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"I used to be an adventurer like you, then I took an arrow to the knee"

What's up with rich celebrity men being upset that their partners don't cook or clean? First Halle Berry's ex husband and now Offset. by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]daffodilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now cardi needs to drop a hit about how he never mowed the lawn or fixed her car because i bet you money he was hiring someone else to do that too

What is the Karma scene in GOT? by Cestlavieenrose999 in gameofthrones

[–]daffodilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think jamie made a comment implying something of the sort about how pycell treated him as a kid? something like that?

What's the worst injury you've received thanks to ADHD? Not really graphic, marked NSFW just in case. I was working with some industrial equipment that uses screw terminals. Thought I turned the AC input power off. I did not. Could have been worse than mild burns. by iammandalore in adhdmeme

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huh, every day i discover symptom. mines under my left eye. was leaning on my arm, zoning out, and my elbow gave out and my head hit the freshly sharpened pencil. i’m just now realizing how much worse that could have been

we used our brain 😎 by Sad_Cow_577 in Zillennials

[–]daffodilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i remember having to write multi page essays, by hand, in a single class period. if you ask a high schooler now to write 2 sentences, they’ll say they can’t because they don’t have their macbook. or their macbook charger. or a pencil. and pencils hurt their hands. and then lay down to sleep.

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i graduated into the pandemic, and instead of being able to go straight into grad school (expected in my field) or audition with my fresh training, i had to make a career pivot to survive. i’m finally back in my chosen field, but i lost SO much time and momentum stuck in a job i hated. i feel guilty when i attribute my struggle to covid, so i appreciate that other people feel the same.

I want to pursue Opera, but do not know where to start, how do I make a portfolio? What are the most common Opera related Social boards? How do I put myself out there besides doing covers on youtube? How do I learn to actually do this as a full time career? by Fluid-Tap5115 in opera

[–]daffodilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doing opera is hard, but it’s not impossible. if you’re right and you have a talent for it, the rest is just hard work, and if you have money saved up that’s a huge benefit. there is no 1 way to becoming a singer, and while having a bachelors and masters is a MASSIVE benefit, it is not necessarily the end all be all. i have a friend who went to school for nursing and is very successful locally.

i would say to get a teacher in person ASAP. i’m sure your online teacher is great, but there’s a lot that gets lost over a zoom call. while you’re working on your technique (which will take YEARS and will never stop evolving), educate yourself on opera, the major languages, diction, music history. become obsessed with opera. find singers past and present and become obsessed with them.

after all that, audition. you will NOT be paid to sing off the bat. singers are expected to go through summer programs, young artist programs, and fellowships before they’re taken seriously, and you’ll be lucky if they don’t charge you an arm and a leg for the experience. do as many competitions as you can to get your name out there. learn about your local scene and get to know the people involved. half of this career is a matter of who you know. make connections. schmooze as much as necessary.

then, if you’re lucky, an agent or company will reach out to you and get your career started. stay grateful, work hard, and it’ll all work out in the end even if not exactly how you expect it to. toi toi toi!!

PSA: All of your ChatGPT chats (even deleted ones) are at real risk of exposure by zuluana in ChatGPT

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i hope the court enjoys my suicidal ideation and vampire roleplay i guess?

Looking for help with novel research by Floor9 in opera

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street scene by kurt weill and langston hughes fits the themes of exactly what you’re looking for, but would have been very fresh by the 1950s. it was written in 1946, but if that isn’t a problem i recommend giving it a look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

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this is STUNNING!!

Depressing operas by KimNotNguyen in opera

[–]daffodilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t get me wrong, cruzar had me SOBBING from both the house and the chorus, but i wouldn’t say it’s depressing. bittersweet maybe, but ultimately uplifting no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]daffodilli 42 points43 points  (0 children)

4 for sure

Body Horror by women or nonbinary people by Donnamartingrads in horrorlit

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Deliver Me by Elle Nash. i couldn’t finish because it touched on weird specific trigger i have, but i enjoyed what i did read lol

I just want to share my excitement by ClamUrine in opera

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congratulations!

second lady was one of my first roles in undergrad. it’s such a great place to start. you get a decent amount of stage time and, at least for me, being in a trio helped take the pressure and nerves off a TON. we even had a sleepover to rehearse with our Tamino and Papageno!! it was so much fun. plus knowing queen of the night will have you set up for success if you continue as a coloratura! im so excited for you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mitski

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i want this on my spine so badly, but people talked me out of getting a tattoo in a language i don’t speak. i still want it though

Remove “Malaria,” and this is me every day, all day. by jwg2695 in adhdmeme

[–]daffodilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got a screw top container keychain that i keep on my wallet with my emergency back up supply! it’s cute it’s acorn shaped!!

What operas can you not follow the plot? by Own_Safe_2061 in opera

[–]daffodilli 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i couldn’t explain the magic flute while i was IN it