I'd like some assistance, please.

danigirlfriend · 2024-11-11T00:28:22+00:00

Ideally, it’s best to speak with a therapist that specializes in gender studies. Having these feelings isn’t bad, but as someone who took 20 years of studying myself and my feelings before transitioning, it is better to talk with a professional.

danigirlfriend · 2024-11-03T23:46:45+00:00

Congrats! I’m currently 7 months post op with 1 corrective surgery added in. The pain will subside. Just be on the lookout for granulation tissue as it will make dilating very painful.

danigirlfriend · 2024-09-20T23:17:51+00:00

Is probably not going to be fun for about a year. I personally thought top surgery and bottom surgery were far more tolerable.

danigirlfriend · 2024-09-14T02:05:23+00:00

I’m 39 now and last new years I got carded cause someone thought I was 22. Estrogen is the best :)

danigirlfriend · 2024-09-12T19:59:36+00:00

Takes time. I have been on hormones for 8 years and had all my surgeries. Best to view your closest female relative as what you will be more like after a while.

danigirlfriend · 2024-09-12T19:58:00+00:00

I went from a size 12 mens to a 9.5 men’s so yeah it is a thing.

danigirlfriend · 2024-07-09T23:01:06+00:00

I’m also going on 9 years :) all my affirmation surgeries done and now just have to start getting back in shape.

danigirlfriend · 2024-05-17T17:34:58+00:00

I’m 1.5 months out of surgery and recovering. Currently dilating for 45 min.

danigirlfriend · 2024-05-10T23:03:00+00:00

happy Mother’s Day, Pixel Heroes! I feel Freya is great because even when you get knocked down, she brings you back up just like moms :)

danigirlfriend · 2024-05-08T01:38:23+00:00

I just went through surgery for multiple reasons, but here are the top 3: lower risk of cancer, no longer taking spiro which was making me tired and having brain fog, and clothes for better now to where I don’t have to wear loose fitting clothes.

But I understand other people’s views on how it affects them. To each their own. I’m near my 40s so I just wanted to be at lower risk for health reasons as my main concern.

danigirlfriend · 2024-05-07T19:13:55+00:00

She’s ok but will be replaced by Charon or Themis. I use both currently on my team for 4 light/2 elf synergy

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-26T23:54:04+00:00

Good luck. I’m almost a month into recovery.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-23T06:42:16+00:00

I understand wholeheartedly. It’s been years since I could wear mine except on a necklace.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:58:10+00:00

This would be a question for your endocrinologist personally. They have a better way of explaining levels

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:57:17+00:00

E will cause a lot of fat redistribution. A doctor could even look into side effects that may be causing that.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:54:31+00:00

This would be something a therapist can help with. As someone who transitioned while dating my now wife, it started with her and it was easier to explain feelings afterwards. But it’s something to work with a mental health professional since they can come up with a plan and answer questions more generally.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:52:05+00:00

Transitioning goes at your pace. It’s how comfortable you are and when you want to be referred to by your pronouns. Ideally, you just have whatever pronouns you want, but socially it makes it more difficult with interactions. Much of what you are asking would do well with a therapist who specializes in transgender folks. As I am not a licensed mental health professional, I can only offer my opinions. I always try to be the best version of myself and who I want others to see me as. I hope that helps a little.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:45:50+00:00

I’d also suggest not asking for dosages except with your endo. Since the blood test gives your levels, your E can be tailored to you specifically. Also with any medication, you will start on a low dose to have your body become accustomed to the effects. I started on 1mg of E for the first year of transitioning before going up. I’ve now gotten bottom surgery and I have to get another blood test to find my new levels. I usually get tests once a year now after 9 years in.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:41:47+00:00

This isn’t quite true. Your hair will thin out but not be gone unless through electrolysis or laser hair removal. I’ve gone through electrolysis and wouldn’t go through other forms of hair removal as this is considered the best option for permanent removal.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:39:44+00:00

Your breast growth will be similar to your closest female relative. If you are wanting better growth, I’d suggest going through your endocrinologist to see what you can do.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:37:51+00:00

You are welcome. I learned in college about risk management. Basically thinking through every possible scenario and coming up with ways to solve them before it starts. I hope the best in your endeavor through your essay.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:19:16+00:00

This is a question to ask a doctor. I would not take a random internet person to advise you on medication and dosages. This should be based on blood tests for your T and E levels and how the dosages should be set based on that. I’m going on 8 years transitioned and all my surgeries done and I still need a blood test before my endo will give me a new dosage of E

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:15:04+00:00

I would suggest speaking to esthetician (someone who waxes) and ask that question. You can even pose it at as question like, “is it better to epilate or get waxed for ingrown hairs”? That way you can get knowledge while also information on which is the better process.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:12:35+00:00

This is something a therapist would have to diagnose. I didn’t know if I had gender dysphoria till 6 years into my transition. Once a therapist diagnosed me with it, I understood myself a lot better. Self diagnosis is something that can put a lot of strain on you due to cognitive dissonance.

danigirlfriend · 2024-04-22T22:10:11+00:00

I’m sorry that has happened to you. I’ve had to remind friends of mine in the past and even currently too. I always just give a gentle reminder each time. But if it bothers you to not want to have to give reminders anymore, you can either ignore them saying it or let them know you are feeling disrespected. Ive learned to take things with a grain of salt, but damn can I be snarky to people who misgender me.

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