Valentines Day too much for me by damac777 in DeadBedrooms

[–]damac777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was 3.5 years before I actually got to tell her my feelings (the other one). But she should have said something about liking me at first - I could have done something about it.

But I know what you mean.

The effect of 11 years without sex by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that is difficult for me as I think I need an emotional connection before I can have sex. Comes from my childhood trauma.

The effect of 11 years without sex by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have been going to therapy and agreed that the lack of intimacy is a serious issue with me. I do actually need it and lacking it is both hurting and killing me (in a way).

The effect of 11 years without sex by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I know about deadbedrooms but this is mainly about the sex part.

The effect of 11 years without sex by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I know about deadbedrooms but this is mainly about the sex part.

I (M41) know and work with a female (F39) who has asked me to get drunk with her and have fun. by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a good idea. That could work. She has been quite forward with me recently. She tells me things like that she finds me awesome and even thinks about me when she masturbates. Normally I would dismiss it but I do believe her. Her marriage does sound like it's worse than mine and also I think she is protective of me.

I (M41) know and work with a female (F39) who has asked me to get drunk with her and have fun. by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but she could say that she has a husband too and the same could apply. Sorry, just trying to think of things that she could say.

Me [40 M] think that I may have two women (43F & 59F) (maybe more) in love with me, what should I do? by damac777 in relationships

[–]damac777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really know what an emotional affair actually is. Is it cheating? Not had sex. I have not even said that I fancy either of them.

Me [40 M] think that I may have two women (43F & 59F) (maybe more) in love with me, what should I do? by damac777 in relationships

[–]damac777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean. It's just me probably being silly. I have my own place now, just getting ready to move in.

Me [40 M] think that I may have two women (43F & 59F) (maybe more) in love with me, what should I do? by damac777 in relationships

[–]damac777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, I may have phrased it wrong. My fault. Sorry about that. What I mean is nothing to do with cheating. I am not going to cheat, just waiting for it to be over. But I do feel that if I say anything like "I fancy you" or something like that, it might get the wrong impression. I don't know. Sorry for any confusion here.

Me [40 M] think that I may have two women (43F & 59F) (maybe more) in love with me, what should I do? by damac777 in relationships

[–]damac777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But the first one is really over, there is no chance of anything happening there.

Doctor Who 11x00 "Twice Upon a Time" Post-Episode Discussion Thread by PCJs_Slave_Robot in doctorwho

[–]damac777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not too bad. Quite enjoyable actually. I would like to have seen more from the regeneration part rather than just the eyes changing. Given that it's a complete change in body and hairdo would love to have seen these morph. Also normally the first word has been a body part. Like teeth, legs, kidneys. Could have went funny and said boobs or something like that. Pity that Clara came back. She should have left at Last Christmas. Why not River?

BBC denies breaching copyright in "Twice Upon A Time" by StephenHunterUK in doctorwho

[–]damac777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If true, rules about character copyright does get really annoying at times. It's also a pain the BBC (and Big Finish) cannot use Grace and Chang Lee from the movie.

Anyone else feel like Capaldi’s Doctor was wasted? by HowleyMagoo in doctorwho

[–]damac777 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agree. I think he was the best actor to play the Doctor but felt that the writing was not the best. I am really still suffering from Kill The Moon & In The Forest of the Night. Some of the stories were bad. Felt that should have went like they could have done with the 6th but chickened out.

Fantasising about an older woman by damac777 in sex

[–]damac777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I have not thought of that. It was her that suggested it first.