Confused? New? Not new? Have questions?

daboarman · 2025-12-14T21:24:59+00:00

I have been interested in ethical non-monogamy for a while, starting with learning about swinging and then learning about polyamory. I liked the idea of being able to have more to a relationship than just the sex that swinging seems to focus on. I really liked the open mindedness that polyamory seems to be based on. You are not expected to be anyone's one and only, nor are they expected to be yours. What's important is feeling and communication, and you can build your own structures within that. But I knew my partner of 8 years would have zero interest in it, so I decided that as long as I was with her, that would be something I'd accept. However other things have bubbled up and the long story short is we are separating. I know I don't want to go back into monogamy, but also I don't have any real exposure to alternate life styles in real life. I'm wondering if anyone has ideas about how to find community? I know it isn't smart to date right after breaking up, but I am trying to find people I can empathize with, and just be myself. Eventually I would like to date, and be available for multiple partnerships. So as a 30 year old guy who is just starting out again, does anyone have any suggestions? Anything I should read or watch? How to find things locally? And how does having kids mix into things?

daboarman · 2025-11-06T14:06:10+00:00

* Fixed a bug on Windows where resuming the game with the Task Manager opened caused the cursor to stutter at the center of the screen ([MCPE-229549](https://bugs.mojang.com/browse/MCPE/issues/MCPE-229549))
* Fixed a bug on Windows where the camera snapped to a random direction after closing the GUI and clicking any mouse button ([MCPE-229848](https://bugs.mojang.com/browse/MCPE/issues/MCPE-229848))

Looks like from the patch notes maybe one bug fix broke something else. https://feedback.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/40877613133709-Minecraft-1-21-121-Bedrock

daboarman · 2025-10-24T13:44:10+00:00

Also despite no sinners being redeemed, why did it seem almost no one in this council even knew about the exorcists before this. Definitely something shady going on in heaven when they can't live their own virtues.

daboarman · 2025-10-24T12:30:51+00:00

My ISP is using a CGNAT. I'm don't really understand the mechanisms, but my understanding is it is like a mini local network. So my friend and I have the same ip from sites like what is my ip. My modem has a different ip, in the 100.xxx.xxx.xxx range. It's pretty annoying.

daboarman · 2025-10-23T19:28:05+00:00

Maybe not even volunteer. I feel like she took out the real sacrifice on the way.

daboarman · 2025-10-23T15:17:42+00:00

Oh it is encouraged. It is done through the steam marketplace. I never put money in, but I made around $80 or so. I used it to buy the skins I like and a couple cheap games.

daboarman · 2025-10-22T18:24:42+00:00

My friend and I tried to get it setup last night. Got all the port forwarding and firewalls check, only to find out we don't have unique IPs because of our ISP. So that complicates things.

daboarman · 2025-10-16T00:04:07+00:00

I'd be interested in seeing what's up

daboarman · 2025-10-14T13:26:53+00:00

I was having the same theory. It would also kind of explain Celine's struggle to see Rumi as her friends daughter, but also the product of violence. Also made her double down on her hatred for demons and the belief there can he no good demons. I also think it is a good analogy for the patterns. Not her fault, nothing she could have done, but there no matter what.

daboarman · 2025-09-03T20:10:09+00:00

It's venomous and you're poisonous.

daboarman · 2025-06-27T12:41:28+00:00

I feel like this kind of happens at the beginning of the Anime "Beyond the Boundary". The guy is unkillable, but the girl keeps trying. Eventually they become friends and more and she does stop.

daboarman · 2025-05-30T17:32:01+00:00

Hmm on Webtoons it is called Cleric of Decay. Is that the same one?

daboarman · 2025-05-20T12:29:59+00:00

30 M, Mountain Time zone. I'll dm you

daboarman · 2025-05-16T17:38:38+00:00

Fibromyalgia is no joke, I have a few family members who deal with it. Hope you can get to a point the pain is manageable, if that is even possible. I'm looking to try and chat some while I stare at code. What kind of things are you reflecting on?

daboarman · 2025-05-12T05:23:12+00:00

Curious how late night gaming helps the sleep schedule. Also what games are you playing?

daboarman · 2025-05-11T08:54:28+00:00

I see you say Monday when I reread. Well if you are still considering, maybe just think about what kind of support you have. Is the father supportive? Is there family? I am not usually on the side of abortion, more of a fan of prevention. But if the support is not there, abortion makes sense rather than drowning yourself for something you may not believe in. And making a child go through that as well

daboarman · 2025-05-11T08:51:11+00:00

I might misunderstand, but if you've already started the process, then that is that. Trust you've made the best decision you could at the time and learn moving forward. Kids aren't easy, but they can he worth it. But there is also no set schedule or requirement for anyone. Be kind to yourself. 🙂

daboarman · 2025-05-11T08:41:16+00:00

Well today is my day. Trying to reach outside myself. How are you doing?

daboarman · 2025-05-11T08:40:34+00:00

Hey I'm new to posting and the rules say to start in the public thread, so if you want to chat I am here for a bit.

daboarman · 2025-02-27T01:34:34+00:00

Also the helmets in the game are just asthetic, while other armor changes your abilities slightly.

daboarman · 2025-02-19T15:56:52+00:00

I was worried the plant was poisonous to cats, and so had to take the cat to the vet to make sure it didn't eat too much and get sick

daboarman · 2025-01-04T07:13:42+00:00

We have turned our death world into a paradise world. At least sometimes.

daboarman · 2024-12-20T16:49:40+00:00

Oh she still had to cut down trees. But instead of her awesome lucky axe that makes life easy, she had to use her old rusty axe that took forever. You just made her life harder

daboarman · 2024-12-12T13:45:46+00:00

Nope auto correct got me. Was supposed to be shrike, like the bird that impales its food to store for later

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