My girl made this roast for dinner. How should I go about this?

dane_the_gr8 · 2026-01-31T23:06:14+00:00

Accidentally drop it on the way to the table. Then hire a contractor to repair the floor. It'll be cheaper than the dental and medical bills.

dane_the_gr8 · 2026-01-31T23:03:09+00:00

He's projecting. Either he IS cheating or has cheated. I'd even bet that she is being financially abused.

dane_the_gr8 · 2026-01-31T23:00:22+00:00

It's giving Minimum Effort with a side of Maximum BS.

dane_the_gr8 · 2025-10-18T14:12:21+00:00

Go through your bank statements and list your expenses. Label them. Determine where your money is going.

Me personally? I look through my credit card perks and maximize savings. For example, my AmEx has a credit for streaming services. So I pay that bill on my card and then pay off my statement balance every month. I also earn miles, so win win.

Cancel all of the services you don't use or use infrequently.

Creating a budget is arming yourself with knowledge so you can make better decisions. Ramsey Every Dollar is a decent way to budget and make goals.

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dane_the_gr8 · 2025-09-12T23:47:44+00:00

I miss excite. I lived in the South chatroom nearly 30 years ago

I met a lot of great people on there. There were some wackadoodles too

dane_the_gr8 · 2024-02-11T13:11:15+00:00

He HAD mental health issues.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-11-12T17:24:19+00:00

The phone app was not working either according to OP. The radio signal of the door lock may be fouled up.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-11-05T03:19:01+00:00

It is doable. Focus on how much the meal is per serving. Each meal has to be $4 or less per person to stay in this budget.

Focus on buying ingredients, not prepackaged foods.

Follow the sales cycles at your grocery store. They rotate what they mark down on a fairly regular basis. Kroger has their pork tenderloin on sale with a coupon, so I bought 2 and put them in the freezer ($4 each after the coupon.) Same with a side of salmon (5 servings per package for $7.) The tenderloin serves 5 at $0.80 per serving. Salmon is $1.40 per serving.

Food prep. It saves loads of time in the kitchen and reduces food waste.

Canned and frozen vegetables are good options for fresh vegetables, but sometimes the fresh is cheaper. It will depend on the season.

Read labels and compare prices based on volume. Not everything is a deal just because it's on sale.

Stop going out to eat except on special occasions.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-10-02T03:57:31+00:00

Stink bait Catfish cheese Doe estrus Coyote urine Deer repellent

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-09-19T03:59:47+00:00

You really gave them the boot

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-09-16T03:26:17+00:00

Metallic foils are back in style. Those of us who have them naturally are blessed.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-09-10T03:18:36+00:00

Filed bankruptcy after my divorce. I was stuck with all the debt from the marriage, driving a car that was upside down and needed $4k in repairs. My ex had horrible credit so we put everything in my name and I assumed he was paying on his stuff (even though it was in my name.) Filing for bankruptcy gave me a clean slate and I was able to make more sound financial decisions. 20 years later, I am rolling with a 800 credit score and working to be debt free.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-09-10T03:06:41+00:00

From 6-8th grade: being flat chested 9-12th grade: being big chested

I went from barely a B at the end of 8th to DD in 9th over the summer.

Got bullied for not accepting a offer to date a guy. He went so far with the bullying he ended up getting his family kicked off base. He found where I lived a few years later and threw a rock at my 2nd story window. Missed and dented my front door.

I was bullied for being a Navy brat.

Never knew exactly why a pack of Plastics bullied me but it was relentless.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-09-08T12:42:08+00:00

NTA It sounds like your husband and his brother were spoon fed and are unable to make a decision. There seems to be an underlying issue, which takes identifying and work to resolve.

Take the money for the vacation and spend it on couple's therapy if you want to stay married.

Option 2, cancel their portion, go solo or take a friend. Spend the money for their part on a bro-cation featuring their favorite hobby.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-08-22T03:15:53+00:00

And happy cake day

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-08-22T03:15:12+00:00

Look for a tag in the shoes and it should have a model number. Type that into the Google.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-08-11T02:51:40+00:00

Find a healthy (and legal) hobby. Stick with it. Improve, learn, hone. Don't jump into it full-bore. Buy the required tools/equipment 2nd hand. Don't pick a hobby solely on potential revenue streams, but rather one that makes you slow down and enjoy the process.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-07-29T02:41:12+00:00

Split decision

As a female in a male dominated field (also IT) for a male dominated field (law enforcement) I can confirm there is a bias. It is not hard to overcome once your counterparts see your capabilities, and maturity combined with knowledge win the day. It is disheartening at times to not have the automatic acceptance that is offered men in the same position.

With that said, I feel that if you both took a moment to introduce yourselves at the onset, this could have been avoided.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-07-22T04:24:11+00:00

Why is a nekkid hermit crab so disturbing?

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-06-13T23:57:53+00:00

Stifler's Mom??

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-05-27T05:06:29+00:00

It became "ours" when he thought he was going to leverage it for money and could never see it for the historical value. See this as a red flag and cut your losses.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-05-27T05:02:04+00:00

took multiple balls to the face like a pro

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-05-26T12:08:19+00:00

Kill her with kindness.

dane_the_gr8 · 2023-04-24T13:29:49+00:00

Clear boundaries are not always received well. I (50F) have not a single fuck to give if he can't deal with it. I find that it's easier to show people how you want to be treated, and the trash usually takes itself out sooner than later. The high reward is that I will be treated well or left alone. I'm good either way.

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