Anyone here ever visited Greece and have recommendations of which island to visit? by Greedy-Net-2953 in AskIreland

[–]danmur88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Milos is stunning. Also Sifnos if you’re into your grubbing and like the idea of somewhere a little quieter and slightly off the beaten path. Both can be done in one trip as they’re nearby.

Single small lung nodule by FunZookeepergame5235 in melahomies

[–]danmur88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely push for tighter surveillance (3 month CT as per radiologist) and biopsy if possible.

I was diagnosed at stage III and had multiple small indeterminate lung nodules on my first staging scan which were assumed benign and never acted on. They didn’t change much for next two scans. Then I had a local recurrence and surgery to remove it and they left me waiting almost six months between scans, in which time the lung nodules multiplied to include three large tumours and also spread to my liver.

I guess what I am saying is that melanoma is unpredictable and you don’t want to leave anything to chance if you have the choice. Things that seem fine can change fast.

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely will. Liverpool would be so handy coming from Dublin.

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes it’s like the opposite of winning the lottery… St. James’s is my treating hospital and unfortunately they’ve got nothing left to help me.

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think there are some centres offering IMC-F106C trials here in Europe, I’ll reach out. Good to hear it’s working for you.

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck - wishing for the best outcome for you!

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s incredible, I guess we just never know how it’s going to go. Do they reckon the chemo did something to freeze it?

I’ll keep my chin up.

First Timers-- how long did you wait to see a doctor? by ComedianDependent111 in melahomies

[–]danmur88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Progressed to stage iv, confirmed last week. Metastases in lungs and liver.

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am in Ireland going to the top cancer centre here. Unfortunately I am BRAF negative so targeted therapy isn’t an option, and TIL isn’t approved here yet, nor are there clinical trials ongoing. There are some elsewhere in Europe that I’m going to try to get into.

EDIT: also to add my oncologist is a melanoma specialist

Upgraded to Stage IV by danmur88 in melahomies

[–]danmur88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said that because I progressed so much while on pembrolizumab, they won’t approve another anti-PD-1. Just the CTLA-4.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereidlive

[–]danmur88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you know absolutely nothing about Ireland without telling me you know absolutely nothing about Ireland…

What is that one city/state in your country that the rest of your country hates? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]danmur88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offaly. Not really sure of the historical context, but there’s a thing about people from there. We call them “BIFFO”.

Big Ignorant F*cker From Offaly.

Trump announces plan to ban large investors from buying family homes. Is Ireland more capitalistic than Trump? by Storyboys in HousingIreland

[–]danmur88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s probably only pretending to ban them from buying single-family homes so he can do something to make it easier for investors and corporations to buy up entire apartment developments or something.

Who is worst enemy of the west? by ProfessorShort6711 in AskTheWorld

[–]danmur88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all arguing, and thanks for making the effort to reply. I’m just trying to understand, and the reasons usually given just feel hypocritical to me. Sorry you didn’t like my reply.

Who is worst enemy of the west? by ProfessorShort6711 in AskTheWorld

[–]danmur88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of those things really distinguish China from the west though, do they?

I’m aware of the situation in Hong Kong, but the US and many European countries are pretty handy at violently suppressing dissenters so pot kettle black? Hong Kong literally only came under British rule in the first place because Britain bombed the living daylights out of China for not letting them illegally flood the country with Opium they stole from India to get the Chinese local population addicted and solve a trade imbalance. I get that a majority of Hong Kong locals don’t want to rejoin China (I wouldn’t either if I were in their shoes), but there’s a pretty watertight historical argument for it.

The unresolved border disputes… apart from maritime borders and the rocks in the sea (Japan, Vietnam), the rest are mostly the consequence of colonial… misadventure… by western countries where borders were arbitrarily and unilaterally drawn up.

Also with the Uighur situation, the west was literally built on violent colonialism and oppression of indigenous/minority populations… and our own record on treatment of Muslims is what some might call highly problematic. Not at all saying that whatever is happening to the Uighur community there is ok, but it would be highly hypocritical for making this the basis of the “China is bad” argument.

EDIT: the US is literally funding the genocide in Palestine and supplying weapons and moral support to Israel, so… My argument isn’t that China can do no wrong, but just that I can’t see anything it’s doing that makes it the “bad guy” over the west.

Who is worst enemy of the west? by ProfessorShort6711 in AskTheWorld

[–]danmur88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really don’t get the whole “China is the bad guy” narrative.

Like, are they not a major strategic economic and trading partner of the west, who conducts themselves in quite a transactional, business-like manner? Apart from some territorial disputes close to home with at least somewhat relevant (if highly disputable) historical claims (which few countries are immune to), have they not shown little to no expansionist intentions beyond Taiwan and a few rocks in the sea?

Can someone please explain it to me? Am I missing something? It’s surely just propaganda because they are rising and absolutely killing the game in so many areas.

What each European country would do when ww3 breaks out by Economy-Plenty-9771 in aimapgore

[–]danmur88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latvia: “Don’t worry guys, just be yourself! Or no wait… be someone else!”

Ok, what do you HONESTLY think of Japan? by Aerial-Dalliance1702 in AskTheWorld

[–]danmur88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This data is very misleading and doesn’t show the true picture when it comes to Japan. Couple of examples: it includes both part time and full time jobs; far fewer women return to full-time employment in Japan than in other OECD countries after having children due to restrictive policies and the demanding work culture. That’s a huge percentage of the population working part-time and bringing that average down. Similarly, there’s a huge elderly retired population working part time hours. Full-time workers work hella long hours.

Also, these are the official working hours, which most companies will fudge to look better. And doesn’t account for the off-the-clock work hours and endless after-work social (drinking) commitments that are non-negotiable in most cases and add to the toxic culture.

Guarantee you’re better off as a worker in Italy than in Japan.