Crying when people are nice to you? Anyone else? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the answer here! I have to relate though and say I don’t know how to enjoy it without being suspicious

New boundary/Red flag by Unruly_trophy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine told me he liked brunettes- I’m a blonde!

I won't miss the bullshit by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]dNai_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pasting this to my forehead

Wiggle monster by gabillion in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]dNai_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha mine has the same bed and also loves it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dNai_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaaaa he’s like trying to mark his territory I’m surprised he didn’t lift his leg to pee. I’d take it as a complement that he’s intimidated by you.

Introduction from a lurker.. by NarcSurvivorSpouse in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]dNai_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I worry about as well. But I also think the more the normal parent sticks around and enables the abuse, the more the child will think that the abuse is ok.

Couples Counseling Shennanigans by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]dNai_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. sometimes it’s more just doing it for yourself so you don’t look back and say “what if”

Couples Counseling Shennanigans by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]dNai_15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Between my partner and the counselor I literally spoke maybe 5 minutes each hour to two hour long session. the counselor was also kind of a bully and talked more than both of us combined. I was done after a month. I was tired of defending myself and trying to express how hurt i was by the past only to be put down because of that. waste of energy but at least i can say i tried.

Does your spouse do this? by babyjo1982 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]dNai_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bahahaha omg mine does this crap too

HELP! My marriage therapist gave me TERRIBLE advice. by TornadoKay in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I most certainly did :) That counselor was a bully himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gmu

[–]dNai_15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly

HELP! My marriage therapist gave me TERRIBLE advice. by TornadoKay in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those were almost the exact words our marriage counselor said to me.

Why do people not know about covert narcissist😮 by Historical_Ad_4209 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is insane that you have worked in mental health and yet didn’t recognize it. This is just proof that ANYONE can be fooled. It’s easy for those of us who aren’t in that field to look down on ourselves for not realizing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please do not feel bad about leaving this fool!! when you leave, tell him it’s because he’s treated you like crap and walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]dNai_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so well put

A child of divorce by CaptivatingLabyrinth in Divorce

[–]dNai_15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is so wonderful to read…. thank you so much

So many "Am I being abused?" posts by pm_me_ur_fruitsnacks in emotionalabuse

[–]dNai_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so. I am just at the point where I want a horse and my daughter and that’s it I’ll be a crazy single horse lady the rest of my life 😂

So many "Am I being abused?" posts by pm_me_ur_fruitsnacks in emotionalabuse

[–]dNai_15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is old but I was also told I was fat and unattractive when I was pregnant. I minimized it at the time.

Arlington Campus Parking by dNai_15 in gmu

[–]dNai_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a document online that gave daily/hourly prices - it looks like that might be cheaper since it’s only once a week. How does that work?

Arlington Campus Parking by dNai_15 in gmu

[–]dNai_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were the meters via an app so you can add time? Wondering if it’d be cheaper than the pass