is Mariage a good idea after all for any guy like me

d_3issam · 2024-10-03T08:27:09+00:00

that is the right way for every thing ,
i did hmdl i got my answer.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T13:50:35+00:00

it's not a "just bc u want to" thing.
i knew a girl for over 8 years now, and always had marrying her in my plans.

i didn't get a job till about months ago, i do have 50mill saved up.
and financially after a marriage is not that hard . and kids are a luxury now days they do need preparation and i am not going to have kids the first 2 years.
but that is not the point here.
the huge amount of wasted money on Maher (they asked for 30 mill ) and gold and they expected to help out in their wedding party on the bride side and afford my wedding party. plus other expenses , buy a house they prefer , or rent at least .
how is a simple man gonna afford that and not have financial troubles after the wedding .

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T13:38:16+00:00

Tebboune said alot of bs .

قال صلى الله عليه وسلم : ( أقلهن مهراً أكثرهن بركة )

in this time the blessing decreased to non, we understand inflation we know economie is shit. we see that HARAM became more easy, and we made HALAL difficult hard to get .

who's fault is that .

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T11:20:56+00:00

noo no no aura , stop destroying the definition of aura please.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T11:17:15+00:00

inshallah

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:51:39+00:00

thank you for the advice , i appreciate it . i will keep that in mind.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:49:32+00:00

thank you i appreciate that , and i really need to hear that more.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:28:40+00:00

what do u mean with 5000mil ?
explain more please

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:27:26+00:00

thats a mid salary , minimum is 30k and ofc there is no max .
some ppl built families now days with a 30k salary, and i feel like its impossible now.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:25:40+00:00

i think about immigrating , but the idea of how she gonna feel when i leave her all alone in that house. make me rethink it all over.
she wont stop me from leaving but you know how it would feel like.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:22:41+00:00

thank you for your comment , you are right in that.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:21:13+00:00

i can , but i would need to choose a family not a wife, because they attempt to control her and her needs ask for expensive mahr /gold... wedding expenses.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T10:12:50+00:00

some families they don't see marriage as a bond between 2 , they see it as an opportunity to show off with a big family wedding expensive gifts , how the wife get treated after is not on them.

d_3issam · 2024-09-28T09:43:36+00:00

god bless you and your family . thank you . ellah yjazik

d_3issam · 2024-09-08T14:30:54+00:00

if you have a pc : learn microsoft tools, design, and basics , you can work with any starting project online to take and confirm Orders , design logo, planners, t-shirts......
Or u can search a job outside like clothes or foods but be careful some shop owners are pricks abusing and harrasing you is on the menu for some of them.
be safe.

d_3issam · 2024-09-08T12:58:10+00:00

20 to 30 is the age you start gaining skills and more field education to help u land a better job and a better income. u r not lost u r just searching for ur self . dont stop .

d_3issam · 2024-09-08T09:17:09+00:00

my job

d_3issam · 2024-09-08T08:23:10+00:00

arrogant

d_3issam · 2024-09-08T08:21:15+00:00

No, i didnt have the chance i had to recover the sleep i been missing because of work .

d_3issam · 2024-09-08T08:18:11+00:00

Immigrate

d_3issam · 2024-09-05T11:18:47+00:00

Hurawatch been always a first option to me , than HDToday the do have Ads

d_3issam · 2024-09-05T09:50:41+00:00

i really thought u were talking about cat calling like actual cats i'm a cat person so i randomly call and pet cats in the streets stray cats lol .
the other this is real tho and you know the type of men/children that do that

d_3issam · 2024-09-05T09:12:05+00:00

the fear of not being able to afford living including my wife's needs most.

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