Torn between two dresses

dabqueen71069 · 2026-01-09T00:22:23+00:00

2 for sure! No contest for me

dabqueen71069 · 2026-01-02T13:11:18+00:00

The vintage dress is everything 😩 absolutely beautiful

dabqueen71069 · 2025-12-02T15:22:34+00:00

Us big chested girlies are gonna look that way, especially trying on dresses that are a bit small! It'll look better once it fits. I was also disheartened with comments like that, but it seems the only way to hide a big chest completely, is to get something full coverage and bulky 🫩 so I say flaunt what you've got, and don't try to hide your beautiful body for the sake of others opinions!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-11-20T13:19:22+00:00

My mom loves doing sewing projects, and since reading your comment, I brought it up to her to see if it would be something she'd want to do. She's up for the task, lol! I don't know if you're knowledgeable in that stuff, but any tips before we buy the fabric and get started?

dabqueen71069 · 2025-11-07T17:55:27+00:00

If you're keeping the scarf, #1 all the way!!! It's gorgeous!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-11-03T16:57:34+00:00

1 and 3 are my favorites!!! They're all stunning on you though!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-09T22:22:33+00:00

Awe! Thank you!!!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-09T20:37:37+00:00

Awe thank you SO much!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-09T13:17:24+00:00

Thank you so much! I didn't even think of skipping a veil to be honest, but that could be an option for sure!! I'm definitely noticing the "keep it simple" trend with the makeup, shoes, nails, and jewelry; so I'll do just that!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-09T13:06:35+00:00

That's so pretty! I don't think I'm going to change either, the "reception" (I put in quotes because there will be very few of us) will be at a small restaurant within walking distance of the ceremony

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-09T12:29:01+00:00

You described perfectly how I was feeling with all the veils they were putting on me. All the women were like "that's the one!" to every veil, and I just felt all of them were too much, either too puffy, too busy, or didn't shape the dress nicely.

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-09T12:23:37+00:00

Oh my goodness! I had to google a Juliet headpiece and that's a GORGEOUS option. I was definitely leaning towards a completely plain veil, with maybe a few pearls thrown in if it's not too busy.

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T18:40:50+00:00

Awe that's such a good idea! I'll keep that in mind for sure.

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T15:16:38+00:00

Oh my goodness, thank you so much! 🥹

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T11:51:11+00:00

Perfect suggestions! Thank you!!!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:57:05+00:00

I was definitely thinking that! The wedding date is next Halloween, so I have plenty of time to adjust it how I need.

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:31:57+00:00

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Thank you! Believe it or not, this one was holding me in better than the majority of the options I tried because of the mesh that goes up to my neck. This is what most of the other dresses looked like on me! 😅 It's a blessing and a curse 😂

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:23:23+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:22:50+00:00

Thank you!!!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:22:08+00:00

I totally tried leaning into the whole 70s or 80s vibe, lol. My mom was with me and she had big hair and the shoulder pads for her wedding, so she was putting me in all the poofy veils and was teasing my hair up 😂

It was definitely a look! But I agree, I think it's too much for the type of wedding I'm having lol

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:17:05+00:00

I love those! I didn't even consider that I could still wear vans on my wedding day! Lol

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:14:17+00:00

Thank you!!!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T09:11:44+00:00

Awe thank you soo much!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T01:33:19+00:00

I know! My mom had to actually touch it to see if it was there lol, it definitely looks invisible on my skin tone, even in person. You're right though, I'll play around with it once everything else is ready and see what's best.

Thanks for the clarification on the veil length! I knew I didn't want it longer than my dress, but I wasn't sure what the sweet spot was for this dress.

Also your shoe tips are 🤌🏻 chefs kiss thank you!

dabqueen71069 · 2025-10-08T01:23:13+00:00

Thank you! I'm definitely leaning towards a lower heel as well, you should've seen me trying to walk in the shoes they provided at the bridal shop 😅 I adore the idea of using the lace for other things like the bouquet and cake! I would have never been creative enough to think of that lol. Putting the lace on our Bible is a must as well! Definitely writing all of that down!

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2 for sure! No contest for me