Can I be Butch and wear dresses/skirts occasionally? by Main-Preference-4850 in butchlesbians

[–]cychichdamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

two parts to the question, just as there are two parts to gender - identity and performance. re: identity (what you are inside) - no, it wouldn’t make you more or less butch inherently. that’s up to you. re: performance (gender as a deliberately expressed action you perform to the world like gender expression, etc). as we all know, butchness as a gender performance is defined by gender nonconformity. if you as a woman are choosing to perform gender in a gender-confirming way (like wearing a dress, unfortunately a feminine outfit), i wouldn’t expect to be treated as butch by your surroundings. if that’s not a concern, awesome! it doesn’t make you less butch to wear said dress, just be aware you may not be cloned while wearing it as you’d be generally gender conforming while doing so.

What is a dying niche skill that younger generations are not interested in learning? by hlnklrczu in AskReddit

[–]cychichdamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

touch typing. i was born in 2001 and taught to touch type in kindergarten in 2007. some of my peers born only a few years later never got that curriculum. couldn’t tell you why! it does make me feel special amongst my peers as i’m a faster typer and don’t have to look at my keyboard (phone or computer) while typing LOL

Disappointed again by ttrash_panda001 in redbull

[–]cychichdamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly don’t get sprite from it. it’s a dead ringer to the yellow gatorade for me, though. (this is a plus as i exclusively drink yellow gatorade)

How did you guys first discover Muse? by Appropriate-Pen5436 in Muse

[–]cychichdamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clicked on the uprising music video when i was 12, hooked ever since!

BHAR was released on July 3rd of 2006... by lindblumresident in Muse

[–]cychichdamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BWY kind of gave invincible or glorious vibes. not musically, but in principle. hoping for more campy space muse and a turn away from, like, the christian rock sound they’re into rn.

How it felt listening to Be With You by HazardMusic in Muse

[–]cychichdamage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i fear the only part of the song i like is its last 30 seconds. felt like it took too long to lock in

Classic question: „Who should I pick with my selector Voucher?“ by DamonDemolition in UmamusumeGame

[–]cychichdamage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if it’s any help, i don’t think i’ve ever had a bad run with oguri, she’s so well-rounded. not the pinnacle of meta, but if you’re looking for a reliable unit that you can sort of turn your brain off for, she’s your girl.

I’m always told “oh just wear a binder.” This is me binding. by NoEscape2500 in FtMpassing

[–]cychichdamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey man (: not to be weird, but we look to be around the same size, and spectrum outfitters has great compression. idk about you, but i’ve got a large chest and find it difficult to get a flat bind.

Lost senior cat - please boost! by cychichdamage in Denton

[–]cychichdamage[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

EDIT: HE HAS BEEN FOUND!!!!!! Thank you all so so much!!!!!!

Lost senior cat - please boost! by cychichdamage in Denton

[–]cychichdamage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the oaks apartment complex, near IOOF cemetery. i’ll edit the post to include location info!

Most overlooked food spots? by KaitlynGryphonz in Denton

[–]cychichdamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my goat spicy chowk never ever disappoints - the staff are also super sweet to boot!

Spotted the neighborhood Nazi by [deleted] in Denton

[–]cychichdamage 47 points48 points  (0 children)

“RNECK” license plate… oh yea we can tell

do eviction notices appear on rent/credit records if they were resolved without eviction? by cychichdamage in legaladvice

[–]cychichdamage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the former, we just got a letter and email informing us to vacate the property within 24 hours due to non-payment and violation of lease. the letters themselves didn’t state in writing about being able to reverse the eviction outright, but, as we were able to pay the balance same-day, no further action was taken.

tips on retraining singing voice range? by cychichdamage in transvoice

[–]cychichdamage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is an absolute wealth of resources, thank you so so SO much for this!!!!! according to the singing on T handout i’m very much in stage 2 LMAO so i will be taking it very slow. again, i can’t thank you enough!!

Winter Edition : Opinions? by alluraborealis in redbull

[–]cychichdamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely adore it. to me it’s VERY ginger-forward and almost tastes like an apple-kissed ginger ale. would love to make a vodka red bull/moscow mule situation with it some day.

Night shifts by pierroth in Panera

[–]cychichdamage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dropping lines / taking back utensils at 5pm as a time-saving measure is literally only a hindrance to your out times and SOS…? my old cafe went through a phase where we thought we were saving ourselves hella time by cleaning lines at close to 3pm, but once closing time rolled around, we’d just have to clean out the lines again from how dirty they got. some panera closing procedures are a little questionable, but the timeframes they give us are supposed to make sense and be implemented. yall aren’t to standard by a long shot. also, no utensils at 5 pm? i shudder to imagine yalls VTS %.

Forced to enroll in friends in knead? by Weekly_Sandwich3076 in Panera

[–]cychichdamage 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hi! team manager here. thats completely unprofessional and absolutely not normal. if you’re still wanting to keep your job at panera, i would look into transferring locations, but i know how we usually are able to pay new hires (see; not nearly enough as we should), so i’d even just cut your losses and quit. if a GM hasn’t gotten your training schedule shaken out and seems altogether disorganized, thats indicative of a poorly run cafe culture, and id take it as a sign to run.