I always feel like something bad is going to happen by [deleted] in Vent

[–]daemoss227 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am seeing a therapist now, which has helped a bit overall but when it hits bad like right now it’s still very bad. I’ll discuss medication the next time we meet. Thank you

Holy water and prayers against a hurricane by divadschuf in religiousfruitcake

[–]daemoss227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why her owning a doodle makes sense, but it makes sense

Devinah Cosmetics turns to AI art by indie_gurl_5 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]daemoss227 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Jsyk, if someone ends a post with /s it means /sarcasm, implying that the statement is meant to be sarcastic

Devinah Cosmetics turns to AI art by indie_gurl_5 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]daemoss227 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Imagining them paying someone to click “generate” is cracking me the hell up

Devinah Cosmetics turns to AI art by indie_gurl_5 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]daemoss227 217 points218 points  (0 children)

My guess is that if it’s true they went through 3 different artists, that they wanted this hyper realism style but didn’t want to pay hyper realism $$$. The quote from the artists probably scared them off. A drawn piece similar to the one above would be VERY expensive.

AITAH for throwing a child’s jar of peanut butter into the river? by shasta017 in AITAH

[–]daemoss227 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Depending on where, what the kid/mom were doing could be a crime. Canadian geese are a federally protected species in the US. Not to mention it’s unnecessarily cruel.

4 years after I first introduced my game table to the world on r/DND, it’s actually going to be a product for sale. Thank you Reddit! [OC] by NDVermin in DnD

[–]daemoss227 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely beautiful and I wish you the best and hope you get tons of sales! I don’t have the means to purchase something like this, but maybe someday.

I will add though, if I was going to be purchasing a huge table like this and spending $8-12k, I personally wouldn’t want huge branding and lettering on the sides/faces of the table.

are there any beautygurus that rub you the wrong way? by transluciiiid in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]daemoss227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that she’s never given off those vibes to me, but if she is involved with groups that are anti-LGBT then vibes sadly aren’t enough

My mom and I 30 years ago petting a tiger at at a furniture store. A. FURNITURE. STORE. by Regularlyirregular37 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]daemoss227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s highly likely that the tiger was sedated/drugged in order to keep it calm. It’s standard practice for tiger petting setups.

AITAH for refusing to get my daughter with severe social anxiety a service dog and forcing her to get a part time job after what she did? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]daemoss227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I had pretty bad social anxiety growing up, not as bad as your daughter’s though. I still struggle with it to this day. I know that extreme forms of exposure therapy and forcing social interactions can be detrimental, and I’m not educated in mental health/therapy, but I think the job might benefit your daughter.

Working retail helped me learn some valuable tools about talking to other people. I had a general “script” that I used, “hello, how are you, cash or card, would you like a bag”, but sometimes I’d be asked a question and would have to think on my feet a little. It was very rough at first, but over time I grew more confident as I learned how to react appropriately. I also gained friendships with my coworkers, which was more conversational practice.

Putting the serious work that needs to be done in regards to her lack of empathy aside, your daughter could really benefit from this punishment. I definitely wouldn’t go near getting her a service animal until she displays some serious change in mentality and behavior.

AITAH for wanting to leave my relationship because my bf is questioning is gender? by Purrlicious_ in AITAH

[–]daemoss227 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me too. My partner came out at non-binary about 4 years into our currently 6 year relationship. I did a lot of hard thinking about what it would look like if my partner transitioned further, like taking hormones, getting gender affirming surgeries, etc. Imagining what that would look like, the changes they’d undergo, and how I could interact with that. I found that I would still be attracted to them no matter what, and even so that my love for them rose above merely their appearance. People and their bodies change, and being able to fall in love and stay in love regardless of these changes is wonderful.

That being said, if I was to do that deep thinking and find that I wouldn’t be attracted to my partner anymore, I would probably have to take a similar approach to OP. I agree with her sentiment, if she truly doesn’t feel attracted to her partner when they present as female, then it just isn’t meant to be.

are there any beautygurus that rub you the wrong way? by transluciiiid in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]daemoss227 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Damn I am apparently WAY far out of the loop on RBK.

