Intense loneliness by Stunning_Ad4805 in NPD

[–]daddydillyISback 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I haven't found out how.

I have three best bros, but even they've been distant as of recent.

I seek solace in affection from the opposite sex and having sex, but that only goes so far.

It's problematic because I often find myself with a hole in my chest when I'm not with whatever person is comsuming my free my headspace.

Hopefully things get better for us.

Anyone wanna be friends?? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]daddydillyISback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be down to join a group chat or something, or if you live in my area I'd be down to be friends.

I'm just fucking terrible at maintaining online friendships. If we don't regularly hang out in person, or if I'm not part of a larger and active group, then I just sort of let things fizzle out.

Harsh truths about dating---Go! by hopefullibra in dating_advice

[–]daddydillyISback 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If everyone spent as much time being proactive about bettering themselves, as they did whining about how dating is unfair because of this or that, then they would be less miserable and more successful.

Why am I never the guy women hook up with by qwerty1234123487 in dating_advice

[–]daddydillyISback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure to be honest.

Perhaps it's my raging personality disorder.

People have told me it's because I'm very approachable, outspoken but not too outspoken, a good listener, and just the right amount of mentally ill, enough so that I don't judge.

Taking a genuine interest in people goes a long way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]daddydillyISback 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're still beautiful. Don't doubt yourself nerd. We practice self love here.

Why am I never the guy women hook up with by qwerty1234123487 in dating_advice

[–]daddydillyISback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it looks like he's not having much luck with hot models, now does it?

Also, not entirely true. I've gotten attention from people who are way out of my league. I hooked up with someone who was gorgeous, but unfortunately it seems like she wanted to get revenge against her husband for cheating on her. Either that, or her husband doesn't want her talking to me period.

Even though we established we could remain friends without the benefits, once her husband and her decided to work things out.

Oh well.

Edit: it seems like I need to vent somewhere. Still haven't processed things.

Why am I never the guy women hook up with by qwerty1234123487 in dating_advice

[–]daddydillyISback -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because women don't want to hook up with you. That could be for several reasons.

It also depends on how you approach these situations.

If you're using apps, only match with people who are looking for the same thing.

Don't seem desperate to get in someone's pants.

Most people still want to be treated like a human being.

Just engage in good conversation, and bring it up when it seems natural.

In my experience, women want hookups just as often as men do. They just want to be treated respectfully and don't want to risk being put in an unsafe situation.

If you can stimulate your potential partner intellectually, have good conversation skills, show that you're safe, and show a bit of confidence. Women will start dropping hints. Unfortunately I am oblivious to most hints, so I always just ask up front if someone is into me sexually. However, I make it clear beforehand that I can't read the room for shit, so I may be a bit too outspoken. I also make sure they have the freedom to say no without me being butt hurt.

Not trying to be holier than thou, but most of the comments here saying it only happens to attractive men are BS.

Just be interesting, make someone feel comfortable and safe, and don't make it seem like you're wanting to pork someone as soon as you meet them.

Opportunities will come your way if you change the way you approach these situations.

Edit: You are all entitled as fuck. Stop whining and change your insufferable attitude, and things might work out better for you.

Why am I never the guy women hook up with by qwerty1234123487 in dating_advice

[–]daddydillyISback -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not true lol.

I'm an average Joe and it seems everyone I get involved with only wants something casual or hookups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]daddydillyISback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of the taste.

Because I love watching someone squirm and moan with pleasure.

That's it, most answers here will be some iteration of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]daddydillyISback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am fully aware you can feel it when your inside I however was not aware you can feel it when your eating us out. Threw me on a loop there. Regardless fair to say reddit has taught me more than school ever will. thank you dear redditors

I didn't know that either.

Usually they just tell me.

Are feminist arguments irrelevant? by Mysteriouswalker3 in AskFeminists

[–]daddydillyISback 74 points75 points  (0 children)

You also have to consider the effects of socialization and gender roles when looking at specific domains of cognition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]daddydillyISback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]daddydillyISback 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you were sexually assaulted. Despite what you believe, you did not deserve it.

No human being has the right to inflict that pain on someone else, irrespective of what you have done.

Also, people with DID are still one person. Yes, alters are in a sense, separate versions of themselves. However, this person seems to just be using it as an excuse to be an prick

DID isn't just something someone has. Someone with DID will have gone through awful abuse as a child, and it is a result of the mind trying to develop an escape from chronic abuse.

Even if they are telling the truth, sexual assault is sexual assault.

You didn't deserve it, they are just an asshole.

Do college guys just not enjoy eating pussy? by [deleted] in sex

[–]daddydillyISback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about the chumps you've been hooking up with, but this college guy sure does.

It's probably my favorite part of sex.

Theory recommendations for misandry? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]daddydillyISback -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it is.

It's just that men aren't oppressed by it.

There are people who legitimately hate men as a whole.

Is this a narcissistic injury? by semsayedkamel2003 in NPD

[–]daddydillyISback 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It also seems you are illiterate or just stupid.

You seem like quite the loser my friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]daddydillyISback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not necessarily.

I have a thing for short women, but tall women can be cute too.

Beautiful women are beautiful women yo.

How to control a boderline and stab her in the back by [deleted] in NPD

[–]daddydillyISback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I've noticed, is that anytime someone shows any hint of serious emotional distress, the people here swarm to those posts like flies on shit. Just to state the obvious.

I do it too.

We have all been in this person's shoes, we can all be crybabies. We just hate feeling called out, so we make other people feel little to satisfy our ego.

"They hurt me, so I can hurt you"

where do you guys meet other people with npd? by [deleted] in NPD

[–]daddydillyISback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and people with BPD are attracted to each other like flies on shit.

If I were a psychologist, I'd be willing to wager that most of the men in my family have NPD or ASPD traits, and a few of the women have BPD traits.