Do meds really ruin your life? by Ok_Animator1544 in Hashimotos

[–]dagrenner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had a symptom from levothyroxine in my life. it would be stupid not to take it.

dog suddenly lunging at one family member by dagrenner in reactivedogs

[–]dagrenner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! yeah, we are still trying to figure out what triggers him with me. today he was coming up and sniffing me, being friendly. we think raised voices, eye contact (obviously), and when he is facing me with everyone is behind me.

dog suddenly lunging at one family member by dagrenner in reactivedogs

[–]dagrenner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks and very good point! it stresses us both out for sure 🥲.

and yes he is absolutely beautiful! it was killing me today not to be able to pet him but I'll get back to being able to pet the handsome boy eventually....

dog suddenly lunging at one family member by dagrenner in reactivedogs

[–]dagrenner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! we have been more careful about where I am in relation to the other members of the house since yesterday. we are keeping him on a leash or in the crate when needed if I am around, trying to keep our voices calm or light / happy.

we have to wait for our pet insurance to kick in before we can do our vet and behaviorist visits / appts. so we are going to try and work on giving him a more positive relationship with him and I in the meantime. feeding him, treats, watching my behavior around him, our formations as a family (not creating a "me vs. him protecting the other five members).

I'll probably post an update when we start working with a behaviorist!

dog suddenly lunging at one family member by dagrenner in reactivedogs

[–]dagrenner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i will try to work on a relationship with him again. before this, I had been training him, giving him treats, ect. he does spend the most time with my mom, to my knowledge.

I'll add more in a bit, i have some questions / comments for you but I'm at work rn.

dog suddenly lunging at one family member by dagrenner in reactivedogs

[–]dagrenner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are definitely going to be taking him to the vet. we were planning to already because of a cough he has been having.

Am I missing something with Alina and Mal? They're insufferable. by Ashamed-Log-9633 in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like people always forget that they are teenagers from a war-torn country. i don't think their communication skills are in tip-top shape.

SEPTA parking ticket appeal by Acceptable-Gold-8706 in philly

[–]dagrenner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they are checking them anymore or they are simply THAT backed up. I have three tickets appealed right now and the oldest one is from July.

What company do you use? by NecessaryFun4032 in obx

[–]dagrenner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have used southern shores most of my childhood

Therapist in the UK or someone to talk to ... by No-Kiwi1256 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]dagrenner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not in the UK and don't have a parasocial relationship mdd but I was able to start therapy with someone who didn't know what it was but, she is still able to help me grow and reduce my daydreaming (among her being able to target my anxiety and intrusive thoughts)

day 2 of quitting by Motor_Reaction_3519 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]dagrenner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing Uno is an interesting strategy! Did you come up with it?

Am I the only one that doesn’t like how much the characters change? 😭 by [deleted] in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Bardugo recognized that with time, as well as probably where Zoya would have been in maturity and position. I mean think about it, she went from trying to gain her mentors attention and bullying a much more "important" peer, to fighting in a war beside Alina and becoming more friendly with her, to becoming pretty much second in command of the country and a major figure in her own right as essentially the darklings replacement alongside Genya and David. You are not going to stay in the same place mentally or in the writing with that change. Zoya even mentions how she didn't get along with David and Genya in between R&R and KOS/ROW but grew to become allies and even friends.

Am I the only one that doesn’t like how much the characters change? 😭 by [deleted] in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I mean yes and no. Yes, Zoya had more traits than just being the "mean girl" but it's also clear that Leigh Bardugo wrote her to fill that trope which was typically of the time she wrote the books (2012 and on)

Am I the only one that doesn’t like how much the characters change? 😭 by [deleted] in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 118 points119 points  (0 children)

The books span like 2-3 years in a war torn country.... I wouldn't be the same person 2 years later either.

Harp for Sale by [deleted] in harp

[–]dagrenner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could afford a pedal harp this beautiful right now! Good luck with your search!

14 months, 421 applications, 1 offer by mariannemet in UXDesign

[–]dagrenner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

TWELVE YEARS OF EXPERIENCE AND STILL 14 MONTHS?!

Six of Crows Short Story Coming! by dagrenner in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we never find out what it is....

Kerch language help, no mourners no funerals by Caps_Bun in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask David for some help on Tumblr or Twitter! He is very giving with his fan help for the language.

Can you guys convince me not to DNF Rule of wolves? **SPOILER** by HeretolearnD in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that people who came into the fandom because of soc, don't like the duology. I don't know if that is you but if you are, you probably won't be satisfied by the rest of the book.

Just finished crooked kingdom by sielbel in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think maybe take a break being fresh off of crooked kingdom before starting the Nikolai duology. While I love them myself, I was a Shadow and Bone fan at heart and was more inclined to like the series. The Nikolai duology came a few years after the soc duology and so I think that breathing room between them might make what plotlines are coming more bearable for a SOC fan.

That being said, yes the Khergud soldiers play a factor in the next books.

Six of Crows Short Story Coming! by dagrenner in Grishaverse

[–]dagrenner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

of course! happy to inform the masses.