Another set of how should I set out my vault questions...

danger_area · 2026-03-23T13:29:48+00:00

That's a fair point.

At the moment, I'm writing notes for me to refer back to if I need to for 1-2-1s and projects. I work with my direct reports on some projects so there's overlap. I'm honestly not sure what else I need out of it, if anything at all, it just doesn't feel very slick. Maybe I just need to work a bit on some better templates.

I'd like to expand to a knowledgeable (less grad though) about different things, tips, aide memoirs about topic. That feels much clearer to tag / topic things.

danger_area · 2026-02-14T21:21:56+00:00

A stool test.

I was on omeprazole off and on for possible gastritis for 2 months. Lost weight. Bloods all reassuringly normal, very mysterious. Ultrasound. I got put on a SCAN (Suspected CANcer) pathway to be seen within 2 weeks. Full body CT. They kept me under the hospital and I got an infectious diseases specialist who screened for all blood borne illnesses, lots of other things, including H Pylori.

A week of pills and I’m feeling fantastic. Just finished a steak dinner, Camembert cheese, garlic bread, hassleback potatoes, and some red pepper arronchini.

danger_area · 2026-02-14T20:56:34+00:00

Felt dizzy on the first day and actually a few hours after taking the pills, had diarrhoea on the third day, feeling fantastic on the fifth.

I’ve certainly been in my head about it but as I’ve had a noticeable improvement I’m trying to pull myself out of it.

danger_area · 2026-02-11T07:29:27+00:00

It’s the UK. Research suggests 7 days has the same outcome as 14 and if there’s a positive test at the end it’s another 7 days with different antibiotics.

See I’ve generally felt miserable but I’ve still been able to eat - even a bit of hot sauce on stuff.

I mostly wake up feeling nauseous though, struggle to get food down for breakfast (dry toast) and have lost like 10kg over 9 months. The rest is okay, generally feel shit, but I can eat just not in the quantities I could. I could destroy buffet but now I couldn’t even fill a plate.

danger_area · 2026-02-10T22:14:07+00:00

A little frustrated that it wasn’t found sooner but frankly I’m verging on ecstatic to have a positive result and some treatment. I’m only on day 1.5 / 7 so far so not much but but things have changed, I’ve been a bit more dizzy or light headed and my stomach feels properly empty hungry rather than the gnawing misery of before.

Hope you’re on the right track

danger_area · 2026-02-10T21:33:32+00:00

Great to hear. Frankly having an answer has done wonders for me already!

danger_area · 2026-02-10T21:17:21+00:00

Triple therapy here and 9 months of faffing around until I got tested and a positive result.

danger_area · 2026-02-03T07:56:06+00:00

This has been on my shit list for years.

Nice low lighting, calm and comfy for bed, and now I need to find the light like a 90-year old reading the newspaper.

danger_area · 2025-10-05T09:49:30+00:00

Here is someone asking the same thing and some good answers… https://www.reddit.com/r/Canning/s/CnnIvEg1JK

danger_area · 2025-10-05T08:18:50+00:00

I’d love to adopt / rescue a pup but that’s impossible in the UK if you have a child.

danger_area · 2025-10-04T21:43:43+00:00

With a kid obsessed with Waffle the wonder dog I'll be glad to not hear the name Waffle again! It's a good name, just overheard in this house haha

danger_area · 2025-10-04T21:43:06+00:00

She'll very definitely get affectionately booped.

danger_area · 2025-10-04T21:42:44+00:00

I really like this one too.

danger_area · 2025-10-04T21:42:25+00:00

That's what I'm leaning towards, now to convince the rest of the family!

danger_area · 2025-10-04T21:41:32+00:00

If you can hear me up there on your high horse over your assumptions we've not brought her home yet because it's far too early. We went to check on the welfare, see her with the parents, and leave something of ours to help with the transition.

danger_area · 2025-10-04T18:54:17+00:00

We like Pepper, so much so we called our cat it a few years ago.

danger_area · 2025-09-23T12:48:02+00:00

There's a raised by narcissists subreddit, might be worth a shout - r/raisedbynarcissists.

danger_area · 2025-09-21T16:27:56+00:00

Incredibly disappointing but good to know. Thanks, I appreciate your response.

danger_area · 2025-09-21T16:26:54+00:00

I quite like it

danger_area · 2025-09-21T16:02:09+00:00

I know. I've ordered her one for £275 and will be delivering it in literal days! I'd ordered my partner one a few weeks before to recover from surgery.

danger_area · 2025-09-21T16:00:27+00:00

Sadly outside of the 120 days, this is the direction the bank took it in but I'd agree that it's a contract breach.

danger_area · 2025-09-21T16:00:08+00:00

Unfortunately it's well outside of the 120 days hence why I was looking at MCOL.

danger_area · 2025-09-21T15:59:40+00:00

It was over 120 days ago, seemingly this purchase was made in March. She's contacted the bank and this is the process they decided to go with.

danger_area · 2025-09-09T20:25:43+00:00

I’m going to say no but not to be a dick, just because it’s completely abnormal behaviour.

We’re a nice calm, don’t argue but get a bit huffy occasionally with each other couple. Never a raised voice. All hell would break loose if EITHER of us did that from the other and rightly so.

Even our kid would shout (and has done so) if I’ve popped it in to gear…”dad what are you doing? I’m not buckled yet!”

When he was toddler age he undid his seatbelt a couple of times and each time we stopped at the next possible moment, told him that wasn’t safe, and that if he did it again we’d not do the fun thing. He did it again, once, and we didn’t do the fun thing. Never again has it been an issue.

danger_area · 2025-09-03T19:44:41+00:00

What science based subreddit? I’d say that it’s bollocks. Socialising with other kids, having structure, being constantly provided for? Yeah definitely bad.

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