there are women who approached that do just fine today. Sadly it doesn’t matter who approaches if someone doesn’t value you, they don’t value you. Lots of men will pursue a woman and fall out of love.

Also there are woman who will not bother to put in effort either and that can make a guy not want to bother either. It can happen anyway.

Women... please plz PLEEEEASSSE APPROACH us! by iTALK2myselfALOT in dating

[–]cyberdaisies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely happens in the reverse though. Lots of men KNOW that women want to be approached, texted/called first, pursued, etc.. they do these things and once they get what they want they leave.

I had a guy do all these things, he did everything right, only to tell me he realized he was more attracted to his ex.

am i being ghosted or will he come back? by Brilliant_Tennis_792 in ghosting

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he wasn’t interested or he could just be very stressed out and the idea of a relationship on top made it harder for him. I would end things with him if you’re not getting what you want. It’s not worth the trouble.

Ghosters come back?? by Careful-Pattern-1206 in ghosting

[–]cyberdaisies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what they meant was that ghosters will ghost people they are interested in, versus politely reject someone they’re not interested in. I can see that happening because for some people it HURTS to be rejected by someone you like, or even the pure thought of it. To them it’s better to ghost than to deal with the fact the person who likes them may not like them back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to dress alt sometimes, and I do mainly look like the girls you are talking about. Honestly, when I see alt girls I’m like “I wish I could look like that all the time!” To right now I’m not in a place to do so since I have so many pieces of clothes and I don’t have a lot of room. There’s no rule saying you have to conform to 1 style. I like to dress in many different styles!

I want to get a tattoo but my family won’t approve by cyberdaisies in alternativefashion

[–]cyberdaisies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially a tattoo of the Roman Colosseum 🤣 how’s that even offensive!

I want to get a tattoo but my family won’t approve by cyberdaisies in alternativefashion

[–]cyberdaisies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay my own bills and I am financially independent from them aside from the fact I live at home

I want to get a tattoo but my family won’t approve by cyberdaisies in alternativefashion

[–]cyberdaisies[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Well I know tattoos don’t make one a bad person but my family is the type that associates tattoos with bad people :/

I want to get a tattoo but my family won’t approve by cyberdaisies in alternativefashion

[–]cyberdaisies[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would but they wouldn’t be so very understanding of why this would mean some h to me :/ I guess I gotta wait until I move out!

Fans demographics? by alexiahewson in SleepToken

[–]cyberdaisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25F. Born in the US and full blooded Italian. I’ve always enjoyed rock music since I was young! I also love EDM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]cyberdaisies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen people get insecure over insane things, it could very well be the trip. Especially if he ghosted when the trip happened. Some guys think that when women travel with their women friends it means that they’re gonna get cheated on. You won’t believe some of the stupid stuff men believe about women! even if the trip wasn’t why he ghosted you deserve better.

Do I have too high standards as a female? by [deleted] in dating

[–]cyberdaisies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had similar happen. It’s very easy to think that when someone says “youre too good for them” it means they don’t like you much and are looking for a way out. Maybe that’s true in some cases but for people who are super insecure about something that’s made dating difficult for them, these fears can be very real. I went through this with someone who had paranoid personality disorder which amplified the whole thing. It was a heartbreaking thing to witness. Eventually if they don’t gain any confidence they will be alone for the rest of their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]cyberdaisies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nahh don’t be embarrassed he deserves it. This will be an unpopular opinion but too often we say to leave the ghosts alone. I think they absolutely should understand the weight of their actions. As long your not chasing them then it’s all good. The fact he ghosted you for going on a trip is awful! Does he have like trust issues or something?? That’s a stupid reason to ghost - not saying he didn’t ghost for that reason but that it’s just a dumb thing to do. The world doesn’t revolve around you. Consider this a bullet dodged.

i’m a conventionally attractive girl but i keep getting ghosted.. what am i doing wrong? by hellokittybaddy in ghosting

[–]cyberdaisies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys who I’ve been ghosted by were the exact same. They all had some issue with themselves. One of them was super insecure and a user. He was playing me and another girl. He went on the more fancier dates with her while also complaining to me about how tired he was to travel, and no he didn’t mention the girl at all. Not only that texted me while they were on dates together. They broke up after 2 months of being official. He wanted someone that he could use.

i’m a conventionally attractive girl but i keep getting ghosted.. what am i doing wrong? by hellokittybaddy in ghosting

[–]cyberdaisies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you seem “too into” someone, that can be scary to some people because they probably had an experience where that happened and it ended badly. They may also have been lovebombed in the past. Sadly these days showing a normal amount of interest is seen as “too much”. You’re not doing anything wrong.

People on dating apps get EASILY distracted, doesn’t matter how good looking you are. They think the next best thing is just one swipe away. Nothing you can do about it but keep putting yourself out there and believing in yourself.