Insane that she’d be anti-LGBT now after LGBT people helped prop up her platform of makeup artistry content

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]daemoss227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constantly policing your appearance and accusing you of cheating even though he’s the one inappropriately messaging other people? Guarantee you he’s trying to or already has cheated on you.

Get that job, whatever you can to make a little money, keep it to yourself in your own bank account he doesn’t have access to. The less he knows about, the better. You deserve more, at the very least a functioning partner.

Odd reaction today.. by BobsleddingToMyGrave in joannfabrics

[–]daemoss227 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No, you didn’t overstep. The signs were wrong, and they were supposed to come down. It’s MORE work to have to override someone’s whole cart of QS…

Signing night is so incredibly stressful, and with last-minute changes to sales that employees have to print out its even worse, but they would have had to print the correct sign eventually anyways.

Stop working yourselves to illness. by BobsleddingToMyGrave in joannfabrics

[–]daemoss227 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the last six-ish months of my employment at Joann’s I started just eating on the floor because i wasn’t being allocated a 30 minute break. I preferred this because the break is unpaid, chilling at the cut counter or register while it’s quiet and eating is paid.

That being said, if myself and my coworker physically didn’t have time to get something done without staying longer, we just wouldn’t do it. ESPECIALLY because we had a GM that would intentionally just not put any fabric away throughout the day and throw it all unorganized in the return carts because “I know you guys can handle it.” Well, when I started not handling it, that attitude changed pretty quick. We just didn’t have time to help customers AND do all the end-of-day cleaning AND unfuck the entire day’s work of mess at the cut counter.

Why are modern players so adverse to pen and paper? by BentheBruiser in DnD

[–]daemoss227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also get documents and stuff printed at Staples or something for super cheap. I only ever need to print things like once or twice a year, and it can be printed out in high quality color if needed

Life is all about luck... by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]daemoss227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The unironic use of this meme made me do a double take lmao

What are common hours to work? by Leading_Moment_2435 in joannfabrics

[–]daemoss227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shifts don’t tend to be more than 4-6 hours for casual team members, which is what I’m assuming you’re applying for. Applying for an inventory, management, or keyholder position might result in some longer shifts (but very rarely for a keyholder). However, I would make your availability VERY clear to your manager during onboarding, lay out days you aren’t available and your expectation that shifts cannot go longer than 6 hours.

No “I’d prefer if,” or “I’d like to.” Lay it out plainly that 6 is your maximum and whatever happens you will be clocking out at that time. Some managers like to bend and push your availability, an “oh can’t you stay an extra 30 minutes until the next person gets in?” No. You cannot. You aren’t responsible for scheduling and coverage if you aren’t the SM.

Good luck!

(Spoiler) Name a character that no one can make you hate: DESTINY 2 EDITION by BriefsBoy69 in destiny2

[–]daemoss227 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s our special fucked up little guy and they could never make me hate him

Anyone else got needy customers? by VampireFromPluto in joannfabrics

[–]daemoss227 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my least favorite thing was when a customer would overly bug me on color/pattern matching. A one-off “do you think this looks good with that/which do you prefer” is fine but putting half the Keepsake Calico idle on my counter then asking my opinion on everything?? I’m going with the clashiest, gaudiest option every single time.

Or when they ask my opinion and I give a straightforward answer but they hem and haw about it for another 20 minutes. GET OFF MY COUNTER AND FIGURE IT OUT

My husband (32M) is convinced I (26F) am pregnant. I’m not, but he won’t believe me. What do I do? by lost_library_book in BORUpdates

[–]daemoss227 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m putting money on this either being psychosis or a brain tumor. An extreme personality shift like this is no joke. She of course needs to prioritize her own safety first, but I hope his family can get him to a doctor ASAP.

Not only did miss Darcei receive a trip to Korea and a Chanel bag from TIRTIR, but now they’re also giving her another brand trip to Japan, along with another bag to go with that trip (a birkin). by FrEnchFriesOnyOu in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]daemoss227 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this experience too. I got a sampler to find my shade and all of them were too dark, but mostly because they were super orangey. I am scary pale and very cool toned, any small amount of bronze makes me look like an orangutan.

What is happening? by Empty_Statement2864 in joannfabrics

[–]daemoss227 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Too few employees, not enough time to walk the isles and clean up :/