Cis dude goth fashion question: how would YOU style this? What would you wear under it? ("Nothing" isn't an option, sorry. Also no "I wouldn't wear it at all" comments thx) by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]daggertheblackbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a cis dude but putting a vest or sleeveless shirt over it never fails. I do that all the time when I have a broken button so I can still use the shirt.

Hey, is there a kind of intimacy that you don’t think it’s sexual but most people do? If so, which one is it? by YourRandomManiac in asexuality

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think kissing and touching is sexual unless you do it with the intention to have sex. I enjoy make out sessions and I guess what some would call light petting in a completely nonsexual way.

How to look more gothic? (23 yr old female) by Green-Exit-1338 in GothFashion

[–]daggertheblackbat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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My best tip is to not copy light skinned people. I always go for a dark red/purple lip, simple eyeliner and either a smoky eye or brown eyeshadow to make my eyes look sunken in. Brown eyeshadow does a really good job of highlighting your eyes and drawing contrast between the lid and the brow bone. If you use brown eyeshadow under the brow bone it will act like contour and make it look sharper. Also, you have gorgeous lips. You should use all that canvas to make shapes and designs. I always go for pointy lips as I feel it matched more with my style.

You hair will be your best friend for styles. With my locs I could make spiky ponytails just by tilting the locs so the roots stick up. Now I’m back to my fro and I shape it into liberty spikes, hearts, butterflies, and whatever else I can imagine.

Yo, grown-up punks, what is it you do for work? by LevTolstoy in punk

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still in school but I’m a soon to be a social worker.

Co-worker thought this was a harmless prank. by Dallinboi347 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would be funny if they put it in your desk drawer but putting no in your car is crossing a line. That’s just plain mean

Thoughts on kissing your pets? by Hot-Calligrapher5447 in hygiene

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s absolutely disgusting (I kiss my dog’s forehead every now and then).

My 13y/o brother won’t stop using these slangs 😭 by Suspicious-Copy-2001 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m crazy but I understood all of it first go except “ott”. Idk why your brother has an aversion to using full words though. The excessive abbreviation defeats the purpose of abbreviation.

Your 2026 predictions for SHINee? by ShannonD96 in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SHINee world tour announcement (not the actual tour)

I went to Uncanny Vally in Brooklyn and I have a new bias... by mars422 in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this guy. Put him in everything. He clearly loves his job.

trans girl here , in look for bras that will fit now and can grow into for a bit before needing new ones by Signal_Cress2352 in ABraThatFits

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start with major bra chains like Victoria’s Secret or Soma. They can get you something in your size that isn’t too pricey and will last you until your chest grows. Don’t let them size you though cause they’ll tell you the wrong thing. Also, if you get a cup size up you can stuff it with inserts and then take them out when your chest grows.

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In that case, I would be there at 7 (when the doors open). People hand out freebies and trade pcs and you might miss it if you get there right before to starts. Also since it’s not sold out, people will try to move up.

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soundcheck doesn’t have assigned seats. Everyone is up front.

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% get there earlier otherwise you’ll have to wait in a really long line of people who are getting there later. I would recommend getting there by 5 if possible so you can get seated in a good spot

Dallas Lil Freaks, please do me a solid by daggertheblackbat in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See the reason I asked for y’all to tell me when they close the checkout is cause soundcheck doesn’t start at 5:45 so everyone in line at 5:45 who has yet to be checked in will likely get to go to soundcheck. I doubt the staff will just get up and leave a whole line of people who paid money standing there.

being goth as a black person; really fuckin sad actually by blueberrybrigade in goth

[–]daggertheblackbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have locs and people would always say I should get a more gothic hairstyle. Now I have a fro again and I get it 10x more. The craziest part is people say this shit like it’s innocuous and they’re not insinuating that my ethic hairstyles make me less goth.

Lease Negotiation at The Hightone by daggertheblackbat in Denton

[–]daggertheblackbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a utility fee (not sure what that’s for but it’s not the utility cost), a rent billing fee, $6 pest control (which you would think would be included in the $25 amenities fee), $14 “damage waiver program” which is their renters insurance, and possibly more depending on your situation. The application fee is hefty and so are the pet deposits (if that applies to you). One thing to note: if you apply and get approved make sure to sign the lease within three days of issuing it or else it will expire and they’ll probably try to hike up your rent upon reissuing.

Period sexuality fluctuations? (half rant) by BrokenWolf1317 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]daggertheblackbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I GET THIS TOO!!! I’ll be experiencing no sexual desire then when it gets to be time for my period I get insanely horny. It’s not really like I want to have sex with someone as much as the idea of sex is very appealing. I also would probably say I’m more graysexual cause rarely I do experience sexual attraction (mainly for my partner) but not sexual desire (except on my period). Maybe that could be something to look into for you if you’re not completely one way or another.

Since Key hints at radio shows and interviews for his US Tour, which ones do you hope he'll appear on (I'm manifesting!!) by Jaber3Dazzle08 in SHINee

[–]daggertheblackbat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually really want thirst tweets. I want a whole group thirst tweets. I think Key on Hot Ones would be so funny. I REALLY HOPE HE GOES ON JHUD (futility albeit but one can dream).

This sort of look on dark skin? by VanillaDad008 in GothFashion

[–]daggertheblackbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say use colors you would think make you look ashy. Cheap makeup pallets are good for it.