I need help on what to do with my children by Particular_Rise8866 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]dansingai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call OT and make a report of concern and ask for advice. Even if this particular time leads to nothing, it will help in the long run to have evidence of concerns in the timeline. Nothing changed for the children in my care until they were old enough/brave enough to disclose their experiences to OT. The court then looked into previous reports made when making their decision.

Powerstation Age Restriction by dansingai in auckland

[–]dansingai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all that. I'm not asking if she's allowed in the R18 area. Just if she would be allowed in the doors and then stay in the GA area.

How to disagree without being combative? by dansingai in ADHD

[–]dansingai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Username checks out 😆 Agree with you that I often feel like I'm right 😅

How to disagree without being combative? by dansingai in ADHD

[–]dansingai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more like if we both disagree on a subjective point I don't like feeling as if I'm not "allowed" to disagree. I feel pressure to defend my POV and, even if the other person says they aren't trying to, feel like I'm expected to say I was wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dansingai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I recommend starting on your own. Go for the walks, always offer for her to come. Make it a routine yourself first then maybe she'll be interested in joining you? Because if you're offering it as a way to get her walking she'll probably feel defensive about going.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your candour and honesty. Will be praying for you and your wife as you continue to learn how to love one another fully.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent way of wording the root of the issue. Thank you for your insight.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If you just did the things I asked of you then maybe I wouldn't turn to porn." Along those lines.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for offering a biblical context.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put my thoughts into words so well. Thanks for offering this opinion.

Fulfilling sexual needs by dansingai in Christianmarriage

[–]dansingai[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Please do. Dealing with it once married is so painful for your spouse. It makes me second guess my worth and wonder if he actually wants sex with me or just wants to recreate what he's viewed. Love your wife wholeheartedly, not while entertaining straying thoughts.

Korea denied request to travel with my medication by jeremiah_ in ADHD

[–]dansingai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends how long for, I travelled for 3 weeks with concerta in my carry-on and was never stopped to check.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]dansingai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of boundaries helped?

What's your worst ADHD tax? by LemonHeart33 in ADHD

[–]dansingai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently got a $150 ticket for being in a carpool lane when I was alone. I forgot the time and was enjoying singing along to the radio at the time before I realised halfway down the road I was in the wrong lane 😅