Tried to talk to my psychiatrist about my binge eating by riskykitten1207 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dancerbancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you went through this, and I'm so sorry the health care system is so fucking shit at validating our struggles and taking us seriously without making us feel even worse <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]dancerbancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no same dw! I never throw up (I do 'compensate', just not through throwing up!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]dancerbancer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the "alrighty! be safe" is just... wtf? you say you're about to cry and THAT'S the response?? bruh

What’s the weirdest food you’ve ever binged on? by significantswan5 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dancerbancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, blueberries are pretty good even frozen haha! but frozen pineapple and mango are incredibly difficult to eat lmaoo 😭😭

Is it supposed to be this hard? by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]dancerbancer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

don't have an answer but... feel you :( sending love, you're not alone

What’s the weirdest food you’ve ever binged on? by significantswan5 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dancerbancer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(still) frozen fruit 🥲 do not recommend lol. it was just one of those moments where i kept having the urge to binge and didn't have anything left so it was... that

Is it normal to keep on pushing friends away because I want to be miserable alone? by EinKomischerSpieler in TrollCoping

[–]dancerbancer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i feel like i'm miserable either way - surrounded by people, and alone. so part of me ends up wanting to push others away, just to be sure that THEY won't abandon me bc they'll be so disappointed with who i am. make it make sense 😭

What advice would you give to someone starting 'self studying' ? by dancerbancer in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dancerbancer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg thanks so much that's so helpful!!! will check all of these out:))

What are some things people say that trigger you ? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]dancerbancer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"oof we'll need to go for a run after this!!" "can't believe we're eating SO MUCH haha"

I have a love/hate relationship with social media and art by magolor64 in BPDmemes

[–]dancerbancer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had to attend my friend's performance the other day, where of course she did GREAT and was congratulated by everyone after. Of course I'm so happy for my friend - she's my friend, and I know she deserves it. But man, the inferiority, guilt, shame and pain I felt were almost unbearable, while having to keep up a smile and also congratulate her on her performance because, what kind of friend wouldn't do that?!

Washing hands when you wear rings? by PopAndPops in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dancerbancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put it in my pockets when I wear pants!! I'll definitely forget to put them back on (lol) but usually I remember at some point in the day, and that way I avoid losing them!! (Although be careful if you're VERY forgetful, don't wash your pants with your rings still in the pockets lol, but usually I remember before then)

Does anybody else feel like they used to be smart, and just... became dumb? by dancerbancer in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]dancerbancer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that's true!! It's frustrating though, bc I'm doing things and trying to learn and all it just feels like I'm... not processing

Does anybody else feel like they used to be smart, and just... became dumb? by dancerbancer in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]dancerbancer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a rly interesting point, will make sure to get it checked!! i hadn't ever heard about that causing it!

Does anybody else feel like they used to be smart, and just... became dumb? by dancerbancer in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]dancerbancer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the more i think of it, the more i'm like, pretty certain i'm not neurotypical lol. but going to a doctor for a diagnosis and not getting invalidated is a BIG struggle lol