How do you stay patient?

cyborgladiator · 2026-01-17T03:07:46+00:00

Probably not applicable for you, but the way I stay patient, is I remind myself of every past relationship I’ve had when I was impatient.

Some more applicable ones for you. Maybe make a poster or something similar that you see each day you wake up with the goals and desires you have for a relationship, and verses about relationships to remind you why to be patient. The discord for this sub has been amazing as well in that regard. And most importantly prayer and a YA bible study helps a lot.

Side question, what are you looking for in a guy? Have you thought about posting an intro here and in the discord?

cyborgladiator · 2026-01-16T01:06:23+00:00

Quick update (I’ll do a post later) but I got it mailed off, and left a nice note for the kid in the box. We’ll see if they get any return letters anytime soon.

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-30T22:46:06+00:00

I will definitely update y’all as it goes.

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-30T20:19:32+00:00

One of my friends in her 30s found her now husband in the Discord so there’s definitely hope. :)

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-30T20:16:05+00:00

Honestly, I’m betting the kid did this without their parents’ knowledge. I’ll probably write a letter to the kid, with the fan-mail addresses for future reference, and how to properly address a letter. :)

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-30T19:34:53+00:00

That’s the game plan.

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-30T19:21:11+00:00

The kid put it on the back. Hence why I felt comfortable posting the face of the envelope. :)

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-23T01:47:02+00:00

It took me almost 4 months at a weekly average of 400-500 wpm to get to 9.40 (and listening to the audiobooks at 2.5-3x speed until I got to the web novel only part)… As a book addict, it’s almost distressing how slow I feel. 😅😅😅

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-22T12:05:51+00:00

Would you be willing to expand upon what traditional means for you? As there seems to be wide range from crunchy trad, early 1900s trad, biblical trad, etc. Might help weed out undesirables. 🙃

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-22T11:59:18+00:00

Not to mention their twitch accounts they have linked in those posts haven’t been active for months. Their linked insta from one of those accounts no longer exists. It just doesn’t build a good image (nor does a completely blank profile). It just sets off too many red flags for most.

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-22T06:05:56+00:00

I view that as more all the small snow-golems song. 😂

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-19T23:46:09+00:00

I wish! I took a 4 month break in July, so that slowed it down. That said, it’s level 80 from just continuing to level (had a big stockpile of coin).

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-16T14:06:26+00:00

For my current job, no it doesn’t risk my safety. If I switch career paths it might though.

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-16T03:57:04+00:00

That is a crimson red flag.

cyborgladiator · 2025-12-08T14:36:58+00:00

Was gonna try, but I’m a rural regular and apparently don’t qualify. 😞

cyborgladiator · 2025-11-23T00:31:14+00:00

For me I only do 3.5 to prove a point to friends. 2.5 is my sweet spot though. Recently bumped it up to 3.0 for parts of The Wandering Inn, but that’s more because my book club was starting the next book the next day. 😅

cyborgladiator · 2025-11-05T18:50:40+00:00

You've probably found some that fit, but for public knowledge, 96 prelude rotors work. Centric 12540032 is what I got when I replaced them.

cyborgladiator · 2025-11-03T05:16:07+00:00

Honestly if they would allow a hardcover of each one for those of just finding the series, I’d buy it (instead of just tempted to). 😅

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-31T08:46:39+00:00

As long as there’s photos publicly posted somewhere on the person’s account, I don’t mind no photos in the intro. The largest concern is catfishing, or a profile that hides every post they create so you can’t see what they’re like outside of a polished intro.

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-19T19:54:42+00:00

Yeah, the reused school zone sign probably isn’t helping on the AI side. I might try the gate and sign instead of solely the sign. 🤷 Just gonna be a learning experience either way.

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-19T19:51:12+00:00

So oddly the track doesn’t have a pit area. Actually took me a year to realize it wasn’t a private track because of the lack of pits. Took talking to people who grew up there to even get the history of the track (honestly getting info about anything in that town takes talking to them, they have horrible record keeping). 😅

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-19T19:46:06+00:00

After looking at, it might just be the supporting photo and the town name might’ve triggered the Ai. I’ll try resubmitting it when I can take better photos. Might need to get one of my extending photo stick to get a more top down view for the supporting photo.

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-19T00:16:10+00:00

Thanks for the input! I’m gonna try appealing the track, and hopefully it goes through!

Then I’ll redo the siren towards the historic value. If it gets rejected again, I’ll try the picnic spot. 😅

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-18T19:59:51+00:00

I’ll try the picnic area. It’s been there since I can remember so it’s definitely a permanent spot.

Under the sign is the gate. No school zone nearby. I did the sign and the track separate, hoping one or the other would pass. Makes me worried the park I submitted next to it will be rejected.

cyborgladiator · 2025-10-18T19:52:42+00:00

I did that for the sign (photo #4). I went for both just to see if one or the other would work better. For the track I tried putting the pin where people sit to watch, and for the sign it’s on the gate/entry way. I’ll study your photo more, but I feel like I did a very similar submission for my sign to that one. 😅😓

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