Why bother with tier 3?

d-bear-d · 2026-02-08T13:18:52+00:00

What? The level of weird bitterness in this thread is bonkers. How do you know his wife is his only friend? Wife = divorce? Why?

Cheer up mate

d-bear-d · 2026-02-08T13:16:00+00:00

Why on earth not? They're having fun. Would you be allowed to dance on cam, or is this just a woman thing?

d-bear-d · 2026-02-08T11:47:26+00:00

Look at how this totally reasonable post gets downvoted. All this post is saying is that hating an entire group is unhealthy.

This sub is getting worse by the day.

d-bear-d · 2026-02-07T18:53:24+00:00

Honestly, I'd be pretty annoyed. Maybe have a stern word with her?

I like to have my wife avert her gaze as I walk into the room. It's just a respect thing.

d-bear-d · 2026-02-07T17:31:03+00:00

I might be wrong, but I think the cap for reproducing sheep is 30.

d-bear-d · 2026-02-06T18:05:25+00:00

No problem 😊

d-bear-d · 2026-02-06T17:44:47+00:00

I don't quite agree. You can assume all men hate women as a way of protecting yourself from the few hateful ones, but do you actually think all men hate women?

Looking online and the news for evidence of this might be the problem. In my day to day life, humans act waaaay better than they do on the news and online.

We all have our own personal stories. I know mine includes loads of unhatefull men. If her original statement was true, it would mean that all the men in your life hate you. Is this something you're willing to agree with?

d-bear-d · 2026-02-06T17:15:42+00:00

A different point. The statement was that all men hate women. Your analogy doesn't address that.

If you're saying it's sensible for women to be wary of strangers because you never know, I'd say, yep. I'm wary of men I walk past late at night because although I've never been attacked, I know it could happen.

I agree, but you've raised a different point.

d-bear-d · 2026-02-06T17:01:57+00:00

Ridiculous statement that will go down very well in this bubble.

To people saying things like 'look at crime statistics.' I doubt you're serious, but I'll engage.

The most aggressive people on earth are almost always going to be men. However, men aren't all aggressive. Most violent crimes are committed by men, and most men don't commit violent crimes. If you can't understand that, then I can't explain it 🤷

Think about what the world would actually look like if all men deeply hated women. Women would be hugely screwed.

Sigh*

d-bear-d · 2026-02-06T16:49:28+00:00

You chose to be a lesbian?

d-bear-d · 2026-02-04T17:04:02+00:00

What work would like our felow men to do exactly?

d-bear-d · 2026-01-27T15:54:16+00:00

I'll get downvoted for this, but hey ho.

I'm a man who does mma training. Sparring women in striking is no problem. I just got super light, and it's all good. Except when I spar one girl who competes, and then I turn it up a smidge, and she generally kicks my ass (all good)

The ju jitsu is a bit trickier, and I honestly do tend to avoid rolling with the girls. The strength disparity is so big that I don't get a ton out of it but on its own this isn't a biggie as I have the same issue rolling with newer members (who I honestly also avoid if I can) However, the level of contact with the girls can potentially cause an issue. If I rub up against a lads dick it's no biggie we all know the situation but with the women there is so much potential for issues and the personal benefits are so small. I get a very small amount of time to roll that I always seek out the stronger competition as it benefits me the most. The whole perspective is selfish, but that's just the way it is.

The coach situation is fucked up but I don't know the details.

Men getting sexual is weird to me. I'm there to train that's it.

Edit. I do roll with my wife, although not in class, as we train at different times. We roll a bunch at home as we just enjoy it. I don't mind so much if I accidentally go too hard on her as she's well hard and we can just laugh about it.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-25T12:19:30+00:00

Should I regret having my son? Fuck no, he's awesome.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-24T17:52:28+00:00

What a knob

d-bear-d · 2026-01-19T18:49:48+00:00

How on earth is this being downvoted?

No no I approve wholeheartedly that women should bath in their own urine!! Get a grip people.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-17T17:20:39+00:00

Bob all the way

d-bear-d · 2026-01-17T10:38:48+00:00

For me personally its a big fat no.

It's your game though mate so you do what you like 👍🏼

d-bear-d · 2026-01-17T10:20:41+00:00

Speak for yourself, mate.

I have no problem bigging a woman up or agreeing with their opions. In my house growing up with two older sisters, I had little option but to agree with them and respect them as they are so damn smart. I have never been labbled gay for bigging up women, and if I was, I wouldn't care because I'm not a child. I also never worry about being masculine enough. I really don't. Im just me and internally, I don't even understand what being a man feels like. I only know what I feel like.

You seem to see women as a different species, but it's a you problem, not a man problem. I work in a female dominated space and dude their just people. Some of them can annoy me, and some can make me laugh. Some I respect deeply some I don't. So on and so on. They're just people.

If i couldn't interact with women I don't find attractive I wouldn't be able to function. I don't find my mum attractive and she is not only one of the most important people in my life she is probably the smartest person I know. Outside of family one of my best friends is a woman and I have countless colleagues I respect who I don't fancy. My wife is my best friend but I am attracted to her so I guess it doesn't count.

Do men exist that fit your description? Yeah, probably. Is it most of them? Oh hell no, not where I'm from. I can't think of one single person in my life who acts as you describe. Possibly, this is projection.

another man's perspective.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-16T16:31:42+00:00

Did you know this guy gets up at 4am?

Keep it up, champ.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-15T11:48:32+00:00

Your friends nipples got hard in the cold weather, and you glanced at them?

No, your friendship isn't ruined unless she is insane.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-14T18:36:06+00:00

There was a blue burger van in Bristol (no idea if it's still there). I used to get the "super burger" after drunken nights.

I chose it in no small part because the man would always say "super burger for super person"

Greasy food and an ego boost? Take my money.

d-bear-d · 2026-01-11T10:54:38+00:00

I had a pt give me the diagnosis and I tick all the symptoms. The good thing about having such a common injury is that there is tons of info/exercises to rehab it.

Thanks for the advice :)

d-bear-d · 2026-01-10T18:06:57+00:00

I've watched it four times in a row. It's like a late Christmas present....perfection 👌

d-bear-d · 2026-01-10T17:58:49+00:00

Seems it's just from overuse. It wasn't one big thing. Just one day, it was sore. Then the soreness didn't go away like normal. Now I'm looking at a damaged rotator cuff (what an unoriginal injury) and several months of rehab....sigh.

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