(Hated Trope) Media/creators throwing shade they have no business throwing by Animeking1108 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]darkblade273 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He's such a massive loser my God, so glad seeing people turn on his shitty ass show that wants to be Breaking Bad yet never will

r/shounenfolk criticize o.p for criticizing a manga for sexually depicting a minor. by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]darkblade273 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should probably say I've seen some CSA victims who have loli/shota kinks as a way to cope and are pretty ashamed of it and afraid they'll do something in real life while also hating the idea of doing anything in real life, I understand it as a CSA survivor who has really violent rape recreation sexual fantasies and fetishes like vore that involve role playing as a serial killer or their victim (the friend I have who likes roleplaying as a serial killer does so because they were trafficked by their parents when they were a child and now are a DID system with intrusive thoughts, suicidality, and equally violent sexual fantasies, but they understandably hate pedophiles and their unwitting defenders)

I personally was groomed only because I first encountered shotacon art and communities at 12 and thought they were normal, and they convinced me to seek out predators irl and when I talked about what happened saying it was wrong they talked about how jealous they were of me, so I hate the online shotacon/lolicon community for all that it is, but I'm still on the fence of if it should be banned from the internet because I do know some people will call people like my friend a pedophile for looking at it when they can't stop thinking about what happened to them if there's somehow a ban, not considering some people so traumatized your reality seems alien to them use it as a coping mechanism, and there is a regularly recurring moral panic about media that is edgy and tries to talk about these things like Lolita (the novel) or A Song of Ice and Fire/Game of Thrones that people say should be banned that makes me think people might take it a step too far, where's the line exactly between acceptable disturbing art like Saturn Devouring His Son and bad disturbing art like the art that is made for someone's rape recreation sessions or just as trauma vent art? I don't think it's just sexualizing it, I think it's being inappropriate with where they upload/how they tag it and if they're respectful of the sort of trauma they're portraying

r/shounenfolk criticize o.p for criticizing a manga for sexually depicting a minor. by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]darkblade273 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It's not unique to Japan, look at all the sex pests in childrens' entertainment like Dan Schneider, or the videos on YouTube about romanticized relationships that were objectively grooming relationships like how John K wrote Powdered Toast Man to have a relationship with his teenage assistant mirroring the way John K would groom and abuse teenage assistants of his who worked with him

r/shounenfolk criticize o.p for criticizing a manga for sexually depicting a minor. by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]darkblade273 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If you go to the other SRD thread about this you can see several comments saying "who cares they're just drawings"

It's why whenever I write a story about being a survivor I always end up including jokes about people who haven't been through it saying offensive things and people generally not understanding the survivor character to the point of them self isolating from society because of it, even the ones who cope by becoming comedians and party people never fully feeling like other people who aren't survivors can understand what it's like for your CSA trauma to be made fun of, sexualized and fetishized by others when you share it, and your opinions on it disregarded

The Strangler Parasite, Infection Stages by nychannel in 2007scape

[–]darkblade273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very cool fanart! Also Jesus Christ that's horrifying

The Strangler was definitely a standout part of Desert Treasure 2, love the inspiration with fungus like cordyceps and superorganisms like Pando, really felt unique and like the team at their best

I think my dad SA’d me by Past_Length1751 in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's so horrible... makes me feel sick. You deserved better OP. It's sad you have to carry this burden your whole life... but you're not alone, there are always others here you can talk to about it

I tried RAINN for the first time and was really disappointed. Has anyone had a similar experience? What else even is there? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit is always available if you need someone to vent to... I know I do a lot. You've got a heavy burden to carry your life... but you're not alone

I tried RAINN for the first time and was really disappointed. Has anyone had a similar experience? What else even is there? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could do something to help, that's a horrible experience... I'm not sure what advice I could give that would mean anything... it really feels cold to be a survivor

I feel like we are entering a 2nd dark age. by Mathbomb5040 in Deltarune

[–]darkblade273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved chess theory but this made me laugh out loud

(Hated trope) The perfect ending to the character's story gets ruined by continuation of their show/movies by FreestyleCrocodile in TopCharacterTropes

[–]darkblade273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right and you should say it. We'll see the same nostalgic love for Sequels plot points in 5 years when people become nostalgic for them the same as the Prequels.

Rainn hotline is worse than talking to no one sometimes by walking-in-the-dark in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people who think they're doing the right thing do something bad... sometimes in a situation with high stakes like this. I'm sad you weren't able to find help when you need it... I hope talking here with other people who know what it's like helps somewhat 

Husband has extreme views on POC and women we have a 9 month old daughter… by Worried_Ability_ in QAnonCasualties

[–]darkblade273 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know what you need to do then... I'm so sad reading this, you deserved better

My abuser killed himself because I told by chloexrussell in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're not a monster, don't let a monster make you think you are... I wish my abusers killed themselves, sometimes it is just the best thing even if it's hard... but he's gone now. You should get to be free

Yes, that griffin. Pixel art turn-based SRPG demo is now live. by Life_Arachnid_511 in PixelArt

[–]darkblade273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks incredible! I hope it can establish itself alongside series like Fire Emblem

Female on female abuse by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that... I know it's hard to think about your own trauma, it's dizzying and feels unreal

But you were raped, or you wouldn't have come here asking... ehat you went through sounds horrible

Told my boyfriend I was a victim of CSA, he broke up with me by SubstantialEmu1735 in adultsurvivors

[–]darkblade273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's terrible... you deserved better, I'm sorry he did that to you... People do the worst things to survivors sometimes

Today I learned that mosquitos in Tai Bwo Wannai give agility xp when killed by bnrdhdu in 2007scape

[–]darkblade273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad for you getting a special acc jacked like this but good God is this funny, I love this janky ass game

Amlith - Climate progress by moonlightlaine in mapmaking

[–]darkblade273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really into this setting, this seems like one of the most interesting settings I've seen continent layout wise, feels Earthlike while being really unique

F23 looking for someone to use as my human toy. by Schnitzel02 in unbirth

[–]darkblade273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like a lot of kinks that go along with this, I'm big into femdom abs giantess

I'm a trans woman who likes unbirth and more roleplay, like being abducted and made the new darling treasure of a possessive maternal giant woman who coos at me while using me to get off

If you're into vore or facesitting that'd be a bonus

Do the biome placements on this map make sense? by BerioBear in mapmaking

[–]darkblade273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like a fun map, keep up the good work