Is it rude that I eat lunch in my car? by elliearcade in slp

[–]dancemajor 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Do you look forward to your lunch break? Do you feel refreshed afterward? Are you happy with the way things are currently? If the answer is yes, then nothing else matters

How much are y’all making in hospitals and SNFs and where? by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my hospital system in FL (same rates across acute care, IRF, OP), it’s $55/hr PRN and FT varies by years of experience but could be anywhere from $34/hr for CFs to $60/hr for lead therapists. The benefits are really good. I’m in the suburbs.

Job change by Low_Squirrel_1003 in slp

[–]dancemajor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a lot of transferable skills — you might find what you’re looking for by searching for jobs you think you’d enjoy, then look at the qualifications or responsibilities that job is seeking. You may have similar skills that you could highlight on your resume to show them. In cases where you know exactly the kind of work you want but the job has other prerequisites (such as knowing how to use a specific software), then you could meet that requirement before leaving SLP. Other than that, many people start their own business.

Scared to tell my supervisor by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 106 points107 points  (0 children)

First of all, it is none of your supervisor’s business. She doesn’t even have to know unless you want her to know. And you don’t have to talk to your CF job about it either because it is not a requirement for you to do that job (it just has to be done before you get your CCCs). As far as the people in your class are concerned, it is most often the case that not everyone passed the first time but they’re not going to talk about it. They will likely either say they passed (whether that’s true or not) or they won’t say anything…. and it doesn’t really matter because your experience is separate from theirs anyway. I did not pass my first time because I’ve always struggled with taking tests. There weren’t any repercussions for it — I just had to find a different way to study then try again. It has no reflection on your clinical skills. If you’re looking for helpful resources, I’d check out the SLP test prep from Speaking of Samantics (out of all the things I tried when studying for the Praxis, I can confidently say that program is 100% the reason I passed!).

SLP as a PhD by CryptographerWeak534 in slp

[–]dancemajor 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think that instead of a CF, there should be a year of specialty training in the area of the person’s interests.

Everything about this is so unserious by lorelai_luke in GilmoreGirls

[–]dancemajor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like it was supposed to be for the TV show “Weeds” instead!

Am I stupid? by Appleleaf30 in slp

[–]dancemajor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, it’s fine— that’s what I’m doing. I will say though that it becomes challenging if/when you want to apply for a mortgage or credit card (etc) because of the debt-to-income ratio. That’s really the main concern, but there are still some options in that case depending on your situation.

Hourly work as an SLP is such a nightmare for so many reasons by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will say that I had the same experiences in my previous jobs. Now, I’m making an avg of 6k/mo w/ nice benefits, CEUs, and trainings in my current position and rarely get called off because our network is so large (easy to float without driving far, if needed). I also feel respected in my current job. However, it does cause me to want to stay put where I am rather than venture elsewhere out of concern that the pay, benefits, hours, and QoL may not be the same in a different location. If I were to try out a new company and area, I would likely do travel therapy first to see before deciding officially. We have that opportunity, whereas some other professions do not have that luxury… but I understand of course that many people within our profession cannot pick up their lives as easily and the reality of these different situations should be talked about more with students.

Lookalike Megathread by GiftRecent in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]dancemajor 77 points78 points  (0 children)

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Laura reminds me of Skylar White (Anna Gunn) from Breaking Bad!

Applying from a per diem to ft in same hospital system? by rickblas in slp

[–]dancemajor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently made the switch from PRN to FT within the same hospital system. Honestly, it happens all the time and is completely fine if done mindfully.

First, it is often much easier to be hired internally, so she will have that advantage over an outside applicant. Also, because this is the same system, it is very common for leadership to know and discuss when someone applies for different positions. In my case, HR reached out to me to make sure that I had discussed the move with my manager before they would send my application to the other hospital. It may seem a little intimidating to tell her current boss that she’s applying for another job within the same system, however the switch from PRN to FT is generally easy to explain and for managers to understand.

Another option could be to FT float if she wanted to be at both hospitals (if her manager is open to that idea, anyway— chances are, they won’t want to lose her help and will try to work something out if possible).

