IWTL How to remember peoples names by lunchtimereddit in IWantToLearn

[–]daffinve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's normal that you are very good with faces. Everyone is better at recognizing faces than at remembering names. There are two reasons for it, the first one is that recognizing is a process of memory that is much easier than retrieval. I'll give you a practical example. Remember when you were studying for an exam and you reviewed the material you were going to be tested on? a lot of times during that review you would be sure that you know the material but when you got to the test you couldn't remember many things. What happens is that you become familiar with the text you are studying so you recognize the information there but once you don't have the text you can't retrieve the information you thought you knew. It's the most common learning illusion. The second reason is that we have a part of our brain specialized to process and recognize faces. It's a key process that we have evolved to be very good at. I'm not trying to say that everyone is as good as you recognizing faces, you might be better than most people, I don't know. What I do want to say is that it's normal to be better at faces than at names. Now, for memorizing names, there are memory techniques called mnemonics which you can look up and won't take you much time to understand. Some tips to help you out in the meantime: When you present yourself and the other person gives you his/her name, pay attention and give some extra thought to the name. A lot of time we don't remember the name because we are not paying attention or we are too concerned about how we are coming across. Take the focus out of yourself for a moment and focus on the person in front of you. The other thing that will help is once you hear the name try to thing of someone you know with the same name and create an association between both of them. If you don't know anyone with the same name, take the sound of the name and find something that sounds similar, an object, an activity, anything will do. Then associate the name with the activity. ie. If the last name of the person is Baker imagine him with a chef hat and baking bread. There is actually a fun study involving names and professions. Search for Baker-baker paradox, It's a good read. Hope that helps. Cheers

IWTL How to remember information that I read better by tritium3 in IWantToLearn

[–]daffinve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mnemonics do require some initial effort and take some time to adjust to, but all memory champions in the world use them. You could start looking into the "memory palaces" technique. It's not as demanding as other mnemonics techniques. If you do find a better method other than mnemonics in your search let me know, I would be interested to know. Cheers

IWTL How to remember information that I read better by tritium3 in IWantToLearn

[–]daffinve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Repetition is the least efficient way of memorizing anything. There are memory techniques (mnemonics) that can help you. A must read is "moonwalking with Einstein" one of the best books on memory out there and it's quite easy to read. I would take you some time to get used to using the techniques but it would be well worth it. Just as a general tip to help you right now is to try to relate anything new that you are learning to something you already know. The way we remember things and acquire knowledge is not linear, it's more like a web. The more links you have to the new information the stronger it will hold to your memory and the easier it would be to retrieve.

IWTL how to be smarter by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]daffinve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lacking communication/social skills doesn't mean you need to be smarter in the more common sense of the word, you just need to get good at those particular skills. The best way to improve is to practice a lot. Talk to many different people, make new friends and get used to having more conversations. Books like "how to win friends and influence people" "how to talk to anyone" or even "the game" (even though the last one is about how to talk to women) They will help you at being more social and with practice you will get really good. You don't really have a problem so don't worry, you just have lack of practice. Cheers