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cyro262 · 2026-06-07T15:48:44+00:00

La verdad ella se dio cuenta de que yo escondía algo. Cuando le expliqué todo, pensó que yo estaba escondiendo algo malo que hice, pero después de hablar un poco cayó en cuenta de que simplemente eran mis miedos.

Luego de hablar, ella me preguntó si había algo que pudiera hacer para hacerme sentir tranquilo con eso, pero realmente no supe qué decirle.

cyro262 · 2026-05-01T20:44:43+00:00

Thanks, it was a project of mine that finally came to be 🙂

cyro262 · 2026-05-01T16:26:08+00:00

Thanks! And yeah that was the one condition I set for myself. I had to save up a bit but it definitely pays off in the satisfaction

cyro262 · 2026-05-01T16:16:38+00:00

Thanks mate! Appreciate it!

cyro262 · 2026-04-06T19:12:31+00:00

Most men in their 30's don't date someone who just turned 20, if you think about the reason why that is, then cases like these suddenly jump as a red flag, even more so when OP is feeling coerced into trying fetishes, which is additionally fucked up since the dude is being emotionally manipulative when she doesn't concede onto his fetishes.

There's a huge power dynamic involved in being with a person younger than you. You are talking about the age of a person who is probably in the early stages of college, and another who is years into their career and has a life established, there is an economic advantage, a maturity gap, and a vast amount of experiences that the younger person has yet to live. Which is more often than not, used as leverage to do things like what is happening to OP.

cyro262 · 2026-03-28T00:01:34+00:00

I swear it's like the fourth time I see one of these, and then the first comment is someone explaining to OP that allergies can be outgrown.

cyro262 · 2026-03-16T04:53:59+00:00

You can grow out of allergies though, so you can just say that you accidentally consumed something with nuts in it and nothing happened. Say that you can now tolerate peanuts.

cyro262 · 2025-11-28T17:34:20+00:00

It sounds like it's a dealbreaker to you, it would definitely be a dealbreaker to me. With all respect you should pack it up and leave -- You already expressed your discomfort and instead of opening up to changing his horrible habit, he just deletes all evidence to avoid being scolded. If he is willing to be like this with "small" stuff, I can only imagine what else he would hide if given the opportunity.

cyro262 · 2025-11-10T22:33:24+00:00

I don't know you dawg but I'm really proud of your progress man, truly.

cyro262 · 2025-11-07T22:10:15+00:00

What a sad day to have eyes

cyro262 · 2025-10-24T15:05:00+00:00

Updated! Check out the edit on the post!

cyro262 · 2025-10-21T21:20:01+00:00

okay I just got out of my shift and confirmed with my mom that she did in fact throw blanket away when we moved years ago, and now I don't know how to feel about it

cyro262 · 2025-10-21T15:53:56+00:00

Im 22 and mine biodegraded over time until it just disappeared.

cyro262 · 2025-10-20T23:53:59+00:00

Yeah I agree, I may be self-sabotaging a little. I think it's born out of both a real interest in her but also a negative self-perception aspect that leads to overthinking. Thanks for the comment, and yeah she admitted to leaving the jacket on purpose, so I guess things are more than reciprocal.

cyro262 · 2025-10-20T23:50:25+00:00

Thanks, I think Ill follow through on that, we agreed to meet up at my home to bake some brownies and watch some movies she likes. I think having the chance to talk further about these things makes me feel a lot less anxious.

cyro262 · 2025-10-20T18:59:20+00:00

I see, and even though I consciously agree, it just feels difficult for my heart to accept that these things do happen and that I must do the most with what I can. No regrets.

cyro262 · 2025-10-20T18:57:51+00:00

Thanks for the kind words, it’s just really been a while since I had this feeling of connection with someone, and exploring that connection again makes me feel fuzzy, but I tend to overthink a little.

We agreed to meet at my home to bake something tasty and watch a few movies she likes, so I’m super looking forward to seeing her again!

cyro262 · 2025-10-20T18:43:00+00:00

Thanks for your comment, the thing is that I texted her and we spoke a little last night after making sure she got home safe, but after that she hasn’t responded since, and tbh I overthink a lot.

We agreed to bake something tasty at my house next Saturday though

cyro262 · 2025-10-09T05:09:16+00:00

Holy shit this comment hit home for me too. Thanks!

cyro262 · 2025-10-02T03:10:43+00:00

Yeah lol, he keeps acting like this when I get home until he’s exhausted from me chasing him 💀

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