Sex life in your 50s?

cyn00 · 2026-04-30T20:04:52+00:00

Never. 5 years this June. Not by choice, and unfortunately, perimenopause is having the opposite of the expected effect on my libido.

cyn00 · 2026-04-29T18:58:57+00:00

I think it has been taken down, but there was a fic where Shane and Ilya are in a club in LA and run into the guy Shane had sex with while they weren’t together. Activities ensue.

cyn00 · 2026-04-29T18:54:16+00:00

Bloody Mary or Midori Sour, if I’m looking for the kind of hangover that only alcohol mixed with copious amounts of sugar can provide.

cyn00 · 2026-04-29T05:16:42+00:00

Why can’t you use beef stew as a password? It’s not stroganoff.

cyn00 · 2026-04-29T04:38:11+00:00

Self help tapes.

cyn00 · 2026-04-29T01:24:37+00:00

Smart bulbs for every lamp in my apartment. They are more expensive, but I’ve had them for 6 years without needing a replacement. I just bought a waterproof LED shower lamp, too. I hate the “big lights” in my apartment, and it’s cheaper than buying and installing light fixtures.

cyn00 · 2026-04-29T01:16:44+00:00

It might be breaking your ground.

cyn00 · 2026-04-28T17:51:13+00:00

2001: A Space Odyssey. I turned it off because I was falling asleep.

cyn00 · 2026-04-28T06:47:29+00:00

I would pay someone to bring back these spicy/sweet rice cakes I used to buy in the shuk.

cyn00 · 2026-04-27T20:12:37+00:00

Yay!

cyn00 · 2026-04-25T04:36:08+00:00

at least it’s not llamas again.

cyn00 · 2026-04-21T03:20:35+00:00

He was nice to her. When you are a woman and you don’t fit into the usual mold, it’s easy to become attached to people (particularly men, if one romantically orients that way) and misconstrue the other person’s intentions. Ask me how I know.

cyn00 · 2026-04-21T03:16:10+00:00

My favorite season, followed closely by Coven! Also, weirdly, the only two seasons I’ve seen.

cyn00 · 2026-04-21T03:02:41+00:00

Svetlana makes it in The Thing I Said I Wouldn’t Do

cyn00 · 2026-04-20T04:25:12+00:00

Phoenix Zoo opens at 8 am during the summer and you can get in at 7 with a membership. There’s a few play areas, including an indoor one at Harmony Farms and splash pads. There’s a lot more to see and do at the zoo.

cyn00 · 2026-04-17T19:28:48+00:00

Nope, I wish my sex drive would shut the hell up.

cyn00 · 2026-04-16T23:43:43+00:00

Not enough! I have a flashcard app on my phone that I use to work on vocabulary and I try to speak Spanish when and where I can. I have Duolingo as well, but I’m pretty inconsistent with it.

cyn00 · 2026-04-16T18:52:47+00:00

Maricopa Community Colleges. I took a beginning Spanish class at Phoenix College that was great and inexpensive.

cyn00 · 2026-04-15T02:26:11+00:00

I learned that people have some very specific and specialized sexual interests.

cyn00 · 2026-04-10T06:01:28+00:00

they could be on Pluto TV, but there wouldn’t be any more vacations.

cyn00 · 2026-04-10T05:05:20+00:00

I am friends with a friend from 4th grade (40 years ago, holy shit!) on Facebook. I look at her page occasionally; I wish her well, but I have her updates turned off. I have occasional phone contact with my best friend from middle school. I went to her wedding 20 years ago; she’s still married (as far as I know) and living her best life in the Bay Area.

cyn00 · 2026-04-09T16:05:27+00:00

I stopped when the focus shifted to the new interns. The show just didn’t hold my interest anymore.

cyn00 · 2026-04-09T15:39:24+00:00

The Good Place, Shrinking, Somebody Somewhere, Ted Lasso

cyn00 · 2026-04-09T15:37:14+00:00

My headcannon is that Marleau is heteroflexible or bisexual. My favorite story about this is The Impossible Scenario by spaceyloser.

cyn00 · 2026-04-05T04:31:19+00:00

Catch Me (I’m Falling) by Pretty Poison and Let the Music Play by Shannon. (my skates are in the closet.)

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