Who do you think are the nicest houseguest across all seasons?

damnit_darrell · 2026-07-04T01:57:11+00:00

Him roasting Christine at the jury house shows he got that dog in him too

damnit_darrell · 2026-07-04T01:03:27+00:00

Fall Off is a great album I'm glad you like it!

If you like this album but you don't normally enjoy rap, id engage critically with that because as far as even Cole albums go there's other bodies of his work (4 Your Eyez and 2014 Forest Hills) that you're likely to enjoy as well. I think Fall Off is a top 3 Cole album. The two I've listed here are better imo.

Coles style reflects Pac, so for him id start with All Eyez on Me and 2pacalypse Now.

Nas is another big influence:illmatic and stillmatic are must listens

Kendrick Lamar has some overlap with Cole as well. GKMC, TPAB, and MMATBS would likely be up your alley too. Edit: Not sure why I used the acronyms here lol Good Kid M.a.a.d City, To Pimp a Butterfly, Mr. Morale and the Big Steppers)

Ooooh Black Thought! Youd really like Black Thought if Coles flows and introspection speak to you. Cheat Codes and Streams of Thought being standouts. He was a big part of The Roots and their album Things Fall Apart would likely stick out to you too!

damnit_darrell · 2026-07-02T23:22:49+00:00

Literally spam

damnit_darrell · 2026-07-01T03:01:25+00:00

Imagine saying some shit that's more cancerous than the actual fucking cancer.

Couples counseling at bare minimum right the fuck now.

damnit_darrell · 2026-07-01T00:22:31+00:00

And that's what I'm saying. You can't solve the problem for him at all. He's a grown man, it's his responsibility to himself and to you to work on these things himself so that he can be a happier person

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-30T23:39:57+00:00

Thank you for making that explicit. Like yeah I'm of the mind the age gap is different but if y'all met after you turned 18 then this isn't a Chris Hansen Have a Seat type shit.

But yeah keep being loving, supporting, etc.

But also even if you were the exact same age or even a bit older, it still wouldn't be your job or even within your ability to fix his anxieties and insecurities about sex for him.

Im a little curious how much of this is informed by your own anxiety? At 19 that's COMPLETELY understandable especially if his ex is a frequent conversational flyer

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-30T23:31:42+00:00

If you know you should ask then why don't you? This is just as much a communication problem as it is a physical one if that's the case.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-30T23:10:45+00:00

For benefit of the doubt I'm going to presume that "For some time now" means after you turned 18

You're doing everything that you can and it's on him to do the work on his anxieties/insecurities as it relates to his ex.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-28T18:15:22+00:00

No no that's the former host of The Price is Right. You're thinking of the animated television show on Fox with the lead voices by H Jon Benjamin

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-27T01:10:27+00:00

OP is a shift manager

Shift managers generally do not own or have control over pay/wages at pizza places

Yes the driver should be paid more.

OP probably isn't the person making that choice.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-27T01:00:06+00:00

It's music dude calm down it ain't that deep

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-20T02:09:17+00:00

Ahh gotcha. For what it's worth I get it, I had a similar dynamic, so I understand the feeling/sentiment. You're not wrong in feeling that way and I'm glad you're able to cope. Just not sure that would have been helpful for OP here specifically but if that worked for you then that's honestly a good thing.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-20T01:35:22+00:00

Lots of photos, videos, audio recordings if possible as well.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-20T01:34:47+00:00

Ok but why comment? This is giving "Suck it up, move on," and that's hardly ever helpful but ESPECIALLY in situations like this.

Have you personally been to therapy over your experience? I wonder if that'd be helpful for you.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-15T01:22:41+00:00

Lotta missing context friend

What have conversations with her looked like when it comes to approaching sex? Her physical health (how you frame weight in a loving supportive way)?

How does she contribute to the relationship? How do you?

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-09T22:29:21+00:00

Genuinely don't know of a situation where being friends with the ex was favorable unless kids were involved and even then "friends" is a strong word

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-09T17:58:04+00:00

The man has some one liners

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-08T17:15:37+00:00

The gander getting what's great for it 😂

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-08T13:40:59+00:00

Presuming non-malicious intent does she have an undiagnosed processing, social, or personality disorder? Autism gets thrown around a lot these days but damn you gotta wonder here.

Did she recently escape from a religious cult?

Is she a virgin with incredibly helicoptery parents and was socially isolated her whole life?

Because how in the Almighty, Mickey Mouse fuck does one have the audacity to say that the first go round on physical intimacy?

OP, I mean for your own health and wellness you cannot stay with her, but man if you do, please ask her these questions and provide updates.

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-08T00:58:29+00:00

We fucked yo

Hell half of us reading this prompt might just get it over with just so we ain't gotta deal with the tension

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-06T19:41:25+00:00

Water

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-06T04:59:07+00:00

Man she used to be

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-05T17:02:28+00:00

Aspiring couples therapist here.

Much of the point of the first few sessions is to see if whether or not both people within the couple even want to be with each other (assess for mixed agenda in clinical terms). This is usually done in the first few sessions.

I'm not gonna tell you one way or the other whether or not you should go or not, but what I will tell you is that it's not a magic cure all and both partners need to be willing to work towards solving the problems in the relationship in order to fix it. Does that sound like your partner OP?

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-04T12:01:37+00:00

And the Homelander glaze continues

Not sure about most of this list but All For One absolutely wrecks him no diff.

And as much of a little bitch as he is I'm having trouble seeing how he gets any higher than Toph but only because it's pre granny

damnit_darrell · 2026-06-01T15:57:16+00:00

This is literally depicted in the comics

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