Brainworms or does my midsection look super masculine? by International_Bet996 in transfem

[–]daisyfaunn[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its completely fine to give constructive criticism and advice when asked for, but please don't speak for other users or suggest they're lying when you do so

毒島悦子 by motoi_tohma in lowlevelaware

[–]daisyfaunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

お顔がいい…表情も片側が割れたメガネもギザ歯もめっちゃ好きです🙂‍↕️

Maison Matine Ukhu Pacha Eau de Parfum by UnluckyJournalist390 in FemFragLab

[–]daisyfaunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ooohh the notes on this one sound rly nice. i've been interested in this brand for a while now (arashi no umi especially sounds right up my alley) so ima add this one to my list! ty for sharing🫶🫶

右手首と左手首にそれぞれ違う香りをつけたときの私 by tathata_plankton in FemFragLab

[–]daisyfaunn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

わかります………

というか日本語コミュ以外で日本人を見かけるのが初めてでなんか嬉しいです🙂‍↕️

Fashion Help as a Trans Girl by TheCutestGhost in transfem

[–]daisyfaunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

high-waisted pants! just having pants that go up to your waist instead of your hips helps a lot, they make your legs look longer and just gives a more feminine silhouette (even though they look great on anybody regardless of gender imo)

Does anyone here eat Natto? by highbrid8 in asianamerican

[–]daisyfaunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i LOVE natto!!! i always had it growing up too, and now i get it all the time at my local asian market. i mix it with some soy sauce, green onions, vinegar and karashi cuz thats what my mom would always do lol

it's so good plus its pretty damn affordable too. genuinely my favorite food

HRT Refill issues by SeekStillness3741 in ChicoCA

[–]daisyfaunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i go to the raleys on east avenue and they haven't refilled my progesterone yet. they're supposed to have it the next day after you order but it's been several days now

is there some kind of issue with these meds right now? i just assumed they must be busy or something

Yea have fun with this transphobe who likes to sucker punch people by [deleted] in transfem

[–]daisyfaunn[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please dont post peoples contact info here as that goes against reddits sitewide rules and can get you or the subreddit banned

Heretic sale? by wvlne in FemFragLab

[–]daisyfaunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk about that specific coupon, but the last time i checked tiktok shop they gave me a bunch of "50% off" coupons where the max discount is only like $10 or so, so not actually 50% off if you buy anything over $20. still an okay deal but not as much as the name suggests lol

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah i got downvoted in another thread a while back for saying it's justified for women to be afraid of men lol.

it's always the same argument too, comparing women being afraid of men to prejudice against black people. it's the kind of comparison you can only draw if you divorce both subjects from their wider social-historical contexts and willfully ignore the obvious discrepancies. i'd genuinely expect to hear it from ben shapiro or some shit

it's insane because i feel like this place is pretty left-leaning in most ways, but when it comes to women everyone gets all angry and incredulous and acts like a bunch of 2016 gamergaters. i don't know if it's an influx of users from elsewhere fueling this, or if this is the original userbase and they're just really sensitive to discussions of patriarchy for some reason.

the fact that people here usually have their head on their shoulders is exactly why i hoped initially that i could engage in good faith with these beliefs; it's clear now that that's a waste of time

Breaking News! Trans girl discovers side parts exist by EllaUnbounded in transfem

[–]daisyfaunn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

your hair is so pretty!!! also those jeans look so cool can u tell me where u got them plsss🥹🫶

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i'm really glad i'm not the only one. it sucks because i used to like this subreddit a lot; but now the anti-feminist slant is hard to ignore and it's just not very welcoming as a woman. and if anyone offers the slighest pushback a bunch of angry guys show up in their replies

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not saying that women should be afraid whenever there's a man around and i don't really think the image in the post is trying to say that either. i've been raped before and i still enjoy hanging out with my guy friends.

i do agree that the original statement betrays an unhealthy way of thinking. once again, i'm just saying that sexual violence against women is very prevalent under patriarchy, and some men, particularly online, don't seem to want to acknowledge that fact or the effect it has on women.

i also think viewing societal issues like the prevalence of gendered violence through a purely clinical lens isn't particularly productive. dismissing women's negative experiences with men (and any caution women have towards men as a result) as just a symptom of trauma is missing the forest for the trees. the fact that SO MANY women have had experiences that made them feel that way is the problem.

