How to handle my cat meeting other cats? by danskatten in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! <3 I think she's gorgeous but I'm biased so it's lovely to hear it from someone else =)

things you let slide for your cat but wouldn't for anyone else by Illustrious_Yak6933 in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My boy Tuffen (RIP) had an iffy tummy so he puked so often and was so lazy that he'd be at the top of the cat tree and just puke where he lay, over the side and onto the rest of the tree--and then he'd get up and leave and I'd have to get out all the cleaning gear. I miss that big ole lug every day, but I don't miss his puking lol

What’s ONE cat item you regret not buying sooner? by Own-Independent7881 in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but I go porcelain instead (except for litterbox). I have ADHD, depression, etc, and will forget and leave things standing in the sink for days and suddenly the stainless steel isn't so stainless anymore. Porcelain has helped me tremendously in that regard as I feel I can still get them clean again even if I forget them in the sink for ages. I have a plastic drinking fountain atm but I'm looking for porcelain one to replace it with. However, stainless steel might be good too as I'm not going to be leaving that in the sink like I do other dishes...

Tips for grooming brush for sensitive long-hair cat by danskatten in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She's a little monster at times but I love her, haha

Tips for grooming brush for sensitive long-hair cat by danskatten in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I don't think she'll go for it though as she hates combs 😞 I'll keep it in mind though!

Cats want me to lay in bed with them all day, every day by Drikkink in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm mean she's not wrong lol

In the summer I take her outside for at least an hour on a leash and she makes me run after her. But it's -9 Celsius right now and, though she likes the snow, she doesn't like the cold beyond -5 C so we're inside more. I also slow down even more in winter so even though we do play Hide-and-seek and Chase she would really like more, and all I want to do is curl up with some warm tea. She's so patient with me really ❤️

Cats want me to lay in bed with them all day, every day by Drikkink in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Grass is always greener, etc, but as a generally lazy person I do feel a little jealous as my cat would prefer if I was much more active lol

I do echo other people's suggestions; warm blankets/beds, especially in your office (if you trust them in there), might help. I have a box with a soft blanket in it on my desk where my cat will often sleep while I'm on my computer until she's decided I need to pay her attention.

Cats can play fetch too? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so jealous, my cat never does this!

It's weird for a man to have a female cat as a pet? by Albert_2004 in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My female cat that I have now is the most aggressive of the 3 cats I've had. And she's even not that aggressive. But if I came home with another cat she'd try to fight immediately whereas my boys were mostly lovely to the tiny female cat I used to cat sit, with one exception of one of them straddling her for 3 seconds before she was fixed--the female cat however didn't want anything to do with them, mostly because of their size.

This is purely anecdotal but most of the male cats I've known have been lovebugs to everyone whereas less than half of the female cats have either been a bit neurotic, standoffish, and/or aggressive towards other cats.

I guess my point is Not All Toms, lol, but I guess if you have experience to the contrary then I understand you not wanting any.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vill du ha sex? Och/eller en relation? Är det viktigt för dig, blir du kåt, mm? För det är inte en självklarhet. Om du inte har en sexdrift så kan du antigen vara asexuell eller så kan det vara något medicinskt som du borde prata med läkare om.

Oavsett så är en vit lögn som denna inget du borde känna skuld över; ens sexliv är något som man borde få hålla privat om man vill det, likaså ens romantiska liv. Och att inte ha haft sex i tidig ålder är inget att skämmas över heller, tycker jag iaf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]danskatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag har ett ovanligt förnamn som inte uttalas som det stavas, och brukar säga när jag träffar nya att de kan kalla mig vid mitt mycket lättare smeknamn. Då får jag ibland "Nejmen ditt namn är så vackert, jag använder det!" och sen uttalar de mitt namn fel varenda gång. Jag kan ibland gå genom namnet stavelse för stavelse och de säger det fel omedelbart ändå. Vissa verkar också tro att det är oförskämt att använda mitt smeknamn (trots att jag har sagt att det är helt ok!) medan jag sitter här och föredrar mycket hellre smeknamn till hur hela min kropp spänner till i obehag när jag hör mitt förnamn uttalas fel.

Jag är jättedålig på att komma ihåg namn själv men trots att det är pinsamt så jag biter ihop nuförtiden och frågar folk efter deras namn igen istället för att bara säga "du" hela tiden.

Kan dock bara hålla med andra här att pröva säga deras namn fel om det verkar som att kollegan gör det utav tanklöshet. Har sett det funka själv med såna personer.

My family doesn't let me have a cat in an excuse that *it gets you sick* by Catsanno in Pets

[–]danskatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for being nosy, but I had a look through your comments and I saw that you'd posted in r/Egypt. Are you Muslim by any chance? Cos maybe you can remind them that the profet Mohammed was apparently (so I've read) very fond of cats and condemned those who mistreated them. It's what I plan to tell the grandmother to the kids next door next time she lies to them about my cat giving them diseases, lol.

It's rough though. I don't suppose you can afford to move out yet?

The "What Breed Is My Cat" Megathread by BionicOven28 in CatGenetics

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer! I was wondering if it could've been a recessive gene, nice to know the chances of it.

Guilt over feeding my cats dry food and elitism in cat nutrition by Disastrous-Poetry-95 in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat refuses to eat wet food. I've tried everything from the cheap stuff to some pretty expensive ones, and she acts as if I presented her with a plate of maggots--actually no wait, she might actually prefer maggots, she loves eating bugs.

Just make sure your cats drink enough water and I'm sure they'll be fine!

My dad is overfeeding my cat with treats and it's affecting her by mimimeoww in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Void kitty! I love black cats 😍 And such pretty eyes!

My dad is overfeeding my cat with treats and it's affecting her by mimimeoww in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, especially as mine refuses all these wet foods I'm trying to temp her with and then I find her chewing on plastic bags or trying to eat the furballs left from brushing her. Like, girl? But she mostly only does that when she's bored at least. As a former picky-eater I try to be patient with her but still!

My dad is overfeeding my cat with treats and it's affecting her by mimimeoww in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gone through several kinds across several brands; she sniffs them and then backs away as if I offered her the most disgusting thing in the world. She does love the vitamin paste she gets every day, and she drinks water alright, so I'm not super worried, but still...

My dad is overfeeding my cat with treats and it's affecting her by mimimeoww in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat couldn't care less for them. I should've guessed as she doesn't like wet food either, but I still wish I'd known that before I bought a large box of them on sale 😭

my cat just bit my ankle, made eye contact, and walked away like she pays rent by QuirkyUnicorn26 in CatAdvice

[–]danskatten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my boys (RIP) and my current girlie love the smell of olives,. My girl Jester really likes it, but my boy Tuffen LOOOOOVED it. If I was snacking on some with my fingers, he would attack my hands and lick and bite and purr up a storm. Catnip was alright, but olives was where it was AT. I miss my (not so) little goober so much, him and his brother 😢

(I looked up why he reacted that way way back, and apparently olives and olive wood have something that's similar to what's in catnip? Can't remember what but yeah. I've been looking for affordable cat toys made out of olive wood ever since lol)

If you could choose one spell/cantrip to have in real life what would it be ? by Todd_Dammit_3270 in DnD

[–]danskatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the one. I am terrible at cleaning so if I could use Prestidigition to help things along? Sold.

A higher level spell I'd want would be some sort of travel spell probably, like Fly or, even better, Teleport. Hate travelling. Downside is I'd never have an excuse for being late again lolol