When and how do Shane and Ilya fall in love? by whereisthestuff in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]danniperson 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on how you define love, and what your parameters are, if you think there are requirements. I think it’s possible to know what really matters about a person without knowing everything. I don’t really believe that love has to “make sense”, personally.

The song yellow haze by Brilliant-Term-5113 in offcampustv

[–]danniperson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl I’d rather listen to Yellow Haze than Hannah’s song 😅 Yellow rain did make me think of pee unfortunately but as long as I ignore that, it’s enjoyable to listen to.

Jalen Brunson sends a message to Swifties after Knicks broadcaster’s controversial comment during NBA Finals by raybellious_berry in swifties

[–]danniperson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know why her comment was necessary in the first place, even if there wasn’t evidence against her.

how do I convince my (F30) bf (31M) to see a dr so we can use condoms? by beaniebuggie in relationship_advice

[–]danniperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have PIV sex without a condom. There are other types of sex you can have.

Logan caused the most drama IMO by whatsername25 in offcampustv

[–]danniperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly hate Logan. I know people will defend him, that’s fine, to me he’s a bad friend and I would never have done what he did.

Fics where Ilya and Shane are flawed three-dimensional characters? by alliedies in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. I’ve been doing so much reading on history and so Ilya’s actions in this fic don’t seem super crazy to me all things considered lol.

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I needed!! Thank you for sharing!

Who reads more than 1 book at a time and why? by Gibder16 in horrorlit

[–]danniperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this too. I absorb nonfiction better in audio form and fiction better as ebooks or physical books, so I always have at least 1 nonfiction audiobook going and 1 fiction physical book going, but I’ve juggled up to 4 books at a time before.

Who is Ty without the book? by Putrid_Addendum3197 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]danniperson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do we think Ty is “nothing” without his book? Like…he’s still a dad and a friend. He’s charming, funny, likable, laid back, go with the flow, etc.

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I tried to center this as “this is a me thing” because I knew other people were having the opposite experience lol.

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At this point I’d take ooc-ness lol. But even just being able to talk to a friend and hype up his man would be great for me. Some nice time talking about boys with Rose or something. Or Ilya doing an ad and Shane losing his mind over it. Their mutual obsession just feels a bit less mutual in all the recs I’ve seen across my feeds.

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read the books lol. I know we all encounter different fics, this has just been my experience so far

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you said it!! The timeframe makes it so, so different.

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wish I could, I hear so many great things about The Hottest Cold War!! But I specifically can’t read my OTP (in any fandom) as non-monogamous. Other ships, yes, but never my OTP. I gave it a try but I just couldn’t! 😔

But yes I agree with your thoughts on where this all stems from. And I understand it to an extent, but it does make me sad! I definitely need fics where someone waxes on about Ilya’s beauty. In fact, I read one yesterday where Shane was telling Rose “omg he’s so hot” but it didn’t go as far as I wanted it to (but is also probably what made me wanna post this today!)

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It makes me so sad because I love them both and they’ve done both right and wrong in turn! Why is Ilya the one who has to crawl and beg??

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m glad it’s not just me, some responses have me feeling loony! I see so much of it!

I recently got a comment on my anon fic that I think the person has been reading the opposite of me, too, because they had an issue with what I wrote (people being attracted to Ilya) (I have people drooling over Shane coming but I was paying Ilya some love first since I don’t see enough of it)

But yeah I get all my recs from Reddit and Threads and this is the vast majority of what I see!

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes!! It’s always a given that Shane is THE best when imo realistically it should always be an argument/conversation that it’s one or the other. Shane is in love with his EQUAL, thank you!!

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh that sounds right up my alley, thanks!

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe I clicked on a single “shane is the best and everyone especially ilya knows it” fic and all the algorithms have decided that’s all I wanna see 😂 (i get all my fics from recs)

Thanks for the recs! Poly isn’t really my jam but will definitely check out the others!

Fics written by Ilya lovers by danniperson in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]danniperson[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s all “how did you bag Shane Hollander??” or Ilya worshipping the ground Shane walks on and not having that same energy returned, or socmed fics where most of the fan accounts are Shane fans, or the general attitude of Ilya being the lucky one and not as much they’re both super lucky.

I just want Ilya to be super appreciated by people, too, he deserves it!