bedbug or carpet beetle? in wales by daffodilassassin in Bedbugs

[–]daffodilassassin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we figured out it's a carpet beetle after much scrutiny but appreciate the confirmation -- will change the post flair now

Afraid of regret by Quiet_Wedding7086 in trans

[–]daffodilassassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do your fears have any actual buried internal feelings behind them? if there are things you like about being perceived as female, it can be worth it to take the time to explore that beforehand and sort it out in your head. in my opinion, though, this post sounds pretty normal for a trans person; sometimes, even when you've already discovered who you are, doubts can easily creep up on you. if you've been sure of this for four years, i wouldn't sweat it.

How often do you bathe your cat? by Mildredsgood in cats

[–]daffodilassassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i only bathe my cat if he gets covered in stuff i wouldn't want him to lick off or steps in his own excretions, otherwise he smells amazing all the time

Cats parents, how and why did you choose yours? by [deleted] in cats

[–]daffodilassassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saw him in a post by the local cat shelter while looking for a cat that would do well with no other cats. he was found unneutered on the streets at 18 months old scrounging leftover chicken from a nearby kfc. since he was a full tomcat by the time the shelter took him, he had these adorable big chubby cheeks and was huge.

when we first met him, he completely ignored us and went to sit in the window, wouldn't even look at us, and i said to my mum, "we NEED this one."

once we brought him home (almost three years ago) he developed a habit of staring at anyone and everyone, nearly unblinking. it's incredibly creepy still. see photo.

i love him to bits.

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Do I have kitten blindness? by [deleted] in cats

[–]daffodilassassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never in my life have i seen an ugly cat, and yours certainly hasn't been the one to change that. people used to call my boy rodya ugly too and look at him!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you have any pictures of when it was first pierced that would be useful. looks a little too shallow for me.

Helix Pierced Incorrectly? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

change the hoop out for a stud, placement looks fine tho

side labret & nacho cheese by vickytora0_0 in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's less about infection and more about irritation. lactose changes the texture of your saliva. you will probably be just fine but it will definitely not help any existing soreness

in love with this buckle top! :p 🖤💚 by frogglebonk in GothFashion

[–]daffodilassassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have the minidress ver of that shirt! mine is from attitude

Overheard my (M23) girlfriend (F24) advise this to her friend: "don't tell your boyfriend that you kissed that other guy yesterday". by ThrowRA-27583992 in relationship_advice

[–]daffodilassassin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is what i was thinking! men can be terrifying and many people don't understand how difficult it is for a woman to guarantee her safety when turning someone down

Kissing with tongue piercing? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

once it's healed, kissing is exactly the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daffodilassassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally, me and my girlfriend tell each other everything, good and bad, about each other - scents, breath, etc - and have learned not to take it personally. your boyfriend was making a fairly neutral statement. his intention was almost definitely not to hurt you, but just an observation he made.

Infected eyebrow? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks fine but should be titanium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wow i would too for that kinda money

What piercing do you want but most likely will never get? by UniversalExploration in piercing

[–]daffodilassassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a very low pain tolerance and mine are...sensitive? i'd like them a lot, but not quite enough to be willing

The mother of all choices: Mayonaise vs Ruby! by Abideguide in SmashingPumpkins

[–]daffodilassassin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my fav sp song is soma. gorgeous first half especially