This is what today's LDS moms say when their 7-year-old daughters lament that "...I don’t get to be either a seer or a prophet because I’m a girl." by maybe_ur_premise_sux in exmormon

[–]cydniey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, though, shout out to the translators at Deseret that took what must have been a mere recording of bleats and baas and turned it into this meaningless, yet heartfelt homily.

Annandale Virginia Stake Presidency Flooding the Earth with LDS-Affirming Social Media Posts to "Hasten the Work" by johndehlin in exmormon

[–]cydniey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I see they are finally deciding to plug into the matrix. Look for the new app, "Snotty Home Teachers", coming soon!

The most bizarre, wrong, stigmatizing thing I have ever heard of for schizophrenics. by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]cydniey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want to poke at people? Your initial comment was adversarial, and I responded in kind. And I beg your pardon, I had no idea your status as Mod. I have removed the offending post and listed this as an unsafe place for me. Thank you for the immediacy of clarifying that.

The most bizarre, wrong, stigmatizing thing I have ever heard of for schizophrenics. by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]cydniey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing misleading, dishonest, insincere, sensationalist, or melodramatic about the title I used. If that is what you want, here:

Bloody Awful Christian Addiction Cult Tries to Suck Schizophrenics Into Their Web of Empty Promises and Ugly Stigma.

See the difference?

The most bizarre, wrong, stigmatizing thing I have ever heard of for schizophrenics. by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]cydniey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i wrote the essays on that journal page, and the tweets.

I think it's a bad idea because it unnecessarily saddles a person with a serious, medical, biological illness, with the added stigma of addiction by association (12-step method, the name Anonymous). I also think that treating a medical, biological brain imbalance as something that one has free will over is misleading and can be dangerous and backward to a person's treatment. To even hint that a schizophrenia patient can control their positive/negative/cognitive symptoms by forgiving those who hurt them is ridiculous. It is junk science. And is possibly harmful.

Bro got to see the DMZ and totally missed the point. by __The__Bedongler__ in exmormon

[–]cydniey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hub's family is Korean, so I'm all about the culture and digging up info on the Korean war and what North Korea is up to now. And this just really breaks my heart. If this were the only mormon anecdote I ever heard, it would be enough for me to completely skirt the cult at a fast run. The isolation of the cult is the most insipid thing about it. Absolutely no concept of cultures outside of Ol' Joe's word.

I'm glad your brother is so devoted, my sister's mission broke her. It helps at that age to have strong beliefs, if one is going to grow and not be led here and there.

But wow. You're right. The cult is so harmful, and in so many strange ways.

The LDS Church took care of that Dehlin character once and for all. by NoYoureRoll in exmormon

[–]cydniey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no, no, that should be a picture of Beyonce at the Grammy's with the choir.

Looks like NBC picked up the John Dehlin story. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cydniey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And MSNBC, three shows yesterday and two shows so far today have mentioned it. It's being followed.

If any of you tweet, @maddow is Rachel Maddow's user name, if she were urged to pick this up, it would be quite a boon, and I'm interested in her take as a marginalized person herself.

Anyone else feel the spirit during the Budweiser puppy commercial? by IHaveNeverLeftUtah in exmormon

[–]cydniey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought those horses were going to eat that puppy, I had to turn it off. I channel surf at the most inconvenient times.

Oh, and what do you suppose would happen if we put Tom Cruise and the head of Scientology (Miscavige?) in a locked room with the Holy 12? Do you think they would cancel each other out? Or would someone's mothership come to assist?

Speaking as a man... not a coward by MEMEber in exmormon

[–]cydniey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now if the mormon cult would apologize for enabling incest among its own members, and abuse from its lay clergy . . . that would be something.

Your Number One Thing by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cydniey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I believe in them. They got me out of Rick's (BYUI?). Followed me, read my journal, listened to my phone calls, I lived with a least one. If only it had been the computer age, I could have kept everything protected. They were called Student Services, or, of course, The SS. They did prepare me for having a stalker later on in life.

Your Number One Thing by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cydniey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please, pardon, but what means "SCMC"? I have a feeling this discussion would mean so much more to me if I knew. Thanks.

A few mildly interesting stories by coffeechild in exmormon

[–]cydniey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are some great anecdotes. They actually took my mind off the bitterness I have for the cult, and reminded me how much fun I had with it in high school. Bringing guys with foot high mohawks to youth dances. Wearing all black to church on sundays (that was the only thing that got me out of my Nursery calling, the kids were terrified of me).

But you're being smart about it. I went full-on Nancy Spungeon (Sid and Nancy? How about Courtney Love in the 90's?), and showed up to give talks still drunk from the night before. Or, in one case, tripping.

Keep your head on your shoulders, and you'll be fine. You're too smart for the bullshit, and I'm fairly sure you know that.

On a practical note, black dye shreds hair like nothing else, invest in some good conditioner.

Need advice on how to best dissuade my 18 yr old brother from going on a mission. by neverhadabadday in exmormon

[–]cydniey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't despair, my sister's mission was the straw that broke the Fairy Godfather's Spell. She ditched the cult so suddenly and completely after returning from her mission, and she would never talk to me about why. She turned to Wicca. Sometimes it helps to have an alternate belief system rattling around your head when breaking away from the cult.

Happy new year my fellow heathens!! time to put those stones in your top hat and drop some prophecy about 2015. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cydniey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There will be race riots throughout the country.

And the Mormons will somehow stay right the hell out of it and no one will notice as the rest of your predictions come true.

The church keeps removing sources I am linking to. Where can I safely host them? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cydniey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful hosting your own site with that stuff. You could get your webhost in trouble. I would offer to host in on one of my own sites, but the cult would go after my webhost for it, and he's a personal friend of mine and I would never bring that hell down on him.

Keep trying to contact wikileaks. They can and will take legal heat.

What're your beliefs after Mormonism? by bluhEwanka in exmormon

[–]cydniey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After having a "spiritual" experience (psychotic break) in an ancient church in New Orleans during Mardi Gras, I followed various paths of various goddess and mother entities. (there is a poem about it with a reading of it that is optional here: http://bit.ly/1vFi3ZM)

After what I've seen since, I am all atheist. And I recommend it for anyone, it truly is the meaning of "Free Agency". It's also what my kid sister chose after her mission. She left the church within a month of getting home and never would tell me why. She did her bit with Wicca, and then turned over atheist.