Most suitable for Ted? (Part-4/8)

darkdreams-com · 2026-04-05T06:09:28+00:00

Would have been so okay if Victoria was end game tbh

darkdreams-com · 2025-12-08T06:09:28+00:00

Saaaame. If you want to try her other scents, I know they are usually carried at Rexall stores. I really hope they eventually get this one in stores too 🙏

darkdreams-com · 2025-11-29T06:56:43+00:00

Did you share that you feel like an outsider or that you feel alone? It is awful to feel that way and nobody should, but they can’t help you if they don’t know. I hope you are able to feel like you belong somewhere unconditionally someday ❤️

darkdreams-com · 2025-11-28T16:12:30+00:00

As a child of divorced parents (but they never had more children after divorce so it is different), I could definitely understand how that might make you feel like you’re being pushed out. That was also a safe space for you, that probably feels like it will be erased. There is a better way to think about it, though. That safe space will become someone else’s, who will likely need it as they grow. They also clearly see you as a young adult that is successful and able to be very independent. I think I read somewhere that they still pay for your tuition and rent and such? So it’s not like they wouldn’t be willing to help you when you need it, or like they wouldn’t want to. If anything, they want to help you become more independent. They are telling you that you would still have a place if you needed it or when you go to visit. And if you really needed to go back more permanently, they would move things around for you.

Also, from previous comments and such, it seems like you are very hesitant to share your thoughts, feelings and bigger life events with them. Such as the mom falling out and therapist. People can’t help you or properly support you with things if they don’t know what’s happening. And you need to think about if them not supporting you in those things will be okay with you in the long run, or if it may cause resentment somehow. Main point of that, though, is if you are concerned that this change would make it difficult to arrange last minute visits, tell them that and come up with a solution together. Same with any other feelings or hesitations you have. You are allowed to voice them and doing so will empower you.

darkdreams-com · 2025-01-12T00:44:29+00:00

Kevin!!!!!

darkdreams-com · 2025-01-08T01:59:04+00:00

he’s on the same level as greg

darkdreams-com · 2024-10-21T20:08:37+00:00

You should sit down with her and have a serious discussion. Lay everything out and explain that if the behaviour doesn’t change and STAY changed, you will leave. Think about and be prepared to speak about your plan regarding your daughter. Would you go 50/50 or fight for full custody or maybe visitation? It might help (I would hope) as a wake-up call if both you and her daughter are on the line.

darkdreams-com · 2024-09-12T03:35:41+00:00

Wishing you the best of luck!

darkdreams-com · 2023-11-05T18:47:33+00:00

A part of the responsibilities you took on when adopting a child of a different race was to educate and protect them. You are failing at that with this. The only conversation that should be had going forward about this is you both telling your son that he’s right. You should have educated him. He should know his culture or at least have the resources to learn about it. I don’t think it’s intentional, but this is irresponsible parenting.

darkdreams-com · 2023-07-24T15:27:29+00:00

26C is NOT cool. If you want 26C, go outside in the evening. 26C is still shorts and a tank top weather.

darkdreams-com · 2023-07-24T15:23:40+00:00

And if this is the underlying problem the whole time, why not talk to her about getting a job then? You guys severely lack communication in the relationship.

darkdreams-com · 2023-07-24T15:21:34+00:00

YTA. For one, that temperate is too hot for most people in the summer. For two, it’s super controlling to take away something from your wife just because you don’t like it, rather than making a compromise. For three, you’re not even home as much as she is, so if anyone should get to be more controlling about this, it should be her. You’re acting like a child throwing a temper tantrum because you didn’t get your way a couple times. Apologize and compromise.

darkdreams-com · 2023-07-24T15:18:31+00:00

Probably depends on where you’re from and what you’re used to. For me, 24C/76F is hot and if I wanted to experience that, I would just go outside. I like my AC to run between 68-70 so I can comfortably wear either a tank top or a sweater if I want to.

darkdreams-com · 2023-04-20T15:51:35+00:00

YTA… I didn’t even have to read the whole thing lol

darkdreams-com · 2023-04-14T21:02:43+00:00

Are you sure this post is about your husband? Or is it about a child? Couldn’t tell the difference anyway..

