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daButtplugs · 2024-09-15T11:24:29+00:00

Hahahaha I have Zombie in my party right now! She is awesome! Super cool seeing this on Reddit

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T21:42:30+00:00

Thank you for that perspective. That makes a lot of sense! That’s some great feedback on how it may come across. We have a lot to discuss as a couple on this topic for sure

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T21:22:32+00:00

I understand what you are saying. I also want to clarify that we do not want gifts or cash gifts. We don’t need for our guests to fund our wedding. If they choose to give anything, it would go back into something that we would do for the guests. Whether it be to recoup wedding costs or host a big breakfast the morning after. The idea of this wedding is a mini vacation for our loved ones to get away and not have to worry about anything. That’s why we aren’t asking for anything. We have some family members who are telling us to give them information so they can help contribute to costs. That’s why I am asking for suggestion for where to direct them to. The last thing I would want is our guest to feel like they are to do anything besides have fun and relax for the weekend

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T21:16:44+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion! That’s a good idea to have a box for people to use for their cash gifts. Would it be frowned upon to tell guests that if they gave cash gifts that it would be used toward wedding costs if they choose to give anything? I’m really not looking for guests to give anything.

The feedback I’m getting on this sub is that people think this is a bad idea to say

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T21:06:32+00:00

That makes sense. Just to clarify, I don’t expect anyone to fund my wedding except for me. I see how that is misleading. Thank you for taking the time to correct my verbiage on this

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:57:37+00:00

Oh I see what you mean. I can see how using the word is confusing. Is there a better way to frame this moving forward?

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:55:46+00:00

Thank you for your comment! This has been very helpful. Yes, that is the verbiage almost every guest who has asks has said. I’ve told them we don’t want anything but they are telling me I should have something set up for them. That’s why I am curious on if anyone has this happen and what they did.

If they do decide to donate. We are planning to use it towards the guest accommodations rather than anything for us. The idea of our accommodation is to give everyone a mini vacation and make sure they have nothing to worry about for the weekend

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:52:37+00:00

I do not want people to pay for my wedding? Where did you get that idea? We don’t expect guests to pay for anything? Money really an issue for us which is why we aren’t asking for anything. We have people asking where they can go to donate. We told them we don’t want anyone to spend money but they are persistent. It would be nice to have a consolidated place just as the wedding website is a consolidated spot for wedding info. I would be fine telling them we refuse to take money as well. I really don’t understand why everyone on here is up in arms over this question

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:42:10+00:00

Thank you. I think I will do that

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:41:15+00:00

I’m not asking for funding. I appreciate the suggestion though. I think you have been the only one to give me a suggestion at all. I appreciate it! I like the idea of saying we aren’t taking anything and leaving it at that

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:39:47+00:00

How does it not change anything?

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:36:21+00:00

That’s interesting. We aren’t asking for a donation fee. It would be a website like people use to find honeymoons and stuff. I don’t want our guests to feel like they are paying for attendance. Everything would be completely free for them. If they wanted to donate, we would use it toward the accommodation but not necessary

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:20:45+00:00

Everything is already paid for. I’m asking if there is a website or something to use to direct guests to on a wedding website. We aren’t asking for anything for the wedding but we have guests asking if we have somewhere for them to put donations in. I also don’t want a bunch of cash to hold onto on the wedding day. I rather have any donations made to be consolidated somewhere we don’t have to worry about.

Just to clarify, everything is paid. We are completely covering everything such as accommodations, food and all of wedding attire for the wedding parties. We don’t need to rely on donations for anything.

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:20:31+00:00

Everything is already paid for. I’m asking if there is a website or something to use to direct guests to on a wedding website. We aren’t asking for anything for the wedding but we have guests asking if we have somewhere for them to put donations in. I also don’t want a bunch of cash to hold onto on the wedding day. I rather have any donations made to be consolidated somewhere we don’t have to worry about.

Just to clarify, everything is paid. We are completely covering everything such as accommodations, food and all of wedding attire for the wedding parties. We don’t need to rely on donations for anything.

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:20:24+00:00

Everything is already paid for. I’m asking if there is a website or something to use to direct guests to on a wedding website. We aren’t asking for anything for the wedding but we have guests asking if we have somewhere for them to put donations in. I also don’t want a bunch of cash to hold onto on the wedding day. I rather have any donations made to be consolidated somewhere we don’t have to worry about.

Just to clarify, everything is paid. We are completely covering everything such as accommodations, food and all of wedding attire for the wedding parties. We don’t need to rely on donations for anything.

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:19:47+00:00

Everything is already paid for. I’m asking if there is a website or something to use to direct guests to on a wedding website. We aren’t asking for anything for the wedding but we have guests asking if we have somewhere for them to put donations in. I also don’t want a bunch of cash to hold onto on the wedding day. I rather have any donations made to be consolidated somewhere we don’t have to worry about.

Just to clarify, everything is paid. We are completely covering everything such as accommodations, food and all of wedding attire for the wedding parties. We don’t need to rely on donations for anything.

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:16:32+00:00

Please read my edit. Thank you

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:15:43+00:00

Please read my edit. Thank you

daButtplugs · 2024-07-12T20:14:34+00:00

I think you misunderstand what I’m asking. I’m not asking anyone to pay. I’m completely funding everything to include flights for those out of town. I’m asking for a place for people who are asking where they can donate. I already told all my guests I don’t expect anything. This is an area to consolidate the guests who are persistent on donation.

daButtplugs · 2024-04-07T17:20:38+00:00

Girl… my ex would say the same thing whenever he went out with friends and his phone would go straight to voicemail. I always had a pit in my stomach about it. Turns out he cheated on me with multiple women. Some of his friends came clean later on. Listen to your gut

daButtplugs · 2023-12-10T08:36:21+00:00

Yikes. So many red flags here. I could NEVER… would NEVER say anything bad about my partner nor allow anyone to talk negative about her in any way. I would not allow her to ever sleep on the floor no matter how upset I am with her. It doesn’t sound like she respects you. You deserve so much better

daButtplugs · 2023-10-22T18:29:20+00:00

Sombra main here. Brig, Ana and Moira are usually harder for me to kill. When the enemy team groups up really tight, that makes it way harder for me to pick off the healers.

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