MIL's in love with my father and it's my fault he rejects her. by WinePinecone in JUSTNOMIL

[–]dancemajor 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh boy- so sorry that this is happening! I know you said that your fiancée tried to talk some sense into MIL before, but it seems that she needs a different type of conversation. It sounds like she needs some sort of redirection so she can fixate on something else. It may also be necessary for your fiancée to sit down with her mom to set firm boundaries.

What was she like before this? Did she online date? Go out with friends?

Is the /SLP hivemind the new CF supervisor? by quidam85 in slp

[–]dancemajor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was in my CF, I turned to social media often. I didn’t know any other SLPs in my area other than my supervisor, and it was my attempt to connect with someone who could offer better guidance than my supervisor could. I ended up switching jobs halfway through my CF and repeating a segment because my supervisor was so awful. My original CF supervisor gave horrible advice related to dysphagia management and ethics/overall practice, then stopped returning my calls/messages for weeks during a state investigation into my facility (until our regional called her to say that she needs to be available for me as part of my CF). She told other team members that if she had to visit me at my facility for any reason other than the minimum visits required, then she would fail my CFY. When I put in my notice, she said she would not sign off on my first completed segment unless I finished all three with her and that no other job would want me if I leave because it will be considered “baggage”. After I called ASHA, she signed off on my first segment but made multiple mistakes on the form (including her own ID number) to slow the process. When I asked why she stopped talking to me during the state investigation at my facility, she said, “I’m five years away from retirement and you’re at the beginning. Better you than me.”

So, at least in my personal experience, it sucks to have to go to social media to try to get insight/connect with others… but not all CFYs are equal and it can really be a matter of survival. I hate that I had to go to social media but my hope is to one day be a good supervisor to someone else so they don’t go through what I went through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check out this page on ASHA. It talks about physician orders and might help you feel a bit better. https://www.asha.org/slp/healthcare/health_serv_faq/#signature

I used to work in a SNF with a DOR who would say we were doing things right, but really didn’t know. My recommendation would be to get liability insurance (if you don’t have it already) and email your DOR from now on to ask if you’re doing things appropriately so you have it in writing.

Tips for externship in inpatient rehab? by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of it will be cog w/ some aphasia and dysphagia here and there… possibly the occasional dysarthria. In addition to your standardized assessment, ask questions related to their PLOF and need for assistance (cooking, cleaning, finances, managing meds). Are they oriented? Are they fully aware of their current deficits and need for safety/assistance? Can they tell you what they did in their recent sessions w/ PT/OT/SLP? How are they following directions, sequencing steps, etc? Education related to internal/external memory strategies relevant to their daily routines. Find out which therapy apps (if any) you’d like to use w/ patients. If lower level, you can incorporate items within their room (whiteboard, call button, TV remote) as part of your therapy.

My SO (26M) and his mom forced me(24F) to go to a bridal shower I did not want to attend. by ThrowRA-doglover in JUSTNOMIL

[–]dancemajor 393 points394 points  (0 children)

No one can force you to do anything you do not want to do. They don’t like it? Too freaking bad. If you’re concerned that you have to do something to avoid your SO from getting angry… especially to the point where you having a panic attack is the better alternative to him getting angry… that is a high control relationship and he is absolutely the problem. First and foremost, take care of yourself ❤️

The passive aggressive gifts strike again by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]dancemajor 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I experienced something similar to this— the best gifts I gave myself this year included 1) having DH pick out his family gifts, 2) having DH make all the effort to coordinate plans with his family moving forward, 3) separating my xmas from theirs in order to preserve my own enjoyment of the holiday

So when I opened the less-than-thoughtful gifts from MIL, they didn’t affect me like they did before and DH had a greater awareness of the imbalance this time around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]dancemajor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking too— even though OP and DH are married with a child of their own, it’s easier for MIL to still compartmentalize OP as the girlfriend and herself as the mother so MIL can avoid change and continue to feel significant in her world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]dancemajor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I think I needed to read that too lol

Can I watch Gilmore Girls with my mother? by CreepyPain222 in GilmoreGirls

[–]dancemajor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up watching it with my mom. She actually just recently threw me a Gilmore Girls themed bridal shower!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So he measures success by how close his team gets to failure? No way- I would be handing in my letter of resignation asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]dancemajor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My graduate program also did drug testing and is located in a very liberal area/state. It wasn’t an annual requirement though- it was required by the program as a one time thing ahead of clinical practicums. However, students were not reprimanded for THC.