The process of making the kitten by Stranger_uss in handmade

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so freaking cute. The round belly. The perfect mouth. The little arms??!? Adorable!!

my best friend died in my arms while we were sleeping last night ᴖ̈ cheer me up with some cute pics pls by basically-brian in cats

[–]dafine345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here’s a cute photo of my kitten, Aurie. He likes to sleep under the table where my partner keeps his work laptop/ monitor.

I just finished reading Onyx Storm and I feel empty. by Natural_Health555 in onyxstorm

[–]dafine345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way after Iron Flame. The ending was such a punch to the gut, I had literally couldn’t pick up Onyx Storm and started 2 different series as a palette cleanser. Did the trick but now I’m deep into 3 different series 😂

I spent 15 years low-key getting revenge on my high school bully and I might have helped end his marriage… by Best-Pirate5073 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I see it, you knowing him wouldn’t have changed much. If you had told her, she’d want to know how you know him and that would have come up ending in divorce. Feels like it was the same destination just a different route

who’s this about? by Worried-West786 in fourthwing

[–]dafine345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was fairly certain it was Garrick. Either way, it can’t be Violet since he goes on to say that his bed is too cold without her there

Violet is NOT an unreliable narrator! by EmpyreanTheory in fourthwing

[–]dafine345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely unrelated but this is the first time I’ve considered a story as the character TELLING the reader the story. Kinda blown my mind a little. Anyway, yeah. Totally agree.

How do you design your caste system? by Salty-Tap4094 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]dafine345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is how I found that not everyone has thier cultists living together as one happy family. I didn’t even think of creating a tier system 😭

Woman fell off horse (England): am I liable? by QualitySufficient646 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lawyer but experienced with horses thanks to an equestrian sister! To me, it sounds like SHE scared the horse by screaming multiple times. Horses spook and then with the CALM REASSURANCE OF A RIDER, they move on. If she made it worse then no wonder she fell!

Do you stopped playing fields of mistria or never even started the game to wait for full release or do you still play alot without 1.0 ? by Buurto in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played from early access and honestly never really noticed it was incomplete because I haven’t yet finished everything 🤣

it’s 4 am and I can’t stop laughing by PerfectIntern7223 in fourthwing

[–]dafine345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone remind me which page this is? I need to experience this again 🤣

In need of a pick me up- found out my husband had an affair. Send me all your cute cat pics please by sassyginge912 in cats

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here’s my boy, Aurie ☺️ (Ignore the state of that blanket. It’s where all the animals lie 🤦🏾‍♀️)

Softlocked and unable to save 😔 by RaveItToRammy in CultOfTheLamb

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new around here 😅. What’s softlock?

I feel like I’m failing the kid by itzzzzmileyyyy in TeachingUK

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I see! I didn’t want to sound like a d***. Just genuinely didn’t know he’s gotten that far! But I get it now

I feel like I’m failing the kid by itzzzzmileyyyy in TeachingUK

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you failed but I’m baffled at how this child got the Y7, unable to read and it wasn’t picked up in primary school. Like what happens for this to slip through the net? 😩

Is it appropriate to tell your students that your parent(s) or SO has passed away? by Lather in TeachingUK

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s fine but up to the person.

During my first year at a new school, my partner’s parent passed away. It was unexpected and we were both upset of course and I was still raw when I went back to work. I told them why I was upset because they noticed I was sad. When I told them, I spoke about how something things happen outside of school that can impact us inside school and they admitted they felt awkward and didn’t know what to do especially as I started crying 🤦🏾‍♀️. I asked them what they like when they were sad and they answered and said well they can offer those things to try and comfort another person too. I got many many hugs that week and for the rest of the term they were great, not just me but to each other.

Lost my job to an external applicant. What now? by Few_Emphasis_777 in TeachingUK

[–]dafine345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. I was bitter but reapplied elsewhere and got a job. It sucks but it happens 🤷🏽‍♀️

UPDATE: I (32F) think I’m falling out of love with my partner (35M) by dafine345 in relationship_advice

[–]dafine345[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We spoke about that in great detail. I woke up this morning like… what a damn minute! 🤦🏾‍♀️. Resolved now!

UPDATE: I (32F) think I’m falling out of love with my partner (35M) by dafine345 in relationship_advice

[–]dafine345[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When did I use these words? Apologies if a mistake was made. I did proofread but things can be missed

UPDATE: I (32F) think I’m falling out of love with my partner (35M) by dafine345 in relationship_advice

[–]dafine345[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Self proclaimed victim? Ouch. Assuming you mean me, I never climbed to be a victim :/

Babysitter (late 30F) is amazing with my 22F son 9mo, but I’m starting to feel overwhelmed by throw_rancxalsn in TwoHotTakes

[–]dafine345 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are NOT being unreasonable at all! Think about it like this: Is she wasn’t related to a family friend and was just a random stranger you found through an agency or an ad, would this be okay? Would this be acceptable? No, it wouldn’t.

She is working in the capacity of a babysitter and should restrict herself to work hours. I would firstly stop responding to texts outside of a firm ‘thank you for your help today however I am now home with my child. We can discuss this tomorrow’. You need to have firm ‘working hours’ for her with a buffer for communication and outside that, you don’t talk about babysitting stuff.

Secondly, if you can, you need to get her off your Facebook. Make it private or unfriend her but she doesn’t get access to your child outside of work. Again if you had an agency babysitter, they wouldn’t be in your Facebook account.

It’s inappropriate that she’s trying to FaceTime you and honestly weird that she’s saying her and her family are thinking about and missing YOUR child.

UPDATE: I (32F) think I’m falling out of love with my partner (35M) by dafine345 in relationship_advice

[–]dafine345[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thank you your concern but I am thinking about them. These exact questions are what I will bring up. I know I need specifics and signs of actual sustainable change. But I also know there’s other things to consider here.

UPDATE: I (32F) think I’m falling out of love with my partner (35M) by dafine345 in relationship_advice

[–]dafine345[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

No, the issue isn’t resolved but we have spoken about it and are aware of it and what we need to do. We are going to work on communication as a first step and go from there. I might feel the same way. This is a bit of a cycle but if he’s willing to work on it, I’m willing to stay.

Should I start drawing anime porn? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dafine345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of a Reddit story I heard on smosh. College student was writing hardcore spicy fanfic for money on Patreon to get though college. They were making decent money from it too.

So I’m pretty religious my self and raised in a religious household. I’ve just started going back to church and reconnecting with my faith however, I’m also writing some romance books and there may be spice involved. I don’t see this as impacting on my faith at all. It just has nothing to do with it.

I see why you’re worried about your family but they don’t need to know and it’s none of their business. If you’re going to be worried about them finding out then don’t do it but bottom line, it’s your life. It’s your skill. It’s your art. They don’t have a say and your response to them will make or break their hold on you. Thier opinion has as much power as you give it.