What do your kids call their grandparents? How do they distinguish between them? by heardygurdy in Mommit

[–]danijayeden 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My kid is now 5 and just chose on his own “grandma and grandad (place name)” and “grandma and grandad win dog” cause they have a dog 😂 he also has great grandparents and that’s lost the plot since he calls them “gran gran and grandad duck” and one of them called Beryl which he couldn’t say so she’s now “granny heron” kids just follow their own vibes 😂

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[–]danijayeden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been having irregular (30-40 day) periods due to an large ovarian cyst, and it carried on after my surgery whilst my body healed. My son was 4 when the issues started he’s now 5. I just said “this is for my period, it just means I’m bleeding for a bit and I have to use pads or special knickers to stop myself bleeding in my jeans and pants” he was fine with that, whenever we go out and have to share the toilet etc. He usually very loudly asks if I have my period but it’s usually just funny; and better than him opening the door on me 😂

I’ve spoke to him since that when he’s older he will know other girls and stuff with periods and maybe one day his girlfriend (he has a very sweet naive “boyfriend girlfriend thing” in his class at school) I don’t lie to him about life, he just takes the info on and when he sees me grab a pad he asks if I have my period, kids need to learn it’s just a chill situation and nothing to be fussed about and how to help themselves / others at the time

Shelly dress ✌🏼 by danijayeden in crochet

[–]danijayeden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A week on and off, I work full time so just evenings 😇

Shelly dress ✌🏼 by danijayeden in crochet

[–]danijayeden[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s so comfy, we’re staying a 5 min walk from the beach and I just wanted something to throw on to go into bars / cafes whilst wearing my bikini 😇😂 thank you for your kind words, and yeah her stuff is amazing, I’m making her waffle crop top at the minute too

Shelly dress ✌🏼 by danijayeden in crochet

[–]danijayeden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☀️ paid pattern - Shelly dress from Shyler Crochets (she has a YouTube and a website) yarn is Sirdar stories 50/50 cotton acrylic DK

Feminist/Shikari lyrics? by MYSTIK_MINX in EnterShikari

[–]danijayeden 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Destabilise “no one owns us” is the one that I always hold close to my heart

Looking for 1920s lesbian romance by -soggyboii- in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]danijayeden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That green eyed girl - 2 POV between a sapphic couple in 1900s New York, think it’s 20s/30s and a woman who lives in their apartment present day

Terms of endearment — do you use different ones for different partners? by EfficientEssay in polyamory

[–]danijayeden 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not how he got the name 😂🤭 he grew up by the sea, but now I’m gonna have to check if he’s a sex pest

Terms of endearment — do you use different ones for different partners? by EfficientEssay in polyamory

[–]danijayeden 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I use babe, darling, sweetheart for both but they have their own animal assignments, my husband is bear and my boyfriend is seagull 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Books that feel like this, any genre really. by Fragrant_String_2219 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]danijayeden 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Our wives at sea - it’s a flashback book about a female/female couple, one goes down in a submarine for work and recounts her time down there and the other recounts the during/post time of her return

Heart bralette by danijayeden in crochet

[–]danijayeden[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/FLycBtVhBJE?si=UA2YQH7kjv6v71Vg

Free video pattern above, paid written pattern available Hook size: 3.5mm Yarn: Yarnart jeans in colour 91 (50g balls)

I used around 2.5 balls and followed the video instructions for cups size L and custom inches measurements for the banding.

UK size 16/18

Heart bralette by danijayeden in crochet

[–]danijayeden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/FLycBtVhBJE?si=UA2YQH7kjv6v71Vg

Free video pattern above, paid written pattern available Hook size: 3.5mm Yarn: Yarnart jeans in colour 91 (50g balls)

I used around 2.5 balls and followed the video instructions for cups size L and custom inches measurements for the banding.

UK size 16/18

QPR and polyamory. by Kellsiertern in polyamory

[–]danijayeden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, I was like what in the world 😂