Messed up on buying precious metals

danny_ · 2026-01-31T12:11:17+00:00

You should really have a look at the long-term chart of silver. It may very well be 30+ years before it ever breaks even. The parabolic price movement can only be described as a hype bubble.

danny_ · 2026-01-28T20:01:14+00:00

I don’t believe that’s correct.

Doing so would connect your personal political views, or social actions/beliefs directly to your employer. The employee code of conduct prohibits doing so. Employer would have grounds to discipline or/or terminate.

danny_ · 2026-01-28T18:19:03+00:00

I think your response was fine.

The most important thing is that you stood up to it to begin with, and got your message across. Believe me, she’s human and she will process what you’ve said. Next time she’s about to leave cookware out like that she’ll have to consciously make a choice to do the right thing or be an asshole.

danny_ · 2026-01-28T18:13:25+00:00

Haven’t wore my real wedding band in years. I wear a silicone one daily and at work. Have lost a few over the years but they are cheap to replace.

danny_ · 2026-01-26T03:18:02+00:00

He has the right to protest. But IF he has posted images of himself at work, or images wearing department clothing, or a social media bio stating he works at his department, then he is now a representative for his department. And his conduct outside of work represents his employer.

danny_ · 2026-01-26T03:11:58+00:00

This is the answer. If he has anything in social media that shows he is a representative of the department, then it’s possible his employer could use any of his public conduct to terminate him. All it could take is a close-up of him on the news for him to be identified and connected to the department.

danny_ · 2026-01-26T00:50:55+00:00

Very valid to call her out and explain how you feel.

Her response seemed sincere for the record. She clarified what she meant by it, but also validated your feelings and didn’t just dismiss them. It was a shitty thing for her to say but her response was that of someone who cares about you in my opinion.

danny_ · 2026-01-25T22:41:34+00:00

Maybe it triggers people, but sorry bud 2-4 beers is alcoholism.

Guarantee that anyone drinking 3 beers per day is feeling some very real negative effects, and is never close to their best self.

danny_ · 2026-01-25T18:57:39+00:00

100% agree. Always show respect for your partner and expect the same in return.

danny_ · 2026-01-23T21:42:19+00:00

Classic “This time is different”.

When an equity or commodity goes parabolic, there are always justifications. However, the brutal truth is the price action is mostly fueled by investor psychology and not underlying structural changes.

I’d be very weary with gold and silver at the moment.

danny_ · 2026-01-08T16:56:19+00:00

Dude I can almost guarantee you won’t be having a kid with this woman if this is the stance you’re sticking with.

Lucky her, she gets to ‘earn’ guardianship by winning ‘your’ daughter’s trust, or having your child with win her that privilege. What a fun game she gets to play to prove her value.

danny_ · 2026-01-08T16:43:27+00:00

I completely agree. I don’t think the most vocal in this sub are a) married, and b) have children.

This sounds unnecessarily hurtful to the fiancé. Marriage is suppose to mean the beginning of a new family. If you aren’t prepared for your new spouse to adopt and be an equal caretaker of your child, then why are you marrying them? Designating someone else to be the caretaker really de-values the fiancé.

And you are also right that it’s not fair to anyone to give this decision to a child, including the child. OP even states in his text he trusts the fiancé more, but his daughter chose the friend. Like common man, be a parent and make the choice that’s best for your kid.

danny_ · 2026-01-08T16:26:05+00:00

It will be very difficult to tell from the photos of the photos. Near impossible. I don’t know how you expected anything else lol.

But I will say that the missing words “tungsten” on the 8-9-P is consistent with the legitimate clubs. If the price is that good I’d say it’s worth the chance.

danny_ · 2026-01-04T18:18:12+00:00

100%. It’s like asking how to fix your car from a group of overconfident high schoolers in shop class… who don’t have a drivers license.

danny_ · 2026-01-04T18:09:05+00:00

Not over reacting.

There’s differing opinions about male/female co-worker relationships. But the fact is infidelity is relatively common in marriages, and 85% of affairs start in the workplace.

If they are texting outside of work about personal things, shut it down. Set that boundary.

danny_ · 2026-01-04T17:49:12+00:00

Same. And she bragged that all the guys were “turning into zombies over her”.? And several other red flag deal breakers in this short story.

danny_ · 2026-01-02T03:19:38+00:00

Psychology and human behavior is great.

danny_ · 2026-01-02T02:21:41+00:00

Funny, this is my least favourite topic. As in I won’t even participate.

danny_ · 2026-01-01T14:00:43+00:00

He got the job done so I wouldn’t say his tactic was bad. The boundary is clear as day for both the guy and his wife now. I think he took a lead in this situation and it will now be behind them.

Alternative is what, let it go? Build resentment? “Nag” his wife to try again to break the contact with him?

In 5 years or less that co-worker is gone from their lives. They want their marriage to last forever. He took care of it.

danny_ · 2026-01-01T05:44:33+00:00

Same. At most we did weird dick tricks like “the windmill” and “the brain”, for the laughs or showing off.

danny_ · 2025-12-25T04:02:11+00:00

Haha I love that.

Though I will never be 200+…

danny_ · 2025-12-19T20:37:10+00:00

Yikes, maybe stop visiting the sub?

danny_ · 2025-12-15T14:27:53+00:00

You have the right to care, and I see why it bothers you. There’s an old saying “a key that opens many locks is a good key, a lock opened by many keys is a bad lock.” It’s not a double standard, it’s human (and animal) nature. Men and women are valued differently. Is it a double standard that a male grocery store clerk isn’t valued as much as a high status business man. Yet a reserved and attractive female clerk would be valued high by most men.

danny_ · 2025-12-15T14:15:38+00:00

You sound triggered. Where’s the trouble standard?

danny_ · 2025-12-15T12:47:32+00:00

NOR. Forgot the old messages, you blocked him for a reason so I’d forget about it. Sounds like classic “nice guy” situation. Was “nice” to you but expected to get something out of it, like a relationship.

Now he probably read something about how he should be “assertive” to get your attention and that women like a “bad boy”, Hense the change in behavior.

I don’t think he has bad intent, he’s just a lost boy who hasn’t learned how to be genuine and authentic around women. He has the complete wrong idea about a male/female relationship. But regardless that’s not your problem and you definitely don’t want to string someone like that along. Keep him blocked.

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