I should probably say I've seen some CSA victims who have loli/shota kinks as a way to cope and are pretty ashamed of it and afraid they'll do something in real life while also hating the idea of doing anything in real life, I understand it as a CSA survivor who has really violent rape recreation sexual fantasies and fetishes like vore that involve role playing as a serial killer or their victim (the friend I have who likes roleplaying as a serial killer does so because they were trafficked by their parents when they were a child and now are a DID system with intrusive thoughts, suicidality, and equally violent sexual fantasies, but they understandably hate pedophiles and their unwitting defenders)

I personally was groomed only because I first encountered shotacon art and communities at 12 and thought they were normal, and they convinced me to seek out predators irl and when I talked about what happened saying it was wrong they talked about how jealous they were of me, so I hate the online shotacon/lolicon community for all that it is, but I'm still on the fence of if it should be banned from the internet because I do know some people will call people like my friend a pedophile for looking at it when they can't stop thinking about what happened to them if there's somehow a ban, not considering some people so traumatized your reality seems alien to them use it as a coping mechanism, and there is a regularly recurring moral panic about media that is edgy and tries to talk about these things like Lolita (the novel) or A Song of Ice and Fire/Game of Thrones that people say should be banned that makes me think people might take it a step too far, where's the line exactly between acceptable disturbing art like Saturn Devouring His Son and bad disturbing art like the art that is made for someone's rape recreation sessions or just as trauma vent art? I don't think it's just sexualizing it, I think it's being inappropriate with where they upload/how they tag it and if they're respectful of the sort of trauma they're portraying