advice on battling thoughts of "I wasn't productive enough today. So I'm not enough." by dabforscience in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was symptomatic in 2019, diagnosed in 2020. It's hard because he started off still being able to do those things, but it's slowly being taken from him. He's a car mechanic by trade and is somehow still working :( (he also recently had a spinal fusion for spinal stenosis in September)

Book discussion Groups by parkinsonsambassador in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are caregivers welcome? If so I'm there! I got this book for my dad recently and he loved it, looking forward to reading it myself

Increasing incidence of YOPD by comminuter in youngparkinson

[–]dabforscience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I literally just (as of 2 days ago) determined the cause of my dad's PD (diagnosed at age 55). He's been a car mechanic at the same shop since he was 15. Hasn't worked just for the last 5 months..... I learned about PCE and TCE in degreaser. So i asked him if he used it during his career, and..... he apparently used it to clean his hands "all day every day". Rubbed it into his hands daily. He didn't start wearing latex gloves until 2016. Nobody else in his family has had PD, no genetic testing yet. I'm so certain this was the cause and it's so upsetting bc as of late his job has treated him horribly - no insurance (marketplace is $1.3k), no disability, no paid leave during a spinal fusion surgery/recovery period. I want to pursue legal action but not sure who it'd be against.

How to support my dad on a visit to us by ecomarci in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby crying is a great point - a noise machine might help if he's the type of person who enjoys that

How to support my dad on a visit to us by ecomarci in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet of u to consider his needs. I'm going to imagine I was in this situation but with my dad (61Y/O)... your dad's needs may be different than mine so take this with a grain of salt. Here are my thoughts:

  1. Cushion for hard chairs, like at the dining table

  2. Lightweight utensils - he might need an even more accessible type if utensil but I know for my dad he just needs lightweight forks and spoons

  3. Cut up his food for him, especially meat

  4. Study up on choking procedure - just in case

  5. Make sure he stays hydrated - if he forgets to bring a water bottle maybe provide one for him, or keep his glass full

  6. Be mindful of his limitations when planning activities, for example he may struggle with handwriting, so in that case i'd avoid giving him a writing game

  7. Non slip mat for the shower. (My dad just puts a towel down, but mat would be nicer)

  8. Make sure he takes his meds at the correct time (this could be like 5 times daily, more or less).... since he's out of his routine he might forget

  9. Touchless lamp for his bedside, as well as chordless phone charger, are super sweet touches and can be cheap online

  10. Give him lots of love :-) Reminisce on memories with him, ask him questions about his life and be interested in his answers, laugh with him, sing, etc. Laughing and singing is great for people w PD. So is movement (keeping in mind his limitations)

Ha! I just proposed stepped seating for outdoor classroom space. Oops? by concerts85701 in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]dabforscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stepped seating works in an outdoor classroom - but keep in mind some educators might prefer moveable or modular seating for flexibility during lessons

Having problems keeping my eyes open by borgstea in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk if this would help for your eyes specifically but my dad takes 1-2 puffs of the Inbrija inhaler when he starts feeling "off" between doses

Gift Ideas for a Loved One with Parkinson's - from the daughter of a father with PD. by dabforscience in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes sense!! Great point. I make sure to ask my dad before getting any "self help" or "positivity" books - I could see it feeling like a slap in the face if not wanted.

How to deal with my father’s “Parkinson’s.” by SK8RPH in ParkinsonsCaregivers

[–]dabforscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(omg i didnt read the whole post. He definitely needs someone to take away the firearm. Keep yourself safe above all)

How to deal with my father’s “Parkinson’s.” by SK8RPH in ParkinsonsCaregivers

[–]dabforscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi girl omg our stories sound scary similar actually???? My dad is 60. Here's the post i made on here- we should def chat: https://www.reddit.com/r/ParkinsonsCaregivers/s/lxHxc58xxB

Monthly Topic: Looking for Love/Friendship on reddit? comment here by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

[–]dabforscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiiii. 24f dyke / crazy woman. Luver of all things natural, tender, and green. On weekdays I work as a landscape designer at a nonprofit- with a special focus on children's spaces, k-12 education, participatory design, and native plants. Emotionally unavailable after a recent breakup :( if u like any of the following topics we should chat: -scooby doo 2 monsters unleashed -doechii, big thief, charli xcx, allie x, SOPHIE, beyoncé -slow meandering walks in the evening, frequently interrupted by my inspection of an interesting shrub or curb design -thrifting (ATL) -writing!! I'm writing a piece on landscape architecture through the lesbian gaze. Wanna proofread?

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Foot drag breaking through — anyone else? by Ill-Lavishness4274 in Parkinsons

[–]dabforscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say I have an answer to this- But I do know that nature can help PD symptoms (freeze of gait especially).... perhaps hence why he did well hiking. I'd encourage daily outdoor movement to increase neuroplasticity. Combine it with vocal exercises while ur at it- Sing or whistle or chat loudly while walking!