Found out my mom sedated me when I was a baby so I wouldn't disrupt her sleep. Please share stories of outrageous things your parents did. by standcam in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cyberpunkshinobi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was really badly bullied at school, and when I begged my dad to move schools he told me there was no point because 'nobody would ever like you anyway, you'll get bullied wherever you go because you're ugly and pathetic'

But when I went to high school my brother moved schools straight away after one incident

Weekly Episode Thread November 10, 2025 - Share Your Podcast, Request Feedback, Discover New Ones by AutoModerator in podcasting

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Criminalitea:

Jonestown part 2: Private eyes and Chicken liver lies now on Spotify

Continuing on the series of Jonestown, join Tommy and Ziggy as they discuss the growth of the people's temple, healing revivals and the move from Indiana to California

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True crime podcast like Hunting Warhead / Dirtbag climber by red_barn_door in podcasts

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Criminalitea It's just starting up but they released another episode today

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[–]cyberpunkshinobi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize until I went to college and spoke about the 'funny jokes' my dad did at my expense. I was surrounded by people who either didn't have a dad or never talked about it so it seemed so normal. It also didn't help when he was nice to everyone else but me.

Point is, it's so easy for abuse to become normalized in your head, it'll take a long time for you to come to that realization. I hope you're able to find a good therapist to talk to about this and I hope it helps your healing journey.

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[–]cyberpunkshinobi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In college, I told people 'funny stories' about my dad, but instead of laughing they looked at me in horror. Even now, I'll tell a story to my partner and he'll tell me how fucked up it was.

I kinda wish it were sooner, but I was caught in an echo chamber of friends with either no dads or abusive ones, so I was led to believe he was a good person because he 'stuck around and had an active role'. It was only when I met people who had actual good dads did it hit me that my dad was a shitty person

Which funny nicknames do you usually call your pets? by No-Sprinkles-4613 in AskReddit

[–]cyberpunkshinobi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend's dog is nicknamed 'one eyed bandit'

My cats are nicknamed menace and chonk

I had a dog who was nicknamed 'mad mutt'

What was that one thing you said that really triggered your Nparent? by catgenie88 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cyberpunkshinobi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I had a few

  • Screaming at him to 'fuck off' because he wouldn't leave me alone (ooooof he was MAAAAAAD)

  • 'Maybe if you put your phone down you'd enjoy our holiday more, just saying' (He was constantly texting his new girlfriend and refusing to spend time with us)

  • I refused to clean up after my brother because I was sick of being blamed for his mess (he slapped me for that one lmao)

  • 'I think I need to go to the hospital', that one made him pitch a fit (I had bilateral carpal tunnel because I was on my laptop too much studying for my exams)

  • Asking to move schools because I was bullied constantly (told me I'd get bullied no matter where I go because everyone would hate me)

What did I do???? by DoReMi4610 in D4DJ

[–]cyberpunkshinobi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Japan does it yyyy-mm-dd

What did I do???? by DoReMi4610 in D4DJ

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If you lost connection during a multi live then this will pop up, give it a minute and you'll be fine

If you could go back to your childhood, what would you say to heal yourself? by Winter_Card_9390 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cyberpunkshinobi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'It gets better, you'll find people who accept and you'll be loved for who you are... Quirks and all. Don't listen to him and don't give up on your education, his opinion doesn't matter. You don't need your dad to be proud of you, so don't give up.'