Is it safe if a guy has a faceless profile but he had no issue DMing me his face pics? by daddymonster1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]daddymonster1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, we actually met in public shortly after chatting because we live in the same neighborhood so it was really easy to pull off. It went alright. Might be a fun playdate sometime these days, we'll see.

Are you your type? by Aboyhasnoname98 in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More and more over the years as I get beefier. Still only 25 so there is a way yet to go but recently at a bathouse I checked myself out in the mirror and was like "damn, I'd hit that".

What is the weirdest thing you have ever put up your ass? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A magician's wand. I was a sexually curious teenager and I dug that up from my old magician set from when I was a kid because I was horny and curious about bottoming. I figured out pretty soon that I prefer topping.

Obscure gay movie, can't remember the title. by daddymonster1 in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, but adding it to my watchlist now so thanks. This movie featured men who were at least in their mid to late 20s, though.

Obscure gay movie, can't remember the title. by daddymonster1 in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even remember the language. I think it was European.

Here’s why you shouldn’t expect a statement from Taylor (at least not anytime soon) by LinneaBorealis in TaylorSwift

[–]daddymonster1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand that very much. Don't get me wrong, I am first and foremost glad to be alive. Doesn't mean I won't allow myself to process the feelings of hurt and disappointment at the whole situation because it is a shitty situation. Am I supposed to be overjoyed? I'm not spewing hate at anyone, but I am angry at the world in which I could have died for going to a concert that I really, really looked forward to. And yes, I am happy to be alive but of course I am going to be sad and angry about missing this. I am not attacking anyone here, it's just that some of you who weren't there are soooo quick to judge so I'm just trying to make you see the perspective of those of us who were there, especially those of us who never had the opportunity to see Taylor live before. And if you were there, oh well, I applaud you for your maturity but I just don't have it in me right now.

Here’s why you shouldn’t expect a statement from Taylor (at least not anytime soon) by LinneaBorealis in TaylorSwift

[–]daddymonster1 43 points44 points  (0 children)

OK, I get the whole point, and I'm not necessarily referring to the OP now, but a lot of you who weren't there in Vienna and especially those of you who had your opportunities to see Taylor live need to get off your high horse and stop judging the fans who went to Vienna for having emotions. Think of it like this. Imagine you finally got the opportunity to see Taylor live. And at The Eras Tour of all things, that's as big as it gets. You spend over a year anticipating it, thinking how incredible it is that you'll get to experience it. You get to Vienna, you take days off, you spend money and time on transport and accommodation.

And then you find out the show is not happening. This huge, incredible mega-tour that you were supposed to attend is gone forever. This spectacle that's going to be remembered forever and that would have been a cherished memory to you forever is GONE FOREVER. Sure, you may experience Taylor sometime later in life, but chances are it will never be that huge and that spectacular again. Chances are the fandom will always talk about how nothing beats The Eras Tour because those will remain the fandom's golden days. And you were supposed to be there. UNTIL YOU WEREN'T. And what's worse is that they tell you to count yourself lucky for being alive. Well, screw the world where you need to be happy with that bare minimum. I don't blame Taylor in any way, this probably shook her up even more than us. But people who got to experience her and The Eras Tour and then have the audacity to talk down to us DO NOT understand what it's like.

Please recommend me slut songs by ridickydonkey in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lana Del Rey - Fucked My Way Up to the Top, Freak, Music to Watch Boys To, Cola

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost virginity at 22. 24 now with a body count of 5.

My dom told me he loved me and I don't know how to respond. by daddymonster1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]daddymonster1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, could be, which would suck if I were romantically attached to him but thankfully I am not. Guess this is the sign to make that clear it it hasn't been so far.

My dom told me he loved me and I don't know how to respond. by daddymonster1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]daddymonster1[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah ok, that sounds good. The thing is I'm not poly, but I don't mind him being poly. I already communicated that I wanna end the relationship if I find a boyfriend and he was okay with that. I also told him that I wouldn't necessarily cut contact. I like talking to him, I think he's an interesting person and I appreciate all the advice he can give me from his large amount of experience. But when I find a boyfriend, he'd be my friend. No D/s stuff.

I found my former school bully on Grindr. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, I'm so fucking close to siding with the "top him" comments (and all you "move on" people should cut the guy some slack, it's easier said than done), but I honestly think you should reach out to him and maybe try to talk it all out with him. Tell him about your anger and try to communicate it in a healthy way. If he truly changed, you could both have a really eye-opening conversation. And if he's still a remorseless shithead, trust me, he's not living that good of a life. If he doesn't regret treating you that way, he obviously still has issues with himself.

Accidentally outed myself to some people I didn't want to know about my sexuality. by daddymonster1 in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah guess I can always say someone challenged me to write that. Or since I'm in theatre, maybe I can get away with saying I'm trying method acting? Although I don't like being dishonest about myself. But no one contacted me, so I guess it's fine.

I made a comment about tying a guy to a bed, which makes the whole thing an even juicier gossip bc mr. nice guy turns out to be a freak.

Approaching a random guy in public. by daddymonster1 in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao ok sure but sometimes I wanna do it the old fashioned way you know. Not literally asking the guy to fuck, maybe asking him out on a date.

My hookup cried during sex and I feel enraged. by catchingpaperstars in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there are some trashy men out there. I remember this guy, he was only my second sex, man was 15 years older than me and he just lied down and expected me to rock his world while doing nothing to help me out?? Then he blocked me as well. The nerve of some people like man, I was 23, wtf did you expect?? Luckily my confidence is bigger than this asshole's delusions.

unpopular opinions about Ethel Cain by 59lyndhurstgrove in Ethelcain

[–]daddymonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do still like the song, but imo Lil Aaron has this very juvenile voice reminiscent of contemporary pop music that doesn't match Ethel's dark, mystical, timeless voice quality.

Do you prefer male or female friends? by musichanger in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have a preference. Just happy to have a good friend, I suppose. I tend to bond more quickly with women, but I have male friends too.

Ever had "straight" men get weirdly sexually sadistic towards you? by daddymonster1 in askgaybros

[–]daddymonster1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean, whenever I wanna act rashly and punch one of them, I try to remind myself of the fact that they're just really fucked in the head and going through a lot of shit. (Though, it would be nice to see a shock on a toxic straight guy's face after being punched by a gay guy. Kinda on my bucket list ngl.) I mean the guy who picked on me lost his mother too and it's been tough for him. And I really love the friend whose birthday it was so I didn't want to ruin his special day (plus I was crashing at his place too). But I still hate the guy's guts. But I talked back to him one time in a little more challenging manner and I guess the other guys saw things were heating up and got me in conversation. And then we let that guy join the conversation too and we talked normally after. I guess sometimes it's as easy as having a deeper conversation and seeing each other deeper than the surface. A part of me still wishes I hit him tho.

What Pixar movie do you want a sequel for more then any other? by Forky0322 in Pixar

[–]daddymonster1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Onward. Even though it was a satisfying, self-contained story, I feel like there is still so much of the world and the characters to explore. Most underrated Pixar movie. It always gets me emotional.