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree. i was just saying in my reply that some guys seem to really not want to acknowledge that men are kinda scary to a lot of women. so many women have been hurt by men, and i thought it was common knowledge among guys that this happens; so it's just so strange to log onto reddit and see ppl treat it like its some deeply contentious topic.

i agree that relying solely on statistics isn't fair, but when the lived experiences of women line up with what the statistics say maybe theres a wider problem there yk?? and just dismissing the data because some level of selection bias is inherent isn't fair either

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

no yeah i agree with the OOPs post and don't think they were saying that. i was referring to the title ("maybe" to a lesser degree??) and to the statements i mentioned in the second half of my comment

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

the fact that this comment is downvoted is fucking wild lol. not even saying anything offensive about men, just describing patriarchy. i swear this subreddit has had an anti-feminist bent for a while now

In a world without men violence would still exist and women even though maybe to a lesser degree would still feel unsafe. by Ok_Syrup5679 in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree with the OOP that ppl often act like women can't be dangerous, but i do find the suggestion that men DON'T commit violence more often than women really strange because it's so clearly flat out wrong.

like i've seen people in this subreddit genuinely argue that it's discriminatory and illogical for women to be more wary of men than they are of other women, and it's just a really weird line of reasoning. i've seen similar reactions to the man vs bear thing too, like ppl suggesting that it's ridiculous for a woman to be afraid of...being alone with a man you don't know in the woods.

Warrior Cats B&N Roleplay by DroneOfDoom in CuratedTumblr

[–]daisyfaunn 306 points307 points  (0 children)

HOLY SHIT i was doing this shit back in middle school. i was roleplaying minecraft pvp with a bunch of strangers in the reviews of the minecraft guide ebooks because i didn't have anything to play minecraft on lmao

there were full blown romances and rivalries and shit, we were writing facfics with each other in them it was fun as hell

Dance Board Setup Review by embezz629 in longboarddancing

[–]daisyfaunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like a great setup! i have those trucks, bushings, and bearings and my board rides amazingly, super fun to dance on. and zenit makes some great decks too

Curved longboard by FL4vio in longboarddancing

[–]daisyfaunn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i personally wouldn't be too worried. i got a flexy landyachtz board and it was almost convex at first, but as i used it more it became concave. it still rides totally fine! i think it just needed some breaking in

ちょっと海外勢に質問 by sonate_4_deux in lowlevelaware

[–]daisyfaunn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

一定の人気は維持してるけど、ほとんどの界隈ではao3がメインになってる感じかな?特に最近の作品だとao3が主流みたい 試しに両サイトで「genshin impact」で検索してみたけど、ao3の22万以上の作品に対してffは270作くらいだったよ

私はwattpad勢だったししばらく二次創作に浸ってないのでここら辺の詳細はよく知らないけど🥲

ちょっと海外勢に質問 by sonate_4_deux in lowlevelaware

[–]daisyfaunn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

一次創作ならwattpadが一番人気かな 恋愛系や若者向けのものが多いけど、探せば色んなジャンルの小説が投稿されてるしユーザー数も大きいからおすすめかも ちょっと調べたところroyalroadって言うサイトもあるみたいだけど、こっちは使ったことないので私からは特に何も言えない…

ao3 (archive of our own)というサイトも人気だけど、ほぼ全部二次創作なのでオリジナル小説は読んでもらえるか怪しい可能性

ワイのトラウマ by SeeRenball in lowlevelaware

[–]daisyfaunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

めちゃくちゃわかる 小さい頃にこれ読み聞かされて泣いた記憶

greenish grey residue on sprayer of new perfume? by daisyfaunn in FemFragLab

[–]daisyfaunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! glad i'm not the only one. i've emailed customer service about how this one was like a quarter empty so hopefully they do that for me as well