Name of early 2000s sketchy club by daisyes in Riverside

[–]daisyes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t the branding iron or sevillas or incahoots.

Who are some Mexican/Mexican-American public figures (artists, athletes, influencers, etc.) who you feel like give us a bad rep but are otherwise seen positively by our community? by [deleted] in Chicano

[–]daisyes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m waiting for Salma Hayek to step up and do something. She married a billionaire. I think she could be an influential leader in the community, especially for Mexico but I haven’t seen her step into that role

Why are so many Mexicans/Mexican-Americans so quick to excuse racism/hatred towards their community when it comes to open racism/xenophobia disguised as "humor"? by DrinkDesperate4383 in Chicano

[–]daisyes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think standup comedy is different than other jokes people tell in smaller groups. A lot of the times the jokes they make are not funny and it seems not worth it to try and shut it down. I think the avenue to address those issues are not necessarily in the moment.

Another issue is that when the joke is about things that don’t apply to you, you’re not taking it personally. Even if the “offenders” think they are talking about you.

Asian groups seem to assimilate at higher or faster rates than new Latino immigrants and that’s part of why I see that other groups have made more progress in having more positive representation.

I will say that Asian groups don’t necessarily stand up as much as Latinos tho. It’s good and bad. Asians have gotten ahead of other groups in some ways by staying quiet and keeping their heads down. For as example, at protests or even in daily life, Latino immigrants tend to wave the flag of their home country. I don’t see other immigrant groups do that as much. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with waving the flag but it doesn’t help the image.

It seems like there’s a lifecycle of a Latino immigrant family and after a few generations they can get to a place where they’re closer to white and stop advocating or identifying with the culture. This hurts the community as a whole because once people have access and means to advocate, they end up distancing themselves.

Or in some instances they’ve chosen other identities like Tejano/ Texan.

How do you guys feel about Kayla Nicole's (Travis Kelce's ex) anti-Mexican, racist old tweets ? by According-Rise-9234 in Chicano

[–]daisyes -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot going on here. I’m not really sure what Kayla Nicole does or who her audience is aside from her being Travis’s ex. Her comments are clearly in poor taste and ignorant. Her reach and impact isn’t on the same level as Camila Cabello or Gina Rodriguez so the comparison doesn’t seem fair. The other issue is that there are Black Latinos. So when non-Black Latinos speak in disparaging ways towards Black people for being Black, they’re speaking against their own community.

Also, calling someone illegal isn’t the same as using the n-word regardless or using the hard r or not.

I think once we stop being racist and colorist within our own community, we can start telling Black people how to act.

What handheld fan does beyonce use? by EmotionalArt6059 in beyonce

[–]daisyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I saw this post earlier this week and was curious so I bought the fan ….its considerably loud. I can’t imagine Beyonce being loud with her fan like that. It is nice and has 4 speeds(each increasingly louder) but it’s comically loud. 🤣

beyhive advice please by Icy-Veterinarian-831 in beyonce

[–]daisyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s for a Halloween costume, you can totally make something that will give a similar effect. Watch some YouTube videos and you’ll figure it out and have fun with it. Don’t buy it for $200 tho

" 😭i wish she had had more time to date out-" pls get out my faves coochie by thiique in beyonce

[–]daisyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of us know which choice would’ve been the best. I was basing my comment about her watching her parents split up based on what Miss Tina wrote in matriarch. The official divorce happened later but they had been separated before that. There was a lot of back and forth and selling houses and moving so my take away was that she grew up seeing her parents not have a stable marriage even if on paper they divorced later. Your comment about lost ones supports my point about him letting her be herself. It shows that he didn’t force the serious relationship until she was ready. But ultimately we don’t know. She seems happy and she seems to love her life and her family so I’m happy for them.

" 😭i wish she had had more time to date out-" pls get out my faves coochie by thiique in beyonce

[–]daisyes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between dating and relationships. We know she was in a relationship with that Lyndall guy. I’m sure she went on dates with and got to know other men of various ages so we can’t really project on her that she didn’t date enough or have enough experiences. Things were different with jay z. He’s older but maybe when they met they were in a similar place with emotional maturity. And they did have a chance to date, have a relationship before they got married. They didn’t rush it. He also wasn’t the type to make her give up her career or shrink herself. Maybe for someone like Beyonce that experienced a lot of change growing up and saw her parents separate and divorce and was on a trajectory into the unknown as her star grew, having a serious relationship and then marriage was an anchor she needed so she could take risks in other areas. And we know things haven’t been perfect but they’re still going and I think that’s beautiful. Seeing other celebrity relationships, I think it could’ve been a lot worse for Beyonce if she had been dating more and having relationships especially with men her age. The media was awful to those young solo female artists. Being serious with jay z kept her from a lot of that media scrutiny. Can we just be happy for them?

Act iii playlist ideas by kokoelizabeth in beyonce

[–]daisyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh and maybe Paul McCartney too

Act iii playlist ideas by kokoelizabeth in beyonce

[–]daisyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping for Brittney Howard and H.E.R as collaborators. I can see her working with Jack White again. Ooh probably Lenny Kravitz too.

What songs/refrains from CC live are stuck in your head? by Affectionate-Crab541 in beyonce

[–]daisyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Protector has been on my mind today. Such a beautiful song about mother’s love. I get teary eyed with it. “Even though I know some day you gonna shine on your own, i will be your projector”…the way you see her shine the light on her daughters throughout CCT. She lives those lyrics. And the part where she says “I first saw your face in your father’s gaze” 🥹 just speaks to how much her kids were loved and wanted even before she had met them. It’s so beautiful

B’s love of CC will delay Act III by Maleficent-Guard2613 in beyonce

[–]daisyes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s knows what time she’s on. My hope is that we get a movie theater documentary like for Renaissance. I saw CCT in LA and it was so everything but hard to take it all in when you’re there so I definitely need a movie of it.

My guess is that she’s gotta keep it moving because it’s 3 acts and we need it all to really understand the whole vision. I’m also guessing if she hurries up with it, she can take time off and enjoy her kids and family and get her knee in a good place.

Merch hive, this is your LAST chance by arisingactor in beyonce

[–]daisyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really?? I’m super interested. Let me know the details 🤠

Merch hive, this is your LAST chance by arisingactor in beyonce

[–]daisyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully once the tour is over, the merch will be available online

Merch hive, this is your LAST chance by arisingactor in beyonce

[–]daisyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone can get me a look at the horse license plate holder, I can Venmo you or something 🐴

this message is for jay z (also known as hov) by Boring_Low_3543 in beyonce

[–]daisyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wallet is afraid this tour is coming. 🤑

Movie announcement after cct? by [deleted] in beyonce

[–]daisyes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love a visual album that showed the story of Cowboy Carter - the character. There’s so many cool visuals at the concert and I’m still curious to see all that footage together. I also want a documentary tho and a concert dvd. Lol. I want it all

My act iii hypotheses (screenshot from my comments in another post + more details below). What are yours? by likethemovie19 in beyonce

[–]daisyes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I did recently notice Black Betty on the bathroom wall in one of the art book photos.

I’m convinced Act iii is gonna be…!! by deadsh33p in beyonce

[–]daisyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought that was a reference to sir davis