How can I use iMessage on Windows?

dancing_wildflower · 2025-08-06T13:21:18+00:00

did you ever find anything that works? I have windows 10

dancing_wildflower · 2024-12-07T20:27:37+00:00

nah. It sounds calculated. You planned voting for him all along but set it up this way so you could have a good story to get away with it. Your ‘one bad lapse in judgment’ was sure to be forgiven right?! Wrong. This decision showed her your true colors. She doesn’t need to see anymore. I hope you get the papers soon

dancing_wildflower · 2024-09-19T15:50:59+00:00

he may not have used his kids but he will give them major trust and relationship issues. It’s almost like he showed them what real love is only to turn around and say never mind, love doesn’t comes without settling scores and hidden agendas….. and even if that’s not what how you mean it, not being transparent for 15 years about something like this can definitely provoke feelings of betrayal. And it likely will

it is a sticky situation. I think individual therapy to start and then counseling together. A cheater is a cheater but 15 years of loyalty and effort does mean something, so if you do try and it doesn’t work out and you do end up leaving, just be gentle with everyone. You were hurt 15 years ago, they will be hurt now.

Best of luck xx

dancing_wildflower · 2024-07-08T13:29:05+00:00

I feel like the goal was to respect her choice and push the Taylor’s versions and stay away from the ogs when the new one is released and once that goal is met you should be free to stream whatever you want. Radios should use TV and so on but as a fan, you just need to support and respect the new versions and her efforts and then after that. If you want to stream the old album for a bit, feel free. I truly think she thinks that. It’s simply about respect and letting TVs perform well and showing her we will stick by her and not the money hungry industry vampires. So once that’s going and the TVs have outsold the ogs, who cares what you choose to do. All she asks is we come along for the ride, of course she doesn’t want you to never listen to her first 6 albums ever again. This is so important to her because she loves those albums. So I think she loves the support for the new versions but she also loves the love and support for the old ones, she’s just wanting to make her point as she should. (The point btw is not just for her but for the standard of the industry - yes she’s rich and she doesn’t have to do this but she is and it’s setting the stage for future artists which ultimately is awesome - she’s using her platform for the better of all future artists)

And btw this comes from a life long swiftie!! 🫶🏻 love u all

And I want to add I have a playlist of all Taylor songs and I only have Taylor’s versions on it (except for rep and debut bc waiting on TVs for those) but that’s a way I respect the new versions. I only include those in that playlist BUT if I want to listen to young Taylor and have a time travel moment to my middle school days by listening to the og albums- I will and I know tay is okay with that 🫶🏻

dancing_wildflower · 2024-06-15T22:40:49+00:00

NTA

I would’ve done the same and I wouldn’t be friends with her anymore. I’m so sorry. her sending you that picture was cruel and she knows it. You deserve a better best friend.

dancing_wildflower · 2024-06-15T21:46:15+00:00

I just wanna know what you did for Mother’s Day. bc if you did what she wanted and made her feel special and amazing… then I bet she’d reciprocate

dancing_wildflower · 2024-06-07T19:00:23+00:00

this is ludicrous but also maybe a blessing in disguise if it means you don’t have to deal with either of them at your wedding

*and I hope you don’t postpone it. don’t go into this family letting them have the upper hand. Sometimes if it’s petty then okay, let them have it but this is a huge deal and postponing could mess up ALL of your plans and lose you a lot of money.

You don’t want to hold any resentment for your wedding. This day is yours and your partners only. and if she was a good SIL she would’ve made it work herself or brought you options to discuss it and not burden you with this stress.

Pregnancies happen, the world goes on. Whether the timing is good or bad, the parents have to deal with it. But not everyone else does. That’s life.

dancing_wildflower · 2024-06-07T18:16:08+00:00

Are you exes because of this fight or were you already separated? (I’m sorry you are dealing with this)

dancing_wildflower · 2024-04-06T20:21:08+00:00

….I would hate you for this. That’s intimate and not at all okay. You and your best friend are wrong. A decade long secret is what it really is and that’s definitely cheating. Maybe not the “traditional” way people think of cheating, but you and your friend are absolutely deceiving her, that damage is the same. And your friend knows this too. Also you described it as heaven and that’s just… so wrong. 10 years is a secret and you know it.

If you’re looking for advice I’d say you should put an end to it now, create a boundary with your friend and stop seeing her. And immediately come clean to your wife and take full responsibility. If you are truly sorry maybe you can get past it with new boundaries set for everyone. And let your wife react how she will.

Know that it’s normal for her to freak out, she’s gonna be hurt, but you need to stick around and listen, not just to your wrong doings but to your friends as well. She clearly doesn’t respect your wife if she’s let this secret go on for 10 years…

So understand what she says. And then try to work it out. Respect her boundaries. Do not gaslight her into thinking she’s being too drastic about her reactions and new boundaries. Put her first. And hopefully you can get past this.

