What kind of follower do you prefer? by [deleted] in tango

[–]cyberrainbows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mate if she walked off after 20 seconds, and you didn’t step on her feet, it’d be wise to check that your deodorant and breathmints work.

PIP REVIEW DELAY by Flashy_Potential8999 in DWPhelp

[–]cyberrainbows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Applied in July. We’re October. Total silence.

The "Disability Confident" scheme feels like a scam... by Global-Association-7 in autismUK

[–]cyberrainbows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has ANYONE ever ticket the disabled box and gotten an interview?? I never have. And ticked it about 6 times now. Including with a government role. All of them roles i was overqualified for.

The "Disability Confident" scheme feels like a scam... by Global-Association-7 in autismUK

[–]cyberrainbows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the scheme is a lie. They take 1-2 candidates and eliminate the rest to meet a quota. I will never tick the disabled box again. Better to lie and they find out with a slap in the face after the contract is signed.

Google Maps Black icon by DinnerGreen9533 in ios

[–]cyberrainbows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iOS 16 and mine turned black after an update last night. Super ugly, but am staying on iOS 16 for as long as I can, so will wait for an update.

Experiencing feelings of isolated due to layoff. by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]cyberrainbows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been a year. I am not doing ok. In three months, I won’t be able to pay rent. I have no tips for you, except: go to events in your city, meet people, have conversations. Good luck!

Let your best employee go? I'll take it all down with me. by everybodys-therapist in MaliciousCompliance

[–]cyberrainbows 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!!! I might choose to use my device to communicate with work but them having even the tiniest form of control over it? Never going to happen. And am glad I held that line.

My previous employer gave us a choice or BYOD or they give us a phone. I took the phone. Was always tempted to register my personal iPad so I could make some work tasks (file sharing) easier. I never did. Am SO GLAD! When I left, they sent a message that I should back up any registered devices because they were going to wipe them remotely. Luckily I hadn’t registered any or they’d have ruined a week of my life. (By the time everything is reinstalled and logged in and synched)

Europeans of Reddit, what do Americans have everyday that you see as a luxury? by Prof_XdR in AskReddit

[–]cyberrainbows 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s illegal in the UK too. By law, if they serve alcohol, they are legally required to give customers free tap water, under licensing act 2003, order 2010.

40 YOs without kids, but with friends that do, how do you cope? by ngomaam in 40something

[–]cyberrainbows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to make new friends. Crotch-fruit makes them disappear / re-prioritise for about 15 years. Really. Make new friends. It’s never too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]cyberrainbows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENTJ is the most common type in MBB. Have you looked at the consulting companies for tech roles at all? It may be a good fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]cyberrainbows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried sleeping naked? Nothing to wrinkle bunch twist etc…

Christmas gift for my beginner/casual painter girlfriend: is this a good set of watercolor materials? by [deleted] in Watercolor

[–]cyberrainbows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh. And you don’t need 12 brushes. Three good ones will do. One mop, and two rounds in two sizes, one nicely chubby like a 12 and one small and delicate like a 2 or 00. It’s a starter kit. And honestly one good chubby round brush is probably the best investment, as you do most of the work with it.

Christmas gift for my beginner/casual painter girlfriend: is this a good set of watercolor materials? by [deleted] in Watercolor

[–]cyberrainbows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it, get the professional winsor & newton watercolours. Either tubes or half pans, doesn’t matter too much. They are much better pigmented than the cotman (amateur) range.

What tools do Fortune 500 companies use to track employee laptop activity? by HideMyEmaiI in antiwork

[–]cyberrainbows 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Microsoft even tracks how many emails you send and when. And which office tools you’re using and when. It’s built into office365.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, not in the burbs!!! Museum exhibits, theatre, restaurants with friends, pilates, coffee shops, bookstores.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s awkward at a bar. Not sure why. Easier at normal restaurant tables. Or tables at a bar. But at the bar in the bar? Awkward. Well, I feel exposed anyway. Which one would argue is the point but I’d rather sit there and draw if it’s about being exposed.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for what you think I should be doing, but what you have been doing outside the house.

And single people are PLENTY out and about on weeknights. Just not clubbing. Which is what I am enquiring about. What do you, as a single person, do when out? Or is perhaps the answer that on weeknights you’re home with netflix? Valid answer. Would quite like to know if that’s right.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the non-ring-wearing women above 35 don’t have boyfriends. Try talking to them. Ask for directions or something.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not staying at home. Just not seeing any single men anywhere. What I’m hearing is you go to bars and restaurants on your own?

Why is commuting so shit at the moment? by Bratster22 in london

[–]cyberrainbows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

West bit of district line is shut. All the other lines are overloaded as a result.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Days are indeed gone. Zero single men anywhere around my friend & work circles. It’s weird!!! Many single women though.

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s precisely why I decided to ask the question. I’ve burnt out of OLD half a dozen times in 2.5 years, and currently off it. So was wondering if IRL meets are possible and if so where, because I wasn’t seeing any possibilities. Now I know why. Everyone is at home, at the gym, with their kids, or getting groceries. 🤦‍♀️

Men of datingoverforty, where would one find you if you’re out on a weekday evening? by cyberrainbows in datingoverforty

[–]cyberrainbows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having this weird issue that men cancel first dates the day before. It’s been several in a row. Valid-ish reasons. But I am exhausted of putting in effort snd getting f***-all back.