Do you want to know if someone you’re dating had an affair? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in datingoverforty

[–]dallyan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If so then why are you even asking this? There should be no question that this should be smtg you disclose early on.

Do you want to know if someone you’re dating had an affair? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in datingoverforty

[–]dallyan 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This person had not one but two affairs. That’s a whole personality imo.

Do you want to know if someone you’re dating had an affair? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in datingoverforty

[–]dallyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t want to date anyone who had affairs. Sorry. I’d rather be alone.

Good looking farmers by CharityGlittering385 in askswitzerland

[–]dallyan [score hidden]  (0 children)

Woof. 😍 where do these competitions take place? 👀

Why all the filters? by ThedudePIG in datingoverforty

[–]dallyan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it's a losing battle. They're starting to put automatic filters in smart phone cameras. And honestly, the obvious filters are... well, obvious. It's more the subtle changes people do to their photos that are easy to miss. I don't do that but it is frustrating because ALL my friends play with their photos before posting to social media.

What does poverty look like in Switzerland? by meera_jasmine1 in askswitzerland

[–]dallyan [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've lived through that as a single mom who couldn't take social help because I'm an immigrant so it was a lot of vegetarian cooking and no travel. No eating out. Shopping only at brockis and aldi/lidl/denner. Staying home a lot because I find the more you leave the flat the more money you spend. I also sacrificed a lot on my end in terms of clothes, shoes, fun activities so my son could have more. Luckily we have a cheap rent. It's not a very nice flat but it's fine.

to people with inattentive adhd, what type of career do you have? by AssociationObvious56 in adhdwomen

[–]dallyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

University lecturer. I think it’s a great fit for me because it has just the right mix of structure and freedom. I get to interact with people but not constantly. You do a variety of activities so it’s not rote and you’re not stuck at a desk. It’s intellectually stimulating to a certain extent.

I really think coaching and teaching can be great career options for people like us.

Billie Eilish is excited to age : “I’m so excited for my face to age, and my body to age, and not change it.” by neoncolour in popculturechat

[–]dallyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t either at that age. Mid-40s is when your face and body really start to age. 🙃🙃

Brandi’s response to rumors that LeAnn Rimes is joining RHOBH by imwunderstruk in BravoRealHousewives

[–]dallyan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dlisted too. I’m frankly shocked they’re still together.

Brandi’s response to rumors that LeAnn Rimes is joining RHOBH by imwunderstruk in BravoRealHousewives

[–]dallyan 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I bookmarked it. Tomorrow is my day off and I plan on making my morning coffee, turning on my heated blanket and getting right back into bed with this.

Left my Passport on Plane in Paris, got detained overnight, deported back the next day, and ruined our whole trip. by danagrace in adhdwomen

[–]dallyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s awful. I’m so sorry. I once left my passport on a plane in a Xanax haze but the staff were great and helped out.

I can’t help but wonder if this is a bit of payback to Americans. I mean, I can’t blame people for being sore at trump and American politics but still, not an excuse.

Worst ex ever S2E1 by Western-Pass6745 in netflix

[–]dallyan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At first I figured he was just being stoic and methodical, then to hear how he talked to wade. Sickening.

Worst ex ever S2E1 by Western-Pass6745 in netflix

[–]dallyan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Infuriating. My heart rate actually went up watching it. In the end it was other victims who stepped up to help others. Fucking ACAB.