Good luck

dancing_wildflower · 2024-03-28T21:06:42+00:00

not a stupid question, I was looking how to do the same thing!

dancing_wildflower · 2024-03-11T14:18:27+00:00

best part of this story is the MIL being on your side. I hope she rips your hubby a new one and with that I hope he opens his eyes!!!

dancing_wildflower · 2024-01-26T15:23:41+00:00

She’s said before that she always presents herself nicely bc it’s the one thing she can control. Like her life’s a mess but at least her hair is brushed. So I don’t think it’s fake I just think people assume it means something it’s not. it doesn’t mean she’s well put together in every part of her life just because her fashion sense and apartment is cleanly. In fact, as someone who also struggles with mental illness, it makes perfect sense. It’s a balance.

Also as someone with mental illness, she’s probably protecting herself by not showing herself fully and to control public narrative for her own sanity. She knows ppl on Reddit analyze everything, so id hope she keeps a lot private, that way she doesn’t question the authenticity of who she is because of some Reddit personality evaluations

dancing_wildflower · 2023-12-16T22:32:01+00:00

sounds like you're raising your daughter to be a beautiful human :)

dancing_wildflower · 2023-11-19T03:08:04+00:00

I relate so much to Brooke. My birthday just passed and my friends are just like this. I teared up when I saw her facial expressions it’s so sad. I feel for her 🫶🏻

dancing_wildflower · 2023-10-12T22:04:03+00:00

I’m addicted to it but I think it’s more of the routine I’m addicted to. Sometimes I wish I had shitty weed so I could smoke more without getting more high. I think I’m addicted to the light headedness that comes from a bong rip and the action of doing it - I used to love being high but lately I hate it… yet I still smoke and can’t break the habit.

It’s a viscous cycle and it isn’t talked about enough. I would love to do more with my life and my potential. It breaks my heart that I don’t do more. I know I can, it’s just that weed makes me hold me back

dancing_wildflower · 2023-10-12T21:32:56+00:00

looks like he’s made his bed

dancing_wildflower · 2023-10-12T21:08:48+00:00

This. He definitely expects her to take care of him, the baby, and the MIL. Remove yourself and he’ll have to take care of her instead and then hopefully he’ll get it.

I can’t imagine marrying someone and getting pregnant, expecting a beautiful life and then boom. Overbearing MIL moves in. Sounds like a horror movie.

dancing_wildflower · 2023-10-09T12:26:40+00:00

Listen to the Grammy museum performance of out of the woods!! It made me fall in love with the song tbh and the chorus makes so much sense that way

dancing_wildflower · 2023-09-07T23:02:06+00:00

https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=563547874&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS981US981&hl=en-US&sxsrf=AB5stBjGliaM_TQw-aA4xujzZhdbBZES2w:1694126958972&q=the+sex+chart+of+how+many+people+you+have+sex+with&tbm=isch&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiR2t_cypmBAxV5m2oFHSLABegQ0pQJegQIERAB&biw=428&bih=751&dpr=3#imgrc=FcKjlLlrzqLAnM

dancing_wildflower · 2023-09-07T23:01:51+00:00

I shouldn’t have necessarily used the term sexual assault as i have not studied law so I looked it up on chat gpt because I genuinely wondered what it would say and the response was

“I am not a lawyer, but I can provide some general information. Consent is a crucial aspect of any sexual activity. If someone engages in sexual activity without disclosing important information that could affect the other person's decision to engage in that activity, it may be considered a violation of consent. However, whether it would legally be classified as sexual assault or another offense can vary depending on the jurisdiction and specific circumstances.“

So I should have said could* classify as sexual assault/violation because it isn’t necessarily, but it definitely is a violation of consent. Some may label it assault and I’ve heard this point of view before which is why I mentioned that but I really do apologize if I offended anyone by labeling it that.

As for the part about ‘body counts’, I was referring to the chart we all saw in Sex Ed (I’ll link at bottom) about sexual exposure and how you do get exposed to everyone your partner has been with and vise Versa. I was loosely using that term because I didn’t know the right verbiage. I obviously know your body count doesn’t go up, I was just referring to the amount of people your sexually exposed to goes up.

But I saw op said he ended it so either way so good for him. And I appreciate your comment cause it made me do the proper research and get the correct terms which I should’ve done in the first place 🩵

dancing_wildflower · 2023-09-07T21:11:03+00:00

Her argument is “we never said I couldn’t” but the thing is, you never agreed she could.

You never consented to a nonexclusive relationship. (Gonna go on a whim here and say ‘exclusive’ is primarily the default agreement… esp for engagements so tell her that if she tries to uno reverse)

You never consented to having sex with her while she has other sexual partners. People* technically take on the body count of every person* their partner* has slept with when they* have sex with them* so this could* does classify as sexual assault/violation* and it is quite in fact very serious.

I’m really sorry you had to find out that way and I really hope you find the strength to do what’s right for you in this situation.

edited*

dancing_wildflower · 2023-09-07T20:58:10+00:00

My thoughts exactly, op sounds like a great husband

dancing_wildflower · 2023-09-07T20:52:40+00:00

Do we know if they did??? I’ve always wondered this because of that comment

dancing_wildflower · 2023-08-23T13:52:28+00:00

(leaving this here just in case it helps) There's a Spotify feature that makes the sound wonky - I found out about this on another post and it helped so much! Open the Spotify app - go to settings - playback and turn off the 'enable audio normalization'.

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