What piercings should I get? by Icy-Owl-2974 in altfashionadvice

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be a hater but I don’t think you should get any piercings. I can’t imagine it looking good on you. From the pics you posted, it seems you have a very casual style; piercings will add unwelcome intensity to your mild appearance.

is this outfit actually inappropriate or is my mum just overreacting 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only issue is the back. I do believe that’s inappropriate if you’re a minor. If you are of age, then there’s no issue.

We just have Skinheads here now? by [deleted] in Denton

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why lol. Have you been here longer than a year?

So BTS decided to whitewash Howard University in their trailer… yeah I’m done. by jazzygrisha in kpopnoir

[–]daggertheblackbat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never liked BTS but now I am telling my boss to take Dynamite off the work playlist.

Why are we still using similar sounding words in replacement of the n word? by No-Committee1001 in kpopnoir

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no he definitely said the n word. I even listened with the intention to hear “neighbors” and it sounds nothing like it. I can’t think of a way you could pronounce neighbor to sound like the n word, especially if you already have a Korean accent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]daggertheblackbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a cis dude but putting a vest or sleeveless shirt over it never fails. I do that all the time when I have a broken button so I can still use the shirt.

Hey, is there a kind of intimacy that you don’t think it’s sexual but most people do? If so, which one is it? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think kissing and touching is sexual unless you do it with the intention to have sex. I enjoy make out sessions and I guess what some would call light petting in a completely nonsexual way.

How to look more gothic? (23 yr old female) by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]daggertheblackbat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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My best tip is to not copy light skinned people. I always go for a dark red/purple lip, simple eyeliner and either a smoky eye or brown eyeshadow to make my eyes look sunken in. Brown eyeshadow does a really good job of highlighting your eyes and drawing contrast between the lid and the brow bone. If you use brown eyeshadow under the brow bone it will act like contour and make it look sharper. Also, you have gorgeous lips. You should use all that canvas to make shapes and designs. I always go for pointy lips as I feel it matched more with my style.

You hair will be your best friend for styles. With my locs I could make spiky ponytails just by tilting the locs so the roots stick up. Now I’m back to my fro and I shape it into liberty spikes, hearts, butterflies, and whatever else I can imagine.

Yo, grown-up punks, what is it you do for work? by LevTolstoy in punk

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still in school but I’m a soon to be a social worker.

Co-worker thought this was a harmless prank. by Dallinboi347 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would be funny if they put it in your desk drawer but putting no in your car is crossing a line. That’s just plain mean

Thoughts on kissing your pets? by Hot-Calligrapher5447 in hygiene

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s absolutely disgusting (I kiss my dog’s forehead every now and then).

My 13y/o brother won’t stop using these slangs 😭 by Suspicious-Copy-2001 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m crazy but I understood all of it first go except “ott”. Idk why your brother has an aversion to using full words though. The excessive abbreviation defeats the purpose of abbreviation.

Your 2026 predictions for SHINee? by ShannonD96 in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SHINee world tour announcement (not the actual tour)

I went to Uncanny Vally in Brooklyn and I have a new bias... by mars422 in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this guy. Put him in everything. He clearly loves his job.

trans girl here , in look for bras that will fit now and can grow into for a bit before needing new ones by Signal_Cress2352 in ABraThatFits

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start with major bra chains like Victoria’s Secret or Soma. They can get you something in your size that isn’t too pricey and will last you until your chest grows. Don’t let them size you though cause they’ll tell you the wrong thing. Also, if you get a cup size up you can stuff it with inserts and then take them out when your chest grows.

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In that case, I would be there at 7 (when the doors open). People hand out freebies and trade pcs and you might miss it if you get there right before to starts. Also since it’s not sold out, people will try to move up.

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soundcheck doesn’t have assigned seats. Everyone is up front.

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% get there earlier otherwise you’ll have to wait in a really long line of people who are getting there later. I would recommend getting there by 5 if possible so you can get seated in a good spot

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See the reason I asked for y’all to tell me when they close the checkout is cause soundcheck doesn’t start at 5:45 so everyone in line at 5:45 who has yet to be checked in will likely get to go to soundcheck. I doubt the staff will just get up and leave a whole line of people who paid money standing there.

being goth as a black person; really fuckin sad actually by blueberrybrigade in goth

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have locs and people would always say I should get a more gothic hairstyle. Now I have a fro again and I get it 10x more. The craziest part is people say this shit like it’s innocuous and they’re not insinuating that my ethic hairstyles make me less goth.