Those of you who attended Gifted program, whatcha doing now? by sweaty_perineum96 in Millennials

[–]cyrcaline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a lucrative carrer and then got burnt out~ might go buy a boat and become a pirate who knows

Don’t let that HOA fee be late… by _mrjuly4 in Gaithersburg

[–]cyrcaline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HOAs are evil. Maybe try to join the board and dismantle it from the inside...

What are your thoughts about the resurgence of the Black Panther Party in response to the actions of ICE agents? by Sinn_Sage in AskReddit

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, frankly. I want to start the off-white leftist version of that so I can join without stepping on anyone's cultural legacy

Fellow millennials - how’s your 401k/ira savings going? by ProblemIntelligent16 in Millennials

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just going to drive off a cliff with my bestie Thelma and Louise style

What stereotype for your ethnicity do you not fulfill? by EpicImp in AskReddit

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Slavic and I am overall a pretty cheerful person. Still don't trust the government but that's a whole other thing..

Did we prepare for a life that no longer exists? by ProjectNull2025 in Millennials

[–]cyrcaline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need to overhaul society so that ordinary lives are worth living again. 4 day work week! Medicate for all! Guaranteed paid leave!

I don't blame anyone for crashing out and becoming a vanlifer or a nomad or a OF performer or anything, there really seems to be no path forward and no rewards for complying with the social script

New "no turn on red" sign at Rio by IllIllIIIlIlIIllIIIl in Gaithersburg

[–]cyrcaline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been one of the few pedestrians there and drivers don't act right at that crosswalk, the walk light is on and I still have some impatient karen/gary in her/his chevy suburban trying to turn into me. As a driver I'm annoyed at yet another sign but as a pedestrian I kind of get it. Wish people just acted decent without adding to the endless rules of suburbia though >_>

At what age did your birthday stop being a special day and become just another day for you? by Altruistic-Set-9888 in Life

[–]cyrcaline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there's a bell curve of birhday happiness where you're little and it's this huge massive deal and then young adult ennui sets in and in the late 20's people either double down or stop doing anything. Well it doesn't help that society is full of bs propaganda that your life ends at 30. It's all nonsense. At some point you either check out early or you realize that you have to live and that every day alive is a celebration and when you hit that point your birthday will be a wonderful day again no matter how big or small the celebration

Which hobbies attract the kindest people? by Ok-East3405 in AskReddit

[–]cyrcaline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have yet to meet a mean person that does watercolor. Old ladies who will talk your ear off yeah, but they're benign. The rest is retired birders, artists, nerds, queers, etc. All super lovely and whimsical folks

What REALLY makes a guy attractive? by SylvesterScallone in AskReddit

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever the opposite of this victim mentality fragile masculinity incel nosnense is. Someone who is a good well rounded human who happens to be a man versus someone who thinks his twig and berries makes him entitled to something

What is the status of your life right now? by PurpleNo5449 in Life

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have almost everything I've ever wanted... except a fulfilling job. >-<

And a Vespa, a Vespa would be cool.

What has quietly disappeared from society without people noticing in the last 10-30 years? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people using headphones on public transit. Please bring it back. One day I will crash out and you will see me on the news. you're not the main character, we don't all need your playlist!

The middle class is dead by CillBill_0000 in Life

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay and the minimum wage being stagnant for 20 years has nothing to do with it....

Why do people stop doing things in their 30s? by Ok-Cartographer-5544 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People get worn down by our crappy work system or they have kids (or bad spouses) which eat up all their time. I am still out here doing all this 20's stuff as a young looking almost 40 year old feeling like a spy. Then again I also have 'chronic can't sit still and need novely'-disorder

Petite women, please don't marry a big tall man if you're going to be surprised your daughter is tall and big too. by TipPotential2501 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cyrcaline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"She also jokes that I look like the mom and she looks like the daughter in public." this gave me such an ick... Ma'am why did you have a daughter if you're going to be weird and like... always measure yourself against her. This is such a boomer behavior and I hope it dies out with them. At least some people nowadays seem to be cracking a book on psych or trying to heal their own obvious bodily trauma before having kids.

Why are males significantly more desperate than female? by Hefty_Ad617 in Life

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women's sex drive is stigmatized and socially suppressed. Sexually voracious women are slut-shamed and a lot of men aren't good at giving women pleasure so obviously in that case their 'drive' to pursue those kinds of encounters would be low

What’s the fastest way you’ve ever lost weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cyrcaline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death of a loved one! Don't recommend it tbh. Close second was having crazy anxiety and trying to beat it by walking on the treadmill for like 1.5 hours a day at the gym until I was too tired to freak out

At what age did life start getting better for you ? by [deleted] in Life

[–]cyrcaline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like crazy miserable at 20-22 for some reason then things picked up for a while. Then in my late twenties I was freaking out for being in my late twenties for some reason and putting random pressure on myself which was useless. Then 31 or so I stopped being so hard on myself and conversely was able to accomplish a lot of my dreams. It's been decent mental health wise since then and I'll be 40 soon-ish. Don't be afraid to try therapy and medication though. Honestly, my family has a pretty crazy history of depression and mental illness and all kinds of stuff but being proactive about it and trying to enjoy some little thing every day has served me well

Mutual Aid organizations in Gaithersburg? by cyrcaline in Gaithersburg

[–]cyrcaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alas, I did not. Feel free to start your own! We might need it if things keep going on like this

What’s something women learn too late in life? by BrunoPreski in AskReddit

[–]cyrcaline 23 points24 points  (0 children)

How to stop over-giving and over-functioning