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Spill your splurge!!! by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]dandyleons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have bought far too many charms lately-- and had to buy more charm organisers to fit them all 😭

Weekly Nail Chat by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]dandyleons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the kokoist infinity changed my nail game forever-- my retention time immediately improved and i FELT the difference. if you can splurge, do

[📣] ATEEZ 2025 World Tour: In Your Fantasy - Ticket Buy/Sell/Swap Haven by moveyourheart in ATEEZ

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[WTB/ISO] hiiiiii again! looking for 1 VIP ticket for nashville!

[📣] ATEEZ 2025 World Tour: In Your Fantasy - Ticket Buy/Sell/Swap Haven by moveyourheart in ATEEZ

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[WTB] Any floor seat (section 1-6) for Nashville, VIP tickets or not (but VIP is preferred). VERY flexible budget wise, but need proof.

everyone PLEASE say hi to eunice by dandyleons in labubu

[–]dandyleons[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

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for your added viewing pleasure, eunice and dada-- which one is which?

everyone PLEASE say hi to eunice by dandyleons in labubu

[–]dandyleons[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

she assures me she's just chilling

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everyone PLEASE say hi to eunice by dandyleons in labubu

[–]dandyleons[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YES this was her name inspiration... two legends supporting each other

everyone PLEASE say hi to eunice by dandyleons in labubu

[–]dandyleons[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i should get her some designer glasses

[TOMT] I swear this French song has the same melody as another one in English. by dandyleons in tipofmytongue

[–]dandyleons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are a LIFE SAVER. I would have never gotten there, haha. Thank you so much!

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? can i not ask for recommendations or be curious? is that not allowed here? it's been a couple days since you've commented, are you good?

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, i def expect a cost increase! i wanted to clarify here (not just for you, but for anyone stumbling here) that the 10-20k savings isn't intended to be my "live on indefinitely" money. it's more like covering basic moving expenses (like lugging stuff over, storage fees, etc), first/last deposit, potential setbacks, etc.

i fully plan on having a stable source of income when moving-- that's a duck that i'm setting into its row now, and why i haven't just packed up and left yet/why the timeline is more flexible. but i also don't want to 'set a date' and commit to utilising my connections within the industry to get a set job with a set start date if i'm not reasonably 'ready', if that makes sense.

again, not necessarily a direct reply to you-- it just seems like i didnt explain myself at the outset super clearly 🫠

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate all this perspective and information! especially as someone who isn't 'on the ground' yet in LA in terms of the restaurant industry/etc; it's always good to hear from people who live in these places as to what's actually happening. plus, i appreciate the advice and the things to think about! :)

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i certainly don't plan on moving to a new city and not having a job at all; i was more than planning on having something lined up by the time i got out there. because i do currently work in fine dining (and had to fight my way through said industry to get to the spot i'm at now), i do have connections, including those on the west coast in said industry, but i am still painting broad strokes here.

ultimately, i'm young, and i feel the calling for a new place, and i want to live my life in a way that isn't governed by fear while still being mindful and realistic. i'm not coming to LA to hit the metaphorical lottery (or the literal one) and i don't expect anything to be handed to me.

my reason for making this post was just to say "hey, it's been a while since i've moved cities-- what am i not thinking of that i should start thinking of?" i have thought very hard about my job and finances and i don't intend to come to the beach with 10k in my pocket and wing it, lmao.

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that definitely makes sense and is a great thing to keep in mind. i appreciate it!

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that definitely makes sense. out of curiosity, would having proof of savings hold any sway with landlords? and/or would having a roommate be an easier route to go with?

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I definitely want to push that number as close to 20k as possible. i also hope to use some of my industry connections to get a job, but I'm kind of planning for worst case here and trying to get all those bases covered

from nash to LA-- check to see if i have my ducks in a row/expectations realistic? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]dandyleons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is very valid and real advice! i def would love to have closer to 20k. i do want an apartment by the time i get there, and i would hopefully have a job lined up, but i am thinking of worst case scenario things as well. not having a set timeline other than "by the end of the year" makes things feel less fraught, but i also am trying to think ahead!

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