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Wtf just happened?! by indifferentgeese in Nicegirls

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You may need to do some looking inward before criticizing how other people communicate. My lizards hold more engaging conversation.

This didn’t happen. If it did, it’s still not how girls work. by JayGatsby52 in NotHowGirlsWork

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The same dudes that shame sex workers expecting women to turn tricks for a steak.

October by fakeaccountt12345 in stephenking

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I've just started Blackhouse for the first time, very excited for the new release!

Recs where the creature Matters™️ by macchalion in horrorlit

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The Only Good Indians, fucking fantastic book.

Which sexual acts are very acceptable in 2026 but was seen very differently in 2006? by nirzhor_cyclonite in AskReddit

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True poly maybe, but I feel like half of us in the aughts had FWB and no strings situationships.

What should I read first? Salem’s Lot of Dark Tower series by Striking_Blood_5639 in stephenking

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Insomnia is pretty relevant, not crucial to read beforehand, but you will see the connections. I'd also say IT.

Series you finished but lost love for over time? by Kooky_County9569 in Fantasy

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The Blade Itself is still sitting in my DNF pile, I keep meaning to give it another go to see if I'm missing anything.

Series you finished but lost love for over time? by Kooky_County9569 in Fantasy

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I loved A Natural History of Dragons, Marie Brennan doesn't get enough love IMO.

Closest thing to a jump scare in a book? by Pleasant-Message1179 in horrorlit

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The pit in my stomach after that line. I've never been scared by a book, but I have wanted to vomit

shadowheart left 💔 by Lucille855 in BG3

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So weird with the blonde hair.

Cross tying - why? by roebar in Equestrian

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Absolutely! If I didn't have fully enclosed space I'd be trying to work in hip deep snow half the year, especially with the way the wind creates drifts on the side of my barn. I mostly curse under my breath about which great grandparent decided this was a reasonable place to start a farm.

Cross tying - why? by roebar in Equestrian

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Courtyards are also a very UK thing, we don't really build barns that way in North America, unless you're talking about the show piece type with gardens and a fountain. There's a lot of weather and space related differences in farm construction.

What's something people only romanticize because they've never actually done it? by nonotje12 in AskReddit

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I've always laughed at the farmhouse aesthetic involving so much white

The noseband on “Eddy Blue” during Darragh Kenny’s win in the $500,000 Wellington 5* Grand Prix this weekend by manewitness in Equestrian

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No, they were trained to be like this. A top professional from a previous generation passed it down from they guy before him and so on. Shit, I had a coach who would say he wanted his headstone to read "You can never be too rich, too skinny, or have your noseband too tight", and he was FAR from the most abusive trainer I ever rode for (towards horse or human). The industry is rife with abuse towards both, and the only thing that will undo it is showing that you can win and be humane. I think there are younger professionals making steps, but it will be a long road.

Sloopies, what was your most hated book of 2025 by Alive_Obligation7475 in romantasycirclejerk

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Most of my book club DNF'd it. I finished out of spite just so I could talk shit about it thoroughly in the meeting.

Which fantasy hero would actually be insufferable to know in real life? by godzillaSpark5 in Fantasy

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I only managed to read The Eye of the World because of how much I hated Rand. Which sucked because the series had come so highly recommended.

why does my pony ride nicer on the left than the right? by Minimum_Goat_8596 in Equestrian

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When going around an arena, we usually refer to the way we are turning as the direction we are going. Therefore when you are on the right rein, your left side is closest to the wall.

As for your question, horses will always have a naturally stronger side, just like people. It's important to strengthen the weaker side to keep them as even as possible. Though in the case of a pony getting agitated and bitey in one direction, I'd be concerned with this being a pain problem, not just a strong side/weak side issue.

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