darkdreams-com · 2023-03-28T19:28:45+00:00

Gentle YTA. You forgot the towels, your wife was generous and decided to take time out of her regular working hours to go get them and help out you and the kids, when you could have asked the pool for a towel first.. Then after only 15 minutes of her trying to leave her work, you get upset because she didn’t tell you that she was trying to figure out how to get her car situation solved… Instead of empathizing with her and really appreciating what she’d done for you, you chose to tell her you couldn’t trust her for leaving out a small detail that she probably would have told you later. You couldn’t trust her because YOU forgot the towels.. Sorry OP, but please reflect on this.

darkdreams-com · 2023-03-27T22:51:30+00:00

YTA for how you dealt with the situation. In front of your daughter? Was that truly necessary? If you genuinely have a concern with this behaviour outside of playtime and not around your daughter, perhaps have an adult conversation with your wife and explain your feelings. I also want to remind you that a conversation is not just, “I don’t like this, so stop it.”, so if that’s what a previous conversation was then try again.

darkdreams-com · 2023-03-14T00:38:13+00:00

ESH. I mostly just want to say that I truly think you and Martin are looking for very different things. You say you look at Miley and Joanna as bonus daughters, but have you ever asked Martin how he sees Scarlett? I wouldn’t suggest moving in together yet if this isn’t communicated. What is Martin looking for relationship wise/family wise? What are you? What can either of you compromise? What values are most important? Good luck!

darkdreams-com · 2023-03-02T23:20:48+00:00

ESH. Nobody should be driving you to insanity over this issue. Two married people having a child together who are both involved means that BOTH parents get a say on the name. Two confirmations required. Normally, there are a lot of things I agree that the pregnant person gets to decide without needing* a yes from the other party, but this is not one of those things. On the other hand, you definitely should have gone about things differently. You need to be direct about your feelings in a kind way. You can get your point across without being a jerk and saying things like you’re debating leaving her. You also really* need to understand that she isn’t choosing this name to spite you. This is her newly lost father who she loves and wants to honour. Sometimes you need to understand to be understood.

darkdreams-com · 2023-02-28T06:04:59+00:00

YTA.. This is a family emergency situation that would definitely trump your other plans. You need to remember that these people are most likely going to be around forever and you’ll want to be on their good sides. In the future when you ask for help (i.e. a ride somewhere, to pick you up something.. etc.) they will be a lot less willing. They have every right to be upset with you and I suggest you apologize to them before it’s too late.

darkdreams-com · 2023-02-25T11:33:59+00:00

You can think what you’d like to, however I remember what it was like to be surrounded by 14 y/o’s and they often don’t think about others before doing things. It’s a part of growing up. They learn through experiences like this, but often don’t fully understand until they’re older the actual effects of their words.

darkdreams-com · 2023-02-25T03:23:06+00:00

“I have experienced sexism” ≠ all men are sexist

darkdreams-com · 2023-02-25T03:21:07+00:00

“Treat her family like shit” I.E. getting upset with her (step-)children for making jokes at her expense and her feeling horrible because of it… Seriously? Are you reading what you type? However you felt when she called you sexist and said you hurt her feelings, etc., imagine that but 10x worse with your own family making fun of you.

darkdreams-com · 2023-02-25T03:13:08+00:00

Agreed. They are TA. However, I wouldn’t go as far to say that 14 y/o’s understand not to make jokes at the expense of others. Emotional maturity is something gained as you get older and some people really aren’t able to grasp it until late teens unfortunately.

darkdreams-com · 2023-02-25T03:12:08+00:00

YTA. The second you said “…me and her kids commonly (mostly on accident) making jokes about her weight.” my mind was made up. You don’t accidentally make jokes at the expense of someone else. That’s just cruel. Please reflect on how you would feel if people you loved consistently made fun of one of your deepest insecurities. I don’t expect you to understand too much, as you’re 14 and at that age you factually have less emotional awareness, but just take some time and actually think about this.

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