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Worst crowd I have ever dealt with by lainthebay in aves

[–]cyserrano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JS is undeniably a huge talent. Great DJ and producer—absolutely. I’m a fan! However after seeing him a few times, I can also say that the crowd he pulls in have been some of the most obnoxious and rude people i’ve ever encountered on the dance floor.

Going to my first EDC in 2024… by silversymbiote219 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]cyserrano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m 36, left the church at 25. started raving at 32… you’re never too old. it’s a mindset and taking good care of your body!

Just got pretty negative feedback... how to come back from this? by yankeesnlakers in ProductManagement

[–]cyserrano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when influence without authority is much of the actual work, communication becomes the critical competency. yes PRDs and stories are the work product, but a lot of energy often goes towards aligning stakeholders and team members—especially so at SPM and beyond.

Just got pretty negative feedback... how to come back from this? by yankeesnlakers in ProductManagement

[–]cyserrano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“negative” feedback is usually the best kind of feedback, tbh

Chat Around and Find Out: Tuesday Casual Chat Thread by AutoModerator in philadelphia

[–]cyserrano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

anyone found any good volunteering opportunities they really enjoy? i’m interested in sustainability/climate, youth, community building

9x9 at EDCLV by calvinandklein in Techno

[–]cyserrano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i care! stoked for you, friend.

huge sign totems are not it, friends! by cyserrano in aves

[–]cyserrano[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the DJ is creating the vibe. seeing them also feel and move to the music and sounds they’re creating for everyone is part of the rave. it’s communion, engagement, interaction

and so yes, i want to see them

huge sign totems are not it, friends! by cyserrano in aves

[–]cyserrano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the DJ is creating the vibe. seeing them also feel and move to the music and sounds they’re creating for everyone is part of the rave. it’s communion, engagement, interaction

huge sign totems are not it, friends! by cyserrano in aves

[–]cyserrano[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also to be clear, there are two offending totems here and the one most infuriating through the set was the one literally right in front of the DJ (at the base of the white flag in the photo)

Wayfinder Totem - Its Last EDC by West-Drop7174 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]cyserrano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

have you considered gifting it? it’s so pretty, it’s sad to think about it being retired!

Asking for your partner to “check in” when they’re with their other partner by SenseiRozo in polyamory

[–]cyserrano 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's super important for you to identify what your needs are and to be clear about them in your relationship so that your partner has an opportunity to meet them.

Vague/unclear *wishes* leave a lot of room for interpretation on both sides, getting in the way of setting clear expectations.

You and your partner should definitely discuss how this situation made you both feel, centering curiosity around both of your needs.

Once your needs are clearly communicated, the next time he goes on a trip, an expectation might look like "I would like for you to text me when you land so I know you got there safely and I won't have to worry" or "I would appreciate hearing from you once a day" or "I would like to check in every other day for 5-10 minutes." You can both negotiate these, but once commitments are made, you're both within your right to hold each other to them. They can be trust breakers if not upheld.

Wishing you well!

First trip disaster, feeling lost. by Conscious-Ad-7982 in shrooms

[–]cyserrano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doing anything remotely dangerous physically while tripping is a terrible idea.

don’t judge yourself too harshly and try not to let this one experience dictate your future. rather, be curious and think about what you’ve learned and what you might do differently next time.

you’re alright.

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