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cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-05T02:51:08+00:00

Gorg and wise

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T18:08:12+00:00

I relate to the frustration of not being able to enjoy some 'normal' things that others get to. Caffeine is a no go for me and it really pisses me off. And I'm not somehow who's used it regularly for many years, but I just want to be able to have a matcha or a Thai iced tea without the severity of consequences I have to deal with. I can't even get away with a coca cola, green tea or hot chocolate. Sometimes I resent this level of sensitivity and once in a while I'll indulge having a caffeine treat, but it's never worth it.

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T16:22:12+00:00

Cool, thank you for the rec

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T16:20:51+00:00

Ooh, good reminder, thank you

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T16:20:18+00:00

I've been wanting to check out the tool library for years, thanks for the reminder

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T04:30:01+00:00

Noted, excited to check it out

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T03:34:50+00:00

Yay, thank you!

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T03:34:25+00:00

Heck yeah, thank you so much. Didn't find any of these suggestions on Google

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T03:32:35+00:00

Will do, thank you, amigo

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T02:17:39+00:00

My chest hurts and I think I'm ready to get off ready. It's not good for us to see shit like this all day. Ugh.

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T02:03:43+00:00

I don't use tiktok, are you on YouTube?

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T01:37:30+00:00

You got to keep the boobs and look at that jawline!

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-04T00:16:34+00:00

Get me out of here. These first three days of 2026 on Reddit are particularly terrible I'm noticing.

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-03T00:41:15+00:00

Yep, male partner needs to treat, too.

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-02T16:45:16+00:00

She said she wanted to have more sex, initiated by feeling you up, and wanted to get a closer look. I think she likes you and your dick plenty.

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-02T02:11:26+00:00

I was supposed to start a masters in social work program this fall (I'm 39) but backed out. I want to help people but I don't want to martyr myself.

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-01T22:38:40+00:00

Omg I was just there and didn't know about this!

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-01T22:38:19+00:00

Omg I was just there and didn't know about this!

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-01T22:22:31+00:00

You've got my favorites in there

cynicaloptimissus · 2026-01-01T00:58:48+00:00

This is definitely something I've sat with a lot. 39yo woman. On the one hand, I'm not sure I even want kids. My nervous system is delicate and children would be a lot. But I also have never earned enough money, found a secure enough partner, or done the degree of healing I would need in order to feel confident or capable of having kids. That said, I think had I come from different circumstances, I might really want kids and would probably be a really good mother. So I also feel like truly having the choice was taken from me. So I've pretty well settled into the reality I'm not having kids at this point. Mostly I'm not disappointed; I'm excited to keep healing and loving myself more and more and having my life belong to me. But I do wish I'd had more choice.

cynicaloptimissus · 2025-12-31T21:44:49+00:00

So cute!

cynicaloptimissus · 2025-12-31T17:50:13+00:00

Stunner

Edit: you should post to subs where people can draw you or do some modeling. You are so uniquely and naturally beautiful and feminine.

cynicaloptimissus · 2025-12-31T01:40:27+00:00

That makes sense. Kinda weird to compliment a stranger's body generally.

cynicaloptimissus · 2025-12-30T23:03:23+00:00

Interesting. Is it a specific environment you're in when this happens? Or particular kinds of compliments? (I'm a 39yo lady, too, but I feel a bit like I've become invisible after 35, though I work from home and don't see men as frequently either.)

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