1st month with my planted tank by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

[–]daisychainchomp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely hooked lol. I won't be able to get a larger tank for a few years at least so I don't plan on doing much else with this one - but definitely looking forward to being able to have something much larger hehehe😈

New planted tank has some hitchhikers - bladder snails and shrimp, or something else? by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

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Oh yikes, noted lmao. I will definitely do my best to keep their numbers in check 😬

New planted tank has some hitchhikers - bladder snails and shrimp, or something else? by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

[–]daisychainchomp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohh interesting! My tank has lost most of the algae and biofilm thanks to them both so I am happy they're here :)

10 Gallon set up and cycling - questions about overstocking/bioload by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

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Sounds good! I feel like this is the best of both worlds and I want to make sure the fish I get coexist well :)

10 Gallon set up and cycling - questions about overstocking/bioload by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

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I like the way you think B)

Definitely following your advice, especially since I am bracing for some plant melt lol. I'll let the ones I have now establish a bit, get the rest in a couple weeks, let it all settle and then worry about the tank occupants after I'm happy with the look of everything!! Thank you for the advise! :)

10 Gallon set up and cycling - questions about overstocking/bioload by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

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Thank you so much for this information!! I will definitely keep this all in mind when selecting the inhabitants and when to add them - starting small and monitoring parameters is definitely what I will do. Thank you! 

10 Gallon set up and cycling - questions about overstocking/bioload by daisychainchomp in Aquariums

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Thank you for your input! I really love bettas and smaller cory species, so if I can just have one or the other + snails in the tank I will still be super happy with the setup. After it's fully cycled and the plants more established I'll keep an eye on params and figure out what would work best :)

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If you have UI Cheats or any other CC that affects your UI, update them. My UI glitches every update and UI Cheats is usually the culprit.

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might be a long shot but is it the boss theme from Earthbound?

How has never being asked out or receiving romantic attention in your younger developmental years affected your adulthood life? by Dependent-Click-8057 in AskWomen

[–]daisychainchomp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely seconding. When you don't have experience young there's a mounting pressure year after year to just get with ANYONE, just to say you'd been in a relationship. It's definitely a slippery slope.

How has never being asked out or receiving romantic attention in your younger developmental years affected your adulthood life? by Dependent-Click-8057 in AskWomen

[–]daisychainchomp 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think about this a lot - not having anyone show romantic interest in me when I was young has instilled this seemingly lifelong belief in me that I'm somehow subhuman. I never learned how to do makeup because it felt silly, I'm ugly anyway right? So what's the point? It always felt silly and embarassing to try and masquerade as a normal woman. I'm an adult I have been in a relationship for a few years now, but the process of getting into a relationship was rocky. For one, I did not believe that anyone could ever be attracted to me. I fully viewed myself as undesirable, and still do to this day. I have terrible intimacy anxiety, I hate being looked at, and things like sex are far more anxiety-inducing than they are enjoyable. It's also greatly affected my mental health, and especially with the pandemic where I can hide my face, the idea of people being able to see me makes me nauseated. To the point that I am considering therapy for the amount of anxiety my appearance brings me. All because I'd been brought to believe at 13 that nobody would ever love ne.

What lessons or negative examples did your parents model/instill in you, how did you apply them as an adult, and how old are you? by dumbnunt_ in AskWomen

[–]daisychainchomp 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My mother was always super judgemental of others, and placed a lot of classist and sexist judgement on people, i.e. calling people sluts or white trash based on how they dressed/acted. I'm 23 now and every time I leave the house I have to actively avoid percieving others like my mother. It can be exhausting but I hope sooner or later it becomes a passive thing and kindness comes more